Question Posted Monday September 27 2004, 10:47 pm
i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do?
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 4:01 pm: warn him before you get 2getha this is gunna be about a friendship.. that your heart hurt'z too much to get ne more involved. He'll understand if hes worth bein with in the 1st place
advice_giver_pimp answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:44 pm: Listen i no ur hurt but if i dont take chances in ur life u wont live at all. Sorry it was more a moral then a answer
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 11:43 am: give it a chance...every1 gets hurt..thats how life goes...i totally understand that u been hurt once and u dont wanna get hurt again...but u got to take ur chance in life...or else ur always gonna be wondering WUT IF! xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
Lasag69 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 10:46 am: Don't be scared, thats the only thing you should do. If your scared of this guy hurting you, then your going to be scared of all guys if you don't get with him. It may sound weird, but it's true. It's like when your riding a horse, if you get bucked off, you should get right back on, because if you don't your fear will just keep growing, and you'll find it harder and harder to get back onto a horse as time goes by. So you should get with him if you like him, don't be scared, it's true, he may hurt your feelings, but it's all apart of life, and we all just need to accept the good with the bad.
Good Luck :-) [ Lasag69's advice column | Ask Lasag69 A Question ]
Witty answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 2:40 am: Take it easy. Become friends first. Don't do anything with him. If he treats you well as just a friend, he'll treat you well as a girlfriend. [ Witty's advice column | Ask Witty A Question ]
rosebud_01 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:30 am: It could be difficult getting over a bad break up but if you are ready to start going out with that other guy you should go for it because this guy might be different and if you don't give him a chance you will never know.Just remember one thing not all guys are like your ex boyfriend. [ rosebud_01's advice column | Ask rosebud_01 A Question ]
Tarebear109 answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:46 pm: don't let any guy stop you from having fun... i think you should tottaly go for this guy give him a chance if he hurts you it will hurt fro awhile and then you on.... but just cuz one guy hurt you dont let ur ex spoil ur fun [ Tarebear109's advice column | Ask Tarebear109 A Question ]
advicegiver789 answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:10 pm: dont let past relationships get to you and even if it doesnt work out theres probably tons of sweet guy out there for you just go out with him itll most ikely work out if u need anymore help ask a ? on my inbox
hope it works out
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jzchillen answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:00 pm: hey its me well Ive been in the same possision your in b4 but all you can do is follow what you think is the right thing. I mean maybe he won't be as bad as the other guy, get to know him and you might be surprised with what you find out.
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