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he wont stop asking me out!!!
i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us.
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i think u should do wat u think is right if u like him that much u should go out with him but if u dont like him him like that just tell him u dont c u 2 more than friends hope i helped. he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he he 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tell him face to face in a firm voice but not to harsh be gentle with his feelings but tell him seriously that he needs to stop.... cuz u mite end up just getting so annoyed that u finnally say yes and u dont mean it one way relationships are BAD and it will break his heart more if he finds out that you went out with him just to get him off ur back...just tell him u want to be friends
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Well don't call him any names or make him feel bad. Just sit him down and be like listen you're my buddy and I don't like you any more than that but I'm always here for you. -Hope I helped!
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Sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel, and it's not always going to work out the way you want it to, without hurting him. Yea if he really likes you it will hurt him some, but he WILL get over it. Tell him you would prefer to just stay good friends! Hope I helped!
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i think that next time he does it, instead of saying no, you should nicely tell him "sry but honestly i don't like you the way you like me" or something that isn't mean but will get across the idea that you don't like him right now and that you don't want him to feel rejected every day when he asks. but don't say it in a way where he would feel awkward about it later. good luck
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OMG Im going thru that RIGHT NOW..Its getting so annoying! But the way I am handling it, and hes starting to get the hint, is dont laugh about it like its a joke when you respond to him, be serious and even put an annoyed look on ur face and say we are just frienddsss..u arent being mean at all trust me. you are no different than any1 else and have absolutly no obligation to him what so ever,he isnt a child and he should be able to handle you saying nO..
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Well, talk 2 him about it. Just say (I'll call him Shawn) Shawn, listen, your a nice person, but I just don't like u in the way u like me. And, I really don't want to be mean, but I just want 2 be friends 'k? Then give him a hug and tell him your sry, but this is the way it has to be.
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just like you said you just wanna be friends..that your sorry but all you see him as is just a friend nothing more..and that you dont wanna hurt his feelings you just think it would be weird because you guys are to close of friends..and if he continues to ask just say look I'm not trying to be mean but i dont like you like that and i dont think i would ever go out with you and if he seems upset in like an hour apologize and say that all you see him as is a friend! hope I helped*xo0 KelleY 0ox
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Hey...you need to tel this boy straight up..I mean like in his face...to stop asking you out and that its no use to ask everyday..and offer gifts...I'm mean that's really stupid,.to give gifts to a girl just for going out with him...that's really dumb..and is not wut a relationship is about...now I see why people call him names...its really not real...just plain infatuation..you must staighten this kid out quick.Just don't bring it down to hard...just show him that your serious...you naw mean?
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I AM IN EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION!...i think u should just say tht u want to be friends and nvr ne thing more and tell him tht u think he's rilly nice but not as more than a friend...GOOD LUCK!
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It sounds like he is desperat be careful he is on the lines of a stalker. I would advise you to tell him "NICELY" to leave you alone. And watch out. If you have a male friend then tell him you need some sort of body guard to get him to stay away from you with out hurting him.
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Well obviously he's not listening. So now you have to tell him straight up that you dont like him, and nothing will happen between you two. It may be mean, but thats the only way you'll get him to listen. And tell him that he needs to stop asking cuz each time your answer will be no, and he should save his breath:D
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