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Okay so i've liked this guy for about 4 years...he is my best friend and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Thats fine, but the problem is, i can't seem to get over him...no matter what i do, i can't stop thinkin bout him or comparing other guys to him...does anyone have any advice? (link)
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You're doing it all wrong. The problem is your trying. So stop trying. Hope I could help.
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Well theirs this guy, we'll call him Trevor lol. I like Trevor and he likes me, we went out before but only for a day and Im not even sure if we were going out. We flirt and talk sometimes but not that much anymore because I dont see him a lot. Since I dont talk to him so much I was wondering if I wrote him a note what should I say? I really want to go out with him but I just dont know how to ask him in a "mature" way I guess lol so if anyone can answer this and give me advice it'd be awesome thx! (link)
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Well if it makes you feel better, I've been in this situatuation except I never went through in asking him out and letting him know how I truly felt. I ended up being too late. My advice to you is, just be yourself around him, think about what you're going to say and before you have any doubts, just go for it and ask him. No one should really tell you what to say, just guide you. Just be calm.
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Hi. I have been having this problem with my blatter. I haven't been able to tell weather i have to pee or not. I have recently done some drugs that I beleive could mess up my kidney's but I have also had sex. I am wondering if sex can make you not know if you can pee, and also give you a felling of for example. A day when you havent pee'd for a while and you need to go really bad. That feeling...but when u sit down..nothing comes out. Could that be from sex? Or no. Plz do not delete this. After this question I'll never ask it again! Plz and thank you.
-911 help (link)
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go to the doctor and have them check your sphincter
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See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help. (link)
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I think you and your sister should talk about it. No matter what happens, you'll still find yourself a little sad about the matter but, see if your sister really likes him and if there is a possible chance of them being together, unfortunately, you shouldn't stand in the way. Hopefully things will work out and you'll meet a new guy and he'll like u and you'll like him.
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hey everyone. I went out wit this guy awhile ago and then he liked me for quiete awhile after we broke up. Recently he told me he liked me but i told jhim i didnt feel the same way as he felt about me. Now he met my bst friend and they seem to like each other, its sorta akward but im happy that they like each other. I sorta miss him liking me, cuz he is always talking about how great she is and im not sure if i like him again or if i just dont like the idea of him liking her, evne thouh i don't think i do like him. So my question is, im not sure if i should tell my friend how i feel about ir o just not say n e thing cuz i dont want her to worry about something that really isn't a big deal and i am happy for her that she and this guy like each other, and i dont wanna mess n e thing up. So plz help, thanks (link)
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I think you should be happy for them. I've been known to get that way about things and people, but if you find you still have feelings for him, let her know. But things like that usually pass.
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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!! (link)
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Go for him. If he ends up with another girl, you always wonder if u guys had a chance. Trust me I know. Hopefully what I say helps.
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i really need help see i can't get in front of people to present a project in front of my class i start sweating and feel like throwing up and i can't breath and everytime i go up to present a project everybody could see that i am nervous because the way my voice sounds if anybody could give me good advice i really really need it or i will be stuck like this forever. i rate high help a person that is in need PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I have been there before way too many times. To be honest, it took me awhile to get over it somehow. Well I always found that memorizing the material and practicing in front of family or friends work.
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I'm a 17 y/o guy in highschool with a mad crush on this girl that I've known since middle school. In middle school, she tried to hook up with me in an indirect way with obvious hints but then I didn't have any idea what to do so we stayed friends. I guess I was still in that cootie phase of puberty. But now I'm a junior in highschool and recently she's been on my mind alot like crazy. There's something about her that keeps my head stuck on her all the time, other girls might catch my attention but damn she got something special. There are a few guys that are trying to hook up with her but I heard from word of mouf that she likes me. Now that I've given you the intel on my situation, I was wondering what would you do to get the girl or to improve the chances of hooking up with her? I'd be real grateful if you can help me out. (link)
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Well if you heard that she likes you, I think if you guys are friends, you need to tell her how you feel.Or else, you'll always wonder whether or not you guys had a chance. If it makes you feel better, I've kind of been in that situation before only I blew it by not letting the guy know how i felt about him. It will definitely bother you. Just get enough courage and ask her out. Good luck!
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ok well latly i have been remembering times when i was younger that i did not like at all. my family would take pictures of me when i was in the bathtub.(i was about 10 or so at the time) and i recall one time when my grandmother was scratching my back but went below my pants line and i freaked out,ran away and cryed. my mom said i was making to big of a deal out of it. again when i was about 9, my mom would suggest that i sleep topless in the summer if i got hot. i always thought that was strange. plus my family(including aunts and grandparents) spanked my butt for no reason at all. just when they passed me they would. i dont like thinking that they did that to me, but i was younger at the time and i didnt know any better because i though a lot of famlies were like that. well now i know that they're not and theres also a lot of other problems going on in my house(not sexualy). but is there something i can do about it now that im older and know it was wrong...(is it wrong?) or if i should just forget about it because its passes. oh and i have always felt that i would get raped before im 18...please help me if you can... (link)
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I think what they did is wrong if they knew you weren't cool with it. If you weren't, than it is sexual harrassment. But there is something u can do about it which is, let them know how you feel. You have to be honest with them. Let them know that u are not a little girl anymore. I'm sorry that you had to go through those experiences.
