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Member Since: November 7, 2004
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Last Update: December 6, 2004
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theres this guy who really likes me and i think i might like him but i dont want to go out with him because i dont think i like him..i dont know im confused! PLEASE HELP

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well thats not something i can really help you with sweety sry..u have to decide for your self if you like him or not...if you like him go out with him!...or even if u like him a little bit then.. go out with him...you might end up likeing him more than you thought you did in the end...but if you arent attracted to him at all dont go for it!....


Okay, I am 12 years old and female. Me and my friends are in a huge fight and its not just a couple of friends, its the POPULAR girls, the clique. And they are mad at me because I am hanging out with one of their former friends. They won't really be nice to either one of us and rumors are flying EVERYWHERE that isn't even true! Like when I am not hanging around michelle, they are fine but when I am they totally ignore me and rub it in my face. I have tried talking to them, I even sent an email, what should I do?

-"Karen" (link)
well friends are friend..and unless u are THAT worried about popularity..it shouldnt matter hang out with who you want to! Its your life there your friends to! Or just pick one and stop hanging out with the other! But make sure you make the right choice dont pick the ones who will ditch you in like a week!


i have been going out with this guy for 3 and a half years. I love him sooo much...but i don't wanna date someone my whole highscool years. I think he could be the one but... i think i need time to be alone and date other people to see if he is the one. I broke up with him but he said to tell him when time was up and i wanted him back! he said he would wait for me.But not sure if he is rite for me. Should i go back out with him...or break time? (link)
well three years has to mean something right?! .... and if you think he is the one..then dont give him up for anyone! if he is good to you treats you righT! dont ever let that go! there arent many guys like that..and it sounds like since THREE years..he is good to you...and if ur not sure he is right for you why did you date him for three years sweetie..that has to mean something i mean come on look at the obviouse! ... i think yawl should go back out! definatly! ..unless you just dont like him any more...but if you have any feelings for him wat so ever...dont let that feeling ever leave you..bc wat happens if you date other people...and then he starts dating too..and he falls madly in love with someone...then u dont..you've lost your true love...or so you say...


Well ok... i went out with this guy right? And we broke up after like 2 weeks. I still really like him, and my friend said that he is going to ask me out again. I really wanna go out with him again but...theres only one problem...hes kinda gross. He like talks about farts and stuff. Sometimes it grosses me out. I mean he has a funny sense of humor but sometimes he takes it to far. HES SUPER HOT , but I don't know what to say if he ever asks me out! What should i do? (link)
well if you like him you like him u cant help that ... but if he broke up with you...then i really dont think he should get another chance unless he does something OVER the TOP sweet to prove he deserves it!...and the fart thing...thats just that guy the way he is...and theres flaws in everyone! plus..he has good sides too trust me! i noe this kid!


If someone said something really mean to you in here, would you post it? (link)
no probably not...would you?!


hey em! ive been having problems lately! i really like this guy who totally likes my best friend...she is sooo pretty and im really jealous. i dont know wat to do b/c she already likes him but would never go out with him b/c they already went out but it ended badly. him and i get along great, and some ppl spilled and let him kno i liked him...i dont kno wat to do now and i really like him..do u kno some ways to help me get the guy i like???? (link)
well okay..number one rule! dont go for guys your friends like..its ALWAYS better to have a friend then a guy! ... so if she likes him..drop it..and tell her how you feel..she should drop it too....but if she doesnt like him then flirt with him....talk to him alot! but dont be pushy or annoying..guys dont usually like that...try to make friends with him be for anything..then go for the gold...make sure u can talk to him well...but if ur best friend really likes him...then i would suggest leave it alone..there are other fish in the sea


what do u think about sex?>? (link)
wat do u meam exactly like do i believe in doing it young n stuff?


there is this guy i like...well i kinda like him, but like if we went out it would make me look bad...u kno like it will lower my social status, and we dont want that to happen. Him and i get along really well and we always flirt! i kno i could have him if i wanted cuz everyone tells me he likes me, and im ready to go out with someone but i dont want the extra baggage that comes with me dating a guy lower on the socail scale wat should i do? (link)
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do u think popularity really matters? (link)
not really..why r u asking?


I have a crush on this boy at school. We are good friends (kind of), he flirts with me alot, and he knows I like him. I don't know if he likes me or not. He seems like he does but he hasn't asked me out yet. And he is the kind of boy who will ask a girl out if he likes them. So, what should I do? Should I ask him out or what?

