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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get. (link)
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Well, you're toying with the law, here. I wouldn't do anything until she turns 18. The law gives you a reason not to screw over her relationship with her boyfriend, and you won't make a fool of yourself attempting to tell her that you like her. But if you really like her alot, then I say screw the law.
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im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks (link)
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Listen to me, you are 13. There is no need to make out with a guy or have a boyfriend just because you're jealous. If you're 13 and you haven't made out with someone, you're not prude. You're just damn smart.
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I jus got signed with an agent for my voice!! and in 3 weeks im supposed to go to L.A. to record my first cd!! im so excited...but im really nervous and sad ill have to leave my friends in my freshman year. i know i should take the job considering ill be BiG and i really wanna see my name in lights but im so scared ill lose my friends while im gone and all the new friends ill make (celebs maybe :)) will not turn out to be real and ill be all alone! what to do!? HELP! (link)
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Congratulations! That's really cool. You should take every opportunity you get. It's great that you care for your friends, but this is for you, not them. If they are your true friends, they won't just drop you, and if they do, you'll still have family.
Again, congratulations. I hope everything goes well!
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Christians...
- I just wanted to know that if you read the bible can you really find all the answers to your questions. I've heard that you can...and I just wanted to know if it was worth your time...
- And idk, I want to become a better person. Always have wanted too. And I have a bf and we just started dating and like the more I think about it, its not the kind of relationship I want right now b/c something is going to happen b/c theres that attraction there...and we're young and stupid, what do I do? (link)
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I think it's really good that you want to be a better person. If you don't think it's the relationship you want or need, break up with him. You know yourself and what your comfortable with.
I don't think that the Bible has all the answers because it can be very contradictory, but, hey, I'm not a Christian.
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My friend katie and lisa and this other girl carly, were waiting after practice for their rides and carly had Katies cell phone and she threw it on lisa to get her to pay attention. Since Lisa wasn't paying attention, she didn't catch it, so it bounced off her stomach and hit the ground and it kinda broke, some pieces came off and the front is all messed up. Carly acted liek it was nothing, and didn't really apologize. My questions are:
1. Do you think Carly should pay a small price to get it fixed or for consulation? Or have her apologize.
2. If so, how should katie approach her and ask for either money or an apology?
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Yes, Carly should definitely apologize and possibly even pay for damages. It isn't her property so she shouldn't have thrown it.
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Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder
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Nope, you just need to have some self confidence in yourself. Just say what you want to say, and if people think you're strange then they're missing out on a great friend.
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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks (link)
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Aveeno Daily Moisturizer is good. It might sting a bit when you first put it on, but if you apply it daily, the stinging will go away along with your dryness. Make sure you are also using a cleanser for dry skin, so it doesn't strip the oil that you need.
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hows does a person shed some weight quickly?? ive been trying to lose weight for along time now and nothing seems to work. i work out 3 hours a day and that doesnt help much either.. and im not good for holding diets. i do eat healty thou... any advice?
and my friend has bulemia.. im trying to help her.. how can i help her stop and how on earth does she make her self throw up? (link)
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It's good that you're eating healthy and excercising, but don't overstress yourself. Drink lots of water because that will fill you up so you won't have food cravings. You don't even have to give up everything you like, just cut back. It's all in the moderation.
About your friend, tell somebody who can help her - a teacher, parents, anybody.
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2. I want my braces to not stand out so much (right now I have hot pink rubberbands) and I was thinking about getting either clear or white rubberbands. But I heard that the white rubberbands make your teeth look yellow. And I heard that the clear rubberbands turn the color of whatever food you eat. Is this true?? Does anybody have clear or white rubberbands that could give me some advice?? Help!! Thanks!! (link)
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Yes, it is true that clear rubber bands tend to turn into the color of the food you've eaten. White rubber bands don't make your teeth look yellow, but they turn yellow-ish if you don't brush them carefully. If you still want to get them, make sure to brush very thoroughly after every meal.
Braces aren't a big deal, don't worry about it. They're so common now, nobody is going to poke fun of you. Make them a fashion accessory and have them match what you're wearing each month. They'll be off in a bit, and you'll have straight teeth, so it's not something to stress over.
