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whats wrong?
Well my friend ~B~ was acting really weird today! I mean something is wrong with him!! He didn't give me a hug didn't say hay or nething! I tried to talk to him about what was wrong but he just drove off! My other friend ~K~ said it might be bcuz his stepmom and his dad are gitting back together. But I don't know. Well My Q is how can I figure this out and help him cope w/whatever it is? I tried calling him and everything! Please help!
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Well, next time you see him, start by greeting him with a big hug. Then, start a conversation that has nothing to do with this. Egg your way into your topic. Then just ask him about it. ~B~ will have to talk to you about it!
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u have to go 4 it. if he's in the car, get in sum how. if he's at skool, hold him back and talk to him. dont stalk him, but dont make him feel like he cant trust u. ask him whats goin on and be the friend u can be. good luk.
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Give him some room 2 breathe. When he is redy to tell u he will. As soon as hes redy he will let u kno. But 4 rite kno do the regular w/o asking him whats the matter.
'MO:p
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It's great you want to help him and be there for him through a tough time he's going through. But if he doesn't want to talk now, just give him time. He needs time alone right now, he's not ready to open up his feelings(guys hate showing their feelings!)...When he's ready, he'll come to you.
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You gotta let him know that he doesnt have to tell u anything if hes not comfortable... but your gonna be there for him whenever he needs u.... it's really hard guys to talk about their problems ( especially when it has to do wit family ) & to admitt that they are hurt... so give it sum time... he'll talk to u when hes ready
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I think you just need to show him that you care, and do and try anything to get to him.
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When something this difficult is happening in someone's life, it's often best to just be patient. Men are not as prone to talking about their fears, problems, and apprehensions as women are. He is, most likely, just going through a really tough time. The best thing you can do is not get all butthurt over his current attitude, be there for him, and listen openly when and if he ever does want to talk to you about it. Once it gets better, he will be morel ike his old self again, and he'll appreciate you being patient, forgiving, and not prying.
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