-Jenna

P.S. I am 12 and female (link)
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umm well i like this guy..ive liked for like a long time! n hes been a great friend for a long time! n i found out about 5 months ago hes liked me too for a while..but like last month he emailed me n told me he didnt like me nemore..soo that stunk. but my friend asked himn if he liked me like last week. n he said it was complicated. so i dunno. i think he might like me but he just doesnt want to get into anything until hes ready to have a bf. but also hes always flirting with one of my friends, which stinks! so should i talk to him n ask him if he still likes me?..or should i just like lay low for a while n wait till he comes to me? n i love you!! hehe! (link)
loL! i lOvE u tOo! wHo eVer yA arE! uMm....okay..well its always a happy ending when you end up with your best guy friend! thats my favorite ending..lol next to the growing up together pat..lol but anyways! um..definatly show him ur interesteD! ... but dont make it seem like your going to fight ur best friend for him! bc thats just nonsense! also...talk to him and ask him why al the sudden he doesnt like you...bc that just does not make sense...may b he just got shy that you were in to him toO..but i think that u should email him or textd him or something n talk it over..be casual at first then smooth into it! but make sure u get ur answer if he still likes you or not...bc all guys get those jitters when a girl likes them back..then they try to make us jealouse! oo boys! geez! lol


im not sure if he likes me because we were having tons of fun together until he found out that i liked him and now we still talk a little but not a whole lot i dont know if he is shy or what but i really miss having fun with him and also my brother doesnt want me to go out with him because he is one of his team mates and he was going to ask me out but now i am not sure and my brother said that if i go out with him he will hurt him so i dont know what to do!!! (link)
first of all does he like you? if he does like you then i say u should go for it...and talk to your brother..and tell him that if he loves you he wont hurt a hair on his head! bc why would ur brother wanna hurt something or someone who makes you happy thats just rediculouse! but as for the guy...hes prolly just shy that he found out u like him tOo..soO..just act like u dont like him..like u did b4 and just be casual about it and keep talking to him n stuff..


how can only a true friend tell you whats rite and whats wrong... how come only a true friend can tell you how to live your life... does a true friend really do that? do they tell you when yoru being dumb? do they tell you that they know somethings wrong with you? WhAt Is A tRuE FriEnD? AnD hOw Do I KnOw WhEn IvE fOuNd ThAt TrUe FriEnd? (link)
a *true friend is someone who is ALwaYS there for you no matter wat! they call u when ur sick and ask if your okay! bc they know that u wil lalways be there to talk to them if they were sick..a true friend shouldnt tell you how to live your life but you should both help eachother out in making decisions in your life...they might tell you when ur being dumb..but it depends on the situation...a true friend is when there always there through thick and thin they never lie to you they always chose to be with you..and key thing...they never leave your side no matter wat!...with out this there definatly NOT a true friend..and when u do find that true friend u wil know..because they will be there for you and you will noe because u will stay friends for a while..and they will always come to you first thing they do! like say your on a bus full of people..and they will come straight to you and sit by you..thats how you noe..true friends ALWAYS will be by urside


I have this problem where i cant find out which one of my friends is true... its like i cant sort them out... expeccially at school... i dont get along with most of them because they hate me.. how do i get my old friends back? they friends that they were when i first met them.. or do i just need to change? (link)
definatly dont change! talk to ur friends..and tell them how you feel..and if they chose not to listen to you then thats there loss..friends are supost to be there till the end..and they should always chose you! othere wise they were never true friends to begin with...why do u think they all hate u?


im tired of never finding the right guy ..but theres this one and hes so perfect and i *think* hes got a thing for me but not sure we talk alot and stuff in flirt but idk i want him...BaD i wish i could find mr.Right :/ (link)
okay..now heres one i can relate toO!...i mean u spend all this time looking for mr.right..bc u see all ur friends..with guys or u see like other people with guys n stuf..n u have guys that like you but u just want mr.right! well...if u like thsi guy try him out! i bet u anything he has a thing for u even if its little thing! and..on the other side...stop trying to find mr.right .. and mr.right will come to you!...good things come to those who wait..i find thats really true


well i like this one guy but i haven't known him that long. hes super cute but i don't know if he likes me back? when we first met he tried to get me to hook him up with this other girl but she turned him down and so he hungout with me. i could stay with this guy and try to get him to like me, or i can go to these other guys that like me and easily go out with them. what should i do? choose hott guy i like or choose okay guys who like me? (link)
well if theres other hot guys that like you..then go for them...or if theres even just a kind of cute guy that likes you go with him..because...the ones who arent as cute..usually dont end up breaking your heart...but if thers no other cute guys that "fit your standards"...then go for the hot one! it never hurts to have a really hot guy be ur man!...


hey its me again....ok..its not that he is prude or anything..cuz he ISNT a virgin..its just that idk if he really WANTS to go out with me b/c he "has his eye" on this other girl...but i really do like him..alot! but idk..because im afriad that if i wait too long he may start to like the other girl more and i dont want that to happen...what should i do? (link)
okay..well in that case..scratch the whole..go for another guy thing!..bc if u do he will jsut use that other girl to make you mad!...soOo hm...well definatly keep talking to him...and dont let that girl take your man!...talk to him and still try to hint him asking you out!...how long has he liked this other girl?


There is this guy that i like and i know he likes me to. we have liked eachother for a while now. he tell people he likes me and i tell people i like him. but he hasnt asked me out yet. i know he likes me but im not sure if he likes me enough to go out with me. should i keep waiting or go for someone else who i know would ask me out? (link)
well..if you really like him and you know for a fact he likes you..then i say stick with it...may b u should hint to some of his friends to get him to ask you out..or just go straight for it and talk to him...i mean wat could it hurt if you like him n he likes you...but if he still doesnt ask you out after that..try someone new...who knows that might even make this guy jealouse..and then he will regret never asking you out...then may b even ask you out!




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