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NO girl at my school likes me and i like alot of them.THey all like me as a friend but i am not gay so...Waht should I do?

Sincerly,
LOVELOST

Just be yourself. Dont change yourself one bit. If no girl can like you for who u r, then ur not worth it

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I get migranes all the time! Does anybody know what may be causing it? I dont know much about migranes. My mom and I get them all the time! I usually take advil or asprin, or something. Do you get migranes? What works well for you?

Omg I have the EXACT same problem!! What I normally do, is keep track of my migranes, take an IBprofen, and next time I go c the doctor, I show him my migrane list. Hope I helped! xoxox ♥xxm0onZStArZxx

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Hey... im making my Xmas list. I need advice on how to get my mind to think up what i want lol... or does anyone have ideas that a girly girl prep 13 yrz old girl would like........................................


thankx xoxx

Lipgloss, make-up, clothes, CD's, accesories, bean bag chairs, $$$, anything you'd like =D

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Hi. I am going to get straight to the point. I DON'T GET AN ALLOWANCE. I clean my room and do all my chores, but my mom says I'm not responsible enough to have an allowence! HELP ME PLEA-ea-ea-ESE!!!

To show your mom you ARE responsible enough for an allowence, do a few xtra chores around the house; Walk the dog, change the diaper, wash the car, mow the lawn, vaccum all carpets, clean the fish tank, pick up, paint the fence, trim the hedges, cook the dinner (if your allowed to cook), make your room spotless, shake the rugs, clean the pool, clean out the garage, etc. These are only some suggestions. After you do the xtra chores (your gonna have to do them for more then one day), talk to your mom about the allowence. After she sees how responsible you have become, theres no way she can ever possibly say no!!!!!!!!

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i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us.

Well, talk 2 him about it. Just say (I'll call him Shawn) Shawn, listen, your a nice person, but I just don't like u in the way u like me. And, I really don't want to be mean, but I just want 2 be friends 'k? Then give him a hug and tell him your sry, but this is the way it has to be.

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Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?

15-Taylor-Gender:Female

DON'T talk to this guy!!! He could be a fat, ugly, perverted 50 year old trying to kidnap girls like you! Whatever you do, DON'T give him your pic. He can track you down and rape and/or kill you.

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I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?
from,
Alicia

public schools r fun!!! You will make new friends. AND, you can still keep in touch with all your other friends from your private school (if you didn't have homeschool). Its fun!!! Sure, you will feel uncomfortable at first in your new school, but soon, when you meet some nice people, you will feel right at home! I promise =)

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Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!!

Ok first of all, tell your mom that he is sexually harrasing you. Then, next time he gives you a "signal", tell him you don't like him and to leave you alone.

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i've been working in a a really cool shop in my mall, its mostly girls that work here for some reason, i am one of them, recently we've been 'recruiting' so theres a few new staff, and one is this guy, not my type at all, plus i'm already taken'..it was all okay at the begining, and i didnt think anything of it, but its started to speculate in my mind that he might be trying to take advantage to touching me, i mean i'm pretty much buddys with all in there,and none of them touch me, not sexually but just plain his hand touching my arms and shoulders, then one day i was sitiing there just eating and he spent like 15 min in the loo, he came out asked me how i was and stuff then just before he went back to wrk he ebnd down slightly to touch my leg, i just pretended to ignore it and carry on reading, but my mind was not at all in the book, now i feel really uncomfortable around him, what do you think i should do.........?

Alert your boss with this information ASAP. This perve is sexually harassing you. If in any way you feel uncomfortable, tell your boss or someone you trust deeply. This man has absolutly NO RIGHT to be doing this to you.

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okay I have this amazing boyfriend who I know loves me very much.He has already met my mom and most of my familyand they all think he is sweet. I love having him as a boyfriend and of course I would never break up with him but I am so used to bieng hurt by guys that I am so scared that he will hurt me too. He swears that he never will but I can never be to sure of everything. I know he loves me so why am I so scared?Plz help me as soon as possible!I need it bad!!!!!
I am 13 years old and am female!!!!!

Ok first, calm down. If this boy (I'll call him Bob lol) truly loves you, then he won't break up w/ u. Bob will probably only break ^ with you if he really needs to (might move away, parents don't want him 2 have a gf etc.). Don't worry about it so much. If Bob breaks up with you, don't hold a grudge and hate yourself/him. There are pleanty of other fish in the sea.

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Well my friend ~B~ was acting really weird today! I mean something is wrong with him!! He didn't give me a hug didn't say hay or nething! I tried to talk to him about what was wrong but he just drove off! My other friend ~K~ said it might be bcuz his stepmom and his dad are gitting back together. But I don't know. Well My Q is how can I figure this out and help him cope w/whatever it is? I tried calling him and everything! Please help!

Well, next time you see him, start by greeting him with a big hug. Then, start a conversation that has nothing to do with this. Egg your way into your topic. Then just ask him about it. ~B~ will have to talk to you about it!

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I have this problem where everything i wear must match. I wont wear somthing if it doesnt match perfectly. It takes me forever to get dressed. Is this bad? If so does anyone know how i can stop?

Try jazzing up some of your clothes. Theres nothing wrong with adding a splash of color to your clothes! Experiment with different items of clothing, and before you know it, you'll have a great mix! Lemme know how it works out ^^

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I ride the bus to school. We have assigned seats. There is a kid that sits next to me, and he is always saying the most grossed things!!! (Disgusting, Perverted, u get the picture) What should I do? I've tried ignoring him, and now he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me in private places!!!

Tell an adult to trust IMMEDIATLY! This kid has absolutly NOOO right to touch you or say perverted things to you! When he touchs you, its called Sexual harrasment, and that is against the law! Inform your mom, or someone who you trust ASAP! This kid is gonna be in major trouble when someone finds out. Sometimes, even the police get involved.

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