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hi im 13 and this may sound really dumb, but there is this girl i really like. she calls me alot. i like that. she is attractive, not by that much but still i like the whole thing, only one problem.......my friends hate her, she is a year older than i but she is new (so she doesnt really know anyone else) i get embarrased wen she calls around my friends and make up lies to them about how i feel. help. (link)
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Well as long as you like her, that's all that matters. Don't pass up on a girl u find pretty cool just because your friends don't. It's not fare to her, and it's not fare to you. Maybe if you let your friends no what it is about her you like and if they see the good qualities in her, who know, they might end up being her friend and her being theirs.
Good Luck!
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Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not (link)
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I definitely think you should. After all you lost your V to him so, he is someone you will remember for the rest of your life. As far being able to be with him, I'm not rerally sure but you should just tell him how you feel anyways. Hopefully I helped you out a little.
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well im 13/f n since i was abut hmm 8 or 9 years old i've liked guys n since that way young i've always gotten hurt in someway or another when i was 8 i liked this guy who was like 11 or 12 n now hes 17 or 16 n he hurt me n then so did some other kid whose 15 now n then a bunch of other guys i liked..n now im scared to get hurt again..my heart cant handle it ne more i just want a nice guy but dont wanna get hurt..is that too much to ask?? (link)
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To be honest, you sound just like my bestfriend who is now 19. All the pain has not gone away for her. Boys will always hurt her but, if you really want to feel love, you have to go to God. And I know some people do not want to hear that, but it's the truth.
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hey im 16 years old/male
ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs
ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me (link)
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If you really love her, stay with her. If you don't, then let her go. Just remember that relationships aren't always easy.
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theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm (link)
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You can't change A PLAYER. And if it may seem like you may change them, you really aren't. That's just who they are.
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well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her (link)
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Tell her whatever you feel.
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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
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Take it easy. Become friends first. Don't do anything with him. If he treats you well as just a friend, he'll treat you well as a girlfriend.
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Hey,its me again with another problem so here goes. Well Ive been seeing this great guy named Luis. I've know him for a long and I really like him but the problem is that he lives about an hour away from me but he has been visiting me at least once a week and everything is great. But the problem is that theres another guy named Jessie who I've known for a long time also but all of a sudden I feel happy and sometimes when its really cold in the mornings he gives me his sweater or hugs me when I'm cold wich is now giving me second thoughts about Luis. Because I know that I really like Luis but i don't know what to do about Jessie. Please help A.S.A.P. (link)
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If you are inlove with Luis, then back off from jessie. If you don't see yourself having a future with Jessie, break up with him
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OMG...i really need to help my friend she needs help fast! she is 14 and she had sex with her boyfriend and she just found out that she iz pregnant. please dont leave advice like "oh she shouldn't have done that because she is a slut" and stuff because we really dont need to hear that and she isn't a slut because she really loves her boyfriend! she doesn't know how to tell her mom and she has no clue what to do she is just crying and crying and i'm trying to comfort her but what should i say (link)
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I'm sorry to tell you this but, I think you should tell your mother.
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um hello. bit curious about something. here goes. sometimes (im a 13 yr old guy) when im around certain ppl, i get really calm, my heart beat steddies, and things are warm and relaxing. it doesnt matter if its around girls or guys, its equal for both. does this happen to others? its been a wide span of ppl its happened to. from the mentally ill to complete strangers. im not bisexual or anything, im only attracted to girls i think guys are the filthiest of beings to stench the earth. anyway, does this happen to others? it doesnt really bother me, im just dreadfully curious. (link)
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To be honest, I don't really know what to say. Can't say that's happend to me before.
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Okay, this is a weird question, I'm sure...but I figure I may as well see what y'all say.
Okay...my boyfriend kind of has a thing for "dirty talk" and I think it's totally ridiculous. I start laughing whenever he says something and expects me to respond. I think it bothers him that I keep giggling, but I can't help it! To me, it just seems so totally fake and stupid...
I mean, I've tried playing along, but I just feel so awkward and stupid, saying things like...that...
Should I try to do something about my giggling problem (lol)? Should I tell him I just can't do it? What do you guys think? (link)
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I think it's pretty stupid and u should talk to him about it. It's not a big deal to go without it and if he complains, he's a baby.
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