Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:40 pm
Okay so i've liked this guy for about 4 years...he is my best friend and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Thats fine, but the problem is, i can't seem to get over him...no matter what i do, i can't stop thinkin bout him or comparing other guys to him...does anyone have any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xO_Brok3n_x21 answered Thursday January 13 2005, 4:20 pm: hey i know how you feel, i've been obsessed with this guy for a couple years aswell...as a matter of fact i just recently started getting over him, the first thing you should do is consider the fact that your just better off as friends ( sometimes that may hurt but it's better than being nothing) second, you should think of reasons why it wouldn't work out between you two, third try to look for a new love ( it may be hard at first but you'll find one) and you should also get out more and hang with friends, have fun and stop dwelling over it..also, maybe talking to him might help, telling him how you feel about it, sometimes it works,it's worth a try..your time with him will come, maybe not now but eventually it will, surprises like that sometimes just come to you when you least expect it..good luck ..XoX KT [ xO_Brok3n_x21's advice column | Ask xO_Brok3n_x21 A Question ]
Witty answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 11:33 pm: You're doing it all wrong. The problem is your trying. So stop trying. Hope I could help. [ Witty's advice column | Ask Witty A Question ]
LifeEqualsCheese answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 11:06 pm: Start spending time with other people! I'm not telling you to ditch him, just hang out with some of your girl friends and other guys. Let loose and have some fun without him. Soon enough, I think your feelings will gradually die away. [ LifeEqualsCheese's advice column | Ask LifeEqualsCheese A Question ]
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:52 pm: OMG, I totally know your situation. It's REALLY hard, but what you need to do is get yourself involved in as many things as you can, and meet as many new people as you can, and hopefully someone new will replace him for that position.. I hope I helped. [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:43 pm: You just have to start flirting with other guys. It'll be hard at first, but you'll eventually stop thinking about him and you'll be thinking about someone else! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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