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Hey~I'm Paige! I'm 15, I have Blonde hair, Blue eyes about 5'5". I love rock music and yeah, well if you wanna know anything else email me! I have been through a lot and have plenty to share! I tell it how I see it so sry if I come across rude! So..I hope I can help!

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there is this guy that i like and he likes me but he is foreign and can speak some english but has trouble some times and i wanna help him do u think he would think i am rude for tryin 2 help him? and i was wonderin if u know of neways u can tell that a guy is about 2 ask u out ( dumb i know lol but i am curious) cuz that guy keeps sayin he is thinkin about me and stuff he is so sweet and i wanna go out wit him but i am 2 shy 2 say nething about it ? HELP i will rate you!!!

Hey~Well you could ask him like "hey if you ever want any help with anything just let me know" He will want help, because he doesn't know much english! ~Paige~

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one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help

Hey~Trust me my friend did that and omg it was kinda scary!!! He might be doing it for both, what you can do is talk to him and tell him before he thinks about it please call you and talk it out! It worked for me and if that doesn't work then talk to someone older, I know it is stupid but it does work!! ~paige~

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okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now.

Hey~First of all you shouln't feel bad about being around someone being nice, you should feel uncomfortable around your brother. I would tell someone about you brother, you could tell a parent or even your step-brother! ~paige~

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i am 17 and i have known this lad for 2 years now and i am falling in love with him i know he likes me but i am too shy to tell him how i feel as i do not want to get hurt i was seeing him before but it didnt work out and if i give it another try it will not work please give advice

Hey~are you a guy or a girl?

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well, my dog(german shepherd) just had 5 puppies(sadly 1 died) anyways, three of them are totally black and only one of them looks like her mother(black and tan). i was wondering if anybody could come up with some cool and unique names for my puppies, i have some ideas already, but i want more. thanx alot!!

Hey~I like malcolm, I think that is the cutest dog or cat name! what names do you have already? ~Paige~

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there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help!

Hey~you could ask him first if he likes you, then if he likes you then you could ask him if he would go out with you, because if you think about if he likes you then he will go out with you but if your not sure then you don't know what will happen! ~paige~

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so what do you do if whenever you get in fights with your mom your step dad gets involved too adn every time he gets involved i tell him hes not my dad so stop talking to me and hten he says yeah im glad im not bc if i was your dad id beat your damn ass ... idk what to do or to say to him and its really pissing me off! please help!

Hey~what I did, was I would only talk to my mom when he was gone or if I was in a different room. Just try to avoid your dad, don't be rude about it but ya know don't get...rude?! if that makes since!

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okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?

Hey~ You should be like "Hey, whats up" lol. IT works like a charm. ~paige~

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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!

Hey~I have heard that before but if you that worried about it then get the other one done! ~paige~

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i have friends and sometimes i feel like they dont need me... i dont know why... i cant tell them about it because then they would obviously say that its not true. i have a bestest friend but shes not in the U.S. so i cant see her veryday and hang with her. please help me...

Hey~What do you mean that they don't need you?! Drop one in my box! ~Paige~

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There's this guy in my last period class of the day tha i use to like. He's very good looking but i don't like him like him because i dont wanna lyk sum1 for there looks cuz thats wrong. I wanna start to get to him but im to afraid to talk to him. I had an incounter with him but nothing speical he juss let me go first while walking down a asile and i was very cool about it which suprised me. Im a very shy person when it comes to good looking guys cuz im afraid i'll come off as ugly or annoying so i usually feel lyk im being annoying. I dont think i can approach him but there's prolly no other way to get to know him...If you have an idea of how i should then what should i do?

Hey~If your that scared then let him approach you. Then you know that he likes you and well you like him. ~Paige~

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this boy and i meet 1 year and 2 months ago at a cabin and i live in minnesota and he lives in a driffrent state and we talk all of the time on the phone and internet.he asked me out and i said yes and i dont know if its the right thing because we havent seen each other for awhile what do u think is it the right thing to do since i like him and he obviously likes me???

Hey~If I were you I would try it, I am kinda doing the same thing but my boyfriend moved to Alaska and I live in Colorado. It it VERY hard but it is worth a try. If you notice something then talk to him but For the most part if he really likes you he won't do any of that stupid crap. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years, so you never know, it might work out! ~Paige~

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there this boy who like me.. but i dont like him..he is annoyin he alwayz botherin me.he alwayz follow me.everytime in school i see him he he be alwayz next 2 me..then afterschool we go 2 the same church and he bothers me there to..how can i tell him,in a nice way, that i dont like him..and for him 2 leave me alone

Hey~There is no "nice" way. The easiest way is to just tell him "Hey, I don't like you like that and would you please just leave me alone" I know it might sound rude but it gets the point across and I am guessing that is what you want.

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14 f, i'm in high school and i'm not that happy. sometimes i think its really fun but sometimes i just feel like crying. people say high school is supposed to be the funnest part of you life.... please help

Hey~It's not just all of the sudden going to be happy. You have to make it happy, like get involved in clubs or something but it is not just going to be great from the start. ~Paige~

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When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...

Hey~I know it was best because your 13 but in a way you did kill someone, there was a person in your stomach and you killed it and I'm sry but you will always feel quilty!! ~Paige~

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I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working.

Hey~you just have to be yourslef! I know that will be hard and you have heard it before but if it helps that maybe you come just like act like your better than them so you act yourself. Well I hope you helped! ~Paige~

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How, after several years, does someone go about dealing with the grief over the death of a loved one?

Hey~I don't think that anyone can ever get over a death of a family member or friend. I know from experience. It is best to talk to family about your problems, or even close friends. You could even write a poem or story about the person you lost. Hope I helped. ~Paige~

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if there are me and my friend babysitting for 3 1/2 hours is $30 enough to split for both of us

Hey~I think that you and your friend should both get $20.00. Unless there are only 2 kids, then that is enough, but if there are three or more, then you should be getting $20.00 each at least.
~Paige~

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is it a good way to make money

Hey~Yes, it is a very good way to make money, but you have to be sure to get your hourly rate to $2.50/kid/hour at least. Good luck with that.
~Paige~

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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

Hey~It doesn't metter if they get married to only their same race OR if they do get married to different races. It doesn't matter either way.
~Paige~

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