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I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working.
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Hey~you just have to be yourslef! I know that will be hard and you have heard it before but if it helps that maybe you come just like act like your better than them so you act yourself. Well I hope you helped! ~Paige~
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Hey, just so you know, I am a girl so i know what i want. Being yourself is the most important, don't change who you are just because you want girls to like you. And you don't necissarily have to be funny (well, i like funny guys, anyway.) But, just say hi to someone and start a conversation about anything, you know, maybe something that's going on at school or something, and if they ignore you, they are bums.
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ok well being urself is good. some time a girl will like u for u. dont ever change who u r to try and get a girl 2 like u. its not worth it.any girl who likes u becuz u might have *changed* isnt worth having. all u have 2 do is wait and then ur perfect girl will come along.
hope i helped
~*~kris~*~
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well i say just keep being urself sooner or later a girl will like yah for you..you kant just b sum1 ur not..that isnt right..i say just b ur self..but put ur self out there more like ask a girl to hang just as freinds and get to know her...i really hope i helped..
xO-Jessie
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Personally, if I see a brooding lonely guy I'm instantly attracted. Everyone has their own type of person they like. Just because the majority of women are hard to interact with doesn't mean there isn't a down-to-earth girl out there for you. Besides, do you really want a girl who's like every other girl out there?
I think you should be yourself, and when you see a chance to talk to someone you may really be interested in, go for it! You may have a chance or fate meeting with someone, and you can't let it slip away!
I think you'll be fine ^_^ just gotta hold out for Mrs.Right. I love nervous guys =3 but I'm a strange girl, to say the least.
-Farren
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well i think you should keep being yourself and maybe you should ask some of your guy friends that gets lots of ladies. Some girls like shy guys when they are very outgoing and things. Like me .. im very out going and i LOVE to talk to the shy quiet guys ... its just my thing but maybe the right girl hasnt come to you yet but im sure she will ... you might not meet her until college but there is a right person for everyone. so i think that when a girl is flirting she talks to you a lot and tries to get to know you and she may touch you sometimes or give you hugs or try to hang out with you. just when you like a girl ask her if she would want to hang out sometime like at your house or the movies or out to dinner. dont be too shy and make sure you have confidence! girls love guys with confidence because girls usually dont have a lot just dont be cocky or concited. i hope this helped you! -Kayla
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TO: (anonymous)
first off...HAPPIE FIVE-DAYS-EARLY BIRTHDAY!! as for your problem i can totallie relate... the thing about the whole shy business is that you grow out of it...no one and i mean NO ONE stays shy forebe...the hard part is doing the growing out... for me my frends did most of the work... they embarrassed me to DEATH and then i started to not care about this and that anymore and BAM i had my guy frends...for you well you shoold try not to care about wat they think about you...then the rest pretty much works for itself...ya noe?
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Be yourself is the number one key. Just keep up conversations with them. Dont be too shy around them. You`ll find girl friends soon trust me. Good luck, talk to me anytime. I can be your friend! =]
xO.Carrie
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