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16/f. I really want to be an actress. Its totally possible for me too. I only live a half an hour away from Hollywood/Burbank and all the other cities with studios. I've been an extra in a few films and I've been to many tapings of shows. I often go to http://www.casting-call.us can you give me some advice on auditions or any sites that post auditions? Thanks. (link)
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It would probably help you to get an agent, if you don't already have one. They can get you scripts and auditions that they think you would like.
Good luck!
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Me n my two friends Lizzie n Jess are going to the movies. Lizzie is riding with her cousin, and is going to be hanging out with her the whole time. Me n Jess hate Lizzies cousin, and don't want to ride with her, because we've had trouble with her cuz in the past. So, me n Jess have a ride there BUT not a ride home. We're meeting Lizzies boyfriend, and Lizzies like one of my best friends.. We asked her bf to take us home n he said sure. But Lizzies pissed and doesn't want us to. I'm not like that, and I'm not going to do anything with him, or act like a whore around him n stuff. I don't think she trusts me. She acts like she doesn't care, but you can tell when she does. What should I do? (link)
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Just don't go. You don't have to go everywhere they go. If you don't like who they're hanging out with,there is no need for you to hang out with them too. Chill with some other friends, or just hang around the house. If she doesn't trust you then she's not really your best friend, is she?
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Okay so i've liked this guy for about 4 years...he is my best friend and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Thats fine, but the problem is, i can't seem to get over him...no matter what i do, i can't stop thinkin bout him or comparing other guys to him...does anyone have any advice? (link)
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Start spending time with other people! I'm not telling you to ditch him, just hang out with some of your girl friends and other guys. Let loose and have some fun without him. Soon enough, I think your feelings will gradually die away.
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I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx! (link)
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I don't think white blonde is right for you with your skin coloring. I also have tan skin and dark hair, and I know that blonde is not my color. If you want to go lighter, go for a chestnut brown or a dark red. Even better, just get highlights to brighten up your natural color. Lighter browns and light reds would look good.
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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them? (link)
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I haven't had that happen to me, but it sounds like he doesn't love you at all. You have to take into consideration:
1.) How long have you been going out? If it has been less than 6-8 months, then I doubt it's really 'love'.
2.) How old are both of you? If you are 11-14 years old, I don't think it's serious.
Overall, I think it's just a 'nice' way to dump someone. Wallow for a few days then move on. It's his problem he dumped you.
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Well, My friend and i are both 13 years old and girls. I asked my best friend if she would like to experiment again and she didn't mind. I was wondering could there be a possibility that she likes me or just likes what we did together because when i asked her she said it was no problem, but she also added we shouldn't do it too often , (Nothing "below the belt"). If it is normal does anyone out there know anything else we can experiment with each other above the belt and below. I'm also wondering is it common for me as a African American girl to be experimenting with my Polish American bff? I rate high. Holla back!! (link)
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Yes, she could like you, but I doubt that it will turn into an actual big relationship. It's kind of an 'experimental phase' so I wouldn't take it too seriously.
I don't see African Americans with Polish American people too often, but that doesn't mean it can't happen. Don't care what others think; if she's your best friend, who are others to judge you?
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Ok. The guy i like likes me too. But the thing is he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend or anything! we were talkin and i asked him why he hadn't and then he's all like "what you wanna go see a movie?" GOD! WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM!?!?! HELP PLEASE! (link)
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You have three choices here:
1.) You could ask him out since you already know that he likes you back.
2.) You can just forget about him. If you're dropping not-so-subtle hints, and he still doesn't get it, then it's time to move on.
3.) You can keep on dropping big hints until he finally comes around and asks you out. It may take a while before he asks you to be his girlfriend; it depends on how clueless he is.
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I have this friend and i always tell her who i like and she talks to him about me, like not in a bad way but in a good way, but every person i like they end up likeing her! what do i do!? (link)
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Simple, don't tell people who you like unless you want them (and the rest of the school) to know.
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what should I do I had this friend named Matthew and latly he has not been acting like a friend he sits around and let people talk about me like I am nothing right in front of my face he try to play stuff off but I see right thru him and he talks about wanting me to be his girlfriend. he show off in front of people like that inpresses me he acts like a jerk
plz help me Christine15 I am 15 and a female (link)
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He wants you to be his girlfriend? Well tell him that doing stupid stuff isn't going to impress you. If he doesn't stop it, why are you waiting on a jerk? Move on and find someone else who will appreciate you and knows how to act like a gentleman.
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