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Please help me Im stuck
Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?
15-Taylor-Gender:Female
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DON'T talk to this guy!!! He could be a fat, ugly, perverted 50 year old trying to kidnap girls like you! Whatever you do, DON'T give him your pic. He can track you down and rape and/or kill you.
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This is a tough one...my friend ashley has a bf that she doesnt rly see alot n he lives in utah...they had a relationship and it didnt work..so basically wut im tryin to tell u is that long distance relationships dont work...you need to b around ppl and socialize normaly..and have a boyfriend where he can hold u and u guys can rly have sumthin..that is sweet what he said..but u dont live ova there...he cld b sayin that to 5 other gurls..you juss never know...if u dont break it off..juss b careful
Hope i helped
xO amberino Ox
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Well, I don't want to burst you bubble, but people you talk to on the internet could be a totally different person from who you think they are. Sometimes people lie because they know you won't find out because you don't know them and have never saw them. But, it's your choice to talk to him or not.
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u shuld cut him off bcz he mite b a rapist tryin to get gurls to hav sex wiff him n i now how youd feel if u feel affection between u two but u dnt realli kno him at all..and u dnt kno wat he is cappable of..
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ok if you think u love him then i think u should stay with him. as long as he doesnt ask to meet you ALONE then i think its worth a shot. but if ne thing sounds weird like he tell u sumthin different then wat hes already told u then i think u should cut it off. as long as there seems 2 be enough proof about his age then i think u should stay with him.
***i had an online b/f 2 and i knew he wasnt lyin about his age becuz 1)he was NEVER on during school hours 2)his 11 year old sister has actually gone on his sn[lol] 3)ive tlked 2 his friends 4)he doesnt act older then 14 or 15
hope i helped
~*~kris~*~
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ok i say dont go there he could be a reallly bad person u dont know u thynk you know him he could b lieng that is tha thing with tha internet people lie!..dont trust him he could b like 50 lol!..u never know just dont go there...hope i helped!...
-xOx-Jessie-xOx-
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This is from expirence hun...if you really love him back and want to be with him then I would say go for it.....IF YOU KNOW HE IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS!!! There are ALOT of psycos out there esp. old men tryna get young girls! See, I dated a guy in GA for like...1 year and 5 months....well, i talked to his mom...his cuzin...he sent me accual pictures in the mail...and when we decided to meet...he was gonna bring his parents....so i trusted him but hun if youve only seen a pic from the computer then you cant trust it...you just cant....really really think it thru before you continue....DONT MEET HIM IF HE WANTS TO MEET ALONE...dont be like other girls hun...its not worth it
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You met him over the internet. try meeting someone around you. You are 15, i doubt it is love. You have the rest of your life to find someone. Like you sid you prolly will never meet him. so cut it off and quit wasting your time on him.
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Well, he if really kept on reiterating the fact that his feelings wouldn't change if you were ugly, it may be a sign of desperation (either desperate to be with -anyone- or desperate to get you to show your picture). I'm not trying to be mean, it's just human nature.
This also means he may himself be ugly, or (as the others have said) lying about his age.
I would be extremely careful. There is a very low chance he is sincere. You shouldn't give him your real name.
I would become friends with him, and I wouldn't see him. Also, if you don't intend on growing the relationship anyway, you should be considerate of his feelings and end it so he can move on in his life.
Hope I helped.
-Farren
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well ... i dont really know how to tell you this ... i dont think you should keep on with your feelings but i do think you should stay his friend. but i think this because when you do meet it might be kinda weird and he might act differently online then he does in person and yall wouldve already told eachother yall liked her and it might be really hard to get out of. on the other hand yall might like eachother but i think you should just lower your feelings and wait until you do finally meet him! i hope this helped! -Kayla
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first of all online relationships are messed up. "He has never saw my pic befor " ..he has never SEEN my pic before.. second of all i met this guy thru his sister n he lives in nj n i live in ny n he saw my pic n stuff we talked all summer but i met other guys from my community. You don't love him..you think you do .. you dont even know the guy...
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u do not kno who this guy is u need to ask so serious questions this happened to me before and it turned out the guy was 42 he was a big pervert luckily i never went to go meet him or i would be emotionally hurt right now all im saying is be very careful.... hope i helped
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It1s very risky meeting someone on the internet and falling in love with them. I suggest you keep talking to him on the internet only and find someone else. We wouldnt want you to get hurt or anything like that. Hope I helped.
xO.Carrie
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Hon all i know is that he might be telling you he's 16 and good looking but in reality he might be 43 and balding, internet raltionships aren't safe for 1 you don't really know if he's telling you the truth about him self. that's all i have to say.
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Internet realtionships are always the hard ones. You dont know if the guy is like 16 or 61. Being friends over the internet is fine...fun to talk to people about stuff and stuff. But dont think about love or anything more than an internet-realtionship. I would never meet the guy, ever! Unless, you have parents with you...And since he says that it wouldent matter if your ugly or not...a sign that he could be dangerous. Just be careful. Hope I helped!
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