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i have no idea what you get a guy for christmas...hes a skateboarder he has been since he was six hes gunna get sponsered and i have no idea what to get him cuz i dont wanna get him something and him think its retarded:-\ (link)
i really dont know what to tell u... cuz like i have no idea either but u should talk to another guy and ask them.. cuz like im not a guy and im not a skateboarder... so i wouldnt know.. i wish i could help but i cant on this one :(


i have a friend who keeps calling me a whore and other offense names. i guess that technically i 'deserve' to be called those names but i still don't like it. i don't think it's her buisness to be calling me those things... also, this same friend is always ditching me for another one of her friends. our friendship is a big mess. i try to ignore it when she says mean things and blows me off.. but recently it's been getting hard to do. i'm actually thinking of just ending our friendship.. why should i bother? i always get left in disappointment... (link)
u should confront her about this... even if u deserve to be called a whore a true friend shouldn't say that to you to ur face or behind ur back.. tell her about it.. and as far as the ditching part confront her about that too.. but dont give up the friendship.. just try to work things out... hope i helped
LD


are u a friend if u start rumors about other friends or tell them u know rumors about them then take it back and say haha it was all a joke! cuz thats not funny and i dont think thats what true friends would do! so if someone did that to u what would u say to them? (link)
well beleive them it was a joke, maybe you should just trust what ur friend says to you and u should listen to how they tell u cuz if they tell u that there are rumors about u but they sy it sarcastically u should get that it is a joke...i wouldnt say n e thing to them because its quite obvious that it was just a joke
LD
P.S. dont take things TOO seriously


ok, my parents are always fighting. i have no idea what to do. im so scared that they will get a divorce.. if you have any advice please help me. (link)
well really...u cant do n e thing about it. its for ur parents to work out. and if they get a divorce its not ur fault there is no way that u can stop them.. just think about it. its better for them to be seperated and u not have to hear constant yelling all the time than for u to have to hear fighting everyday. but sry there is really nothing you can do about it.. somethings just have to work out the way that they work out.. thats my advice... m/b things will ease up a lil bit it mite just be a stage but m/b not... sry i couldnt really help but i hope that things get better...


ok LD im a computer geek and i want to know how to score a chick...what do i do?? (link)
i wouldnt know because i am a chick.. and if ur such a comuter geek wouldn't u know how to do that? im sorry but im not lez so i dont know what to tell you... w/e u need some help


Ok, I'm a 10th grader who really has a life I like.There are a couple of things I don't like, and one of them is how much my friends worry about me. Last year, midyear, they started to freak out about me, and almost every day they'd ask what I did the night before. They were scared I was cutting, I wasn't. Now, this year, they are still after me about it, and some of them think I"m suicidal (no, I'm not depressed, though I sometimes act like it), and not only are my school friends thinking this way, so are my friends who dont' attend my school, and a bunch of my dance friends think this too! Is there any way I can convince them that I'm fine? It's making me crazy, and I've got enough to stress about right now.
thanks! (link)
thats a tuffy... but they should understand that everyone has bad days sometimes. Tell them that its annoying and tell them to trust you like a true friend would tell them that your getting ticked off with them. Sometimes thoug, a friend just wants to care alot. give them a taste of their own medicine. get on to their cases and show them how annoying it is. trust me i'll work. Once they see how fustrating it is they'll stop. hopefully. is there like proof that your cutting or something why do they say that ur cutting? cuz it could be all rumors. For your friends other schools.. i dunno what to tell you..m/b hang out with them some more and when you do be perky and happy and tell them good stff that has happened... they cant possibly think that you are going through depression then can they?
LD


i think my friend is anorexic. she doesn't eat lunch and says she doesn't eat breakfast or dinner either. i am worried about her. she is not that fat but she thinks she is. i don't want to get her parents invovled because i feel like that would be betraying our friendship. how can i make her understand what she is doing is wrong and unnessecary? i don't want to make her mad but i feel like something should be done. (link)
dont betray ur friend u have no proof if she eats at home or not unless u follow her around 24/7.....dont say something unless she passes out infront of you cuz then u r in a life or death situation...


lets say you like this guy and you think that he likes you but your not sure...what would you do...
and then you think this other guy likes you but he acts like he has something stuck up his but and he's a total jerk and stupid
who would you pick (link)
well i would say if u think a guy likes u get some flirt action going! ;) see if he really likes u? but he mite just like flirting.. the guy thats a total jerk and stupid mite just not know what else to do cuz hes kinda nervous.. hers some advice go get the seventeen magazine they had this great quiz in there this month that tottally relates to what ur asking me.. but what i would do is not submit urself to any commitment just yet.. i would wait and see what the guys do for yah first... get to know the stupid one a lil better m/b once he gets more comfortable around you you can see his other/real personality m/b the guy that likes u doesnt really.. but who to pick... i would say he jerk... i know that that mite sound stupid but hes just nervous and he doesnt know what else to do... make him feel more comfortable...and see if he changes if he doesnt go with the forst one! hope i helped sry i didnt have the perfect answer!


How do i increase my vocal range? (link)
practice... it always works or sing songs that have a good vocal range and work ur way to match their pitch...it works for me!


Dear LD-
how the heck do you manage to answer all these dumb questions? are you god? (link)
no im not God. It's just the funny humor of those like u hoo keep me wanting to give advice! WOOHOO! ;)


hey ld!
im tired what should i do????? (link)
uh...go to sleep... DUH wow u really need advice for that? hmmm... how old are you?


hey LD
should i paint my nails red or black today (link)
red


ok well im couught in a love triangle... im point a and the two other guys are point b and c. Im two timing these guys and they have no idea but i like one more than the other...do i tell him? how do i break up with him with out breaking his heart (link)
ok well really... i could care less about a trinagle screw point a's and b's and c's we are not in geometry class hun... but i do understand u have a problem... its ur fault that u go into this mess and u have to figure out how to get out of it.. im just here to help... tell the one u dont like that u like someone else instead of teling him that u are two timing him and tell him that yall dont want to go out with him...it wont crush his heart that much.. and that way if he heaars later that u r going out with someother guy...he'll just think that he was the one u liked and not thatu were two timing him... good luk with ur geometric terms in love


Hey i am a 16 year old girl wh is going out with a 18 year old and my dad is cool with it and ive know him forever (7 years) so finally we got together and weve been together for like 2 years. I am totally in love..but sometimes i feel like hes telling me it, and i get jealous so easily and im kinda the type that is really sensitive to like everything...but back to the question he tells me he loves me but im not so sure..weve had sex and after weve had sex its like yah i love u but it feels like he doesnt give me any attention, like hell pick me up at my house to come over n hang out n not even say hi to me and then when i talk he doesnt say ne thing i just need to know if guys r just like this or what cus i am so confused..im sittting in here and hes in another room i just think that he should spend more time with me so please help i dont want to b with sum1 that doesnt love me back..thanks (link)
he just wanted your sex and then hes trying to get u to dump him thats why hes not making the relationship n e more intense he wat o seperate but hes waiting for u to break up with him cuz he doesnt have the balls to do it all guys do this wen they dont want to do their own dirty work...theyll stop calling stop chatting pretend not to notice u or two time u its just a guy thing.... its just what they do


i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us. (link)
tell him face to face in a firm voice but not to harsh be gentle with his feelings but tell him seriously that he needs to stop.... cuz u mite end up just getting so annoyed that u finnally say yes and u dont mean it one way relationships are BAD and it will break his heart more if he finds out that you went out with him just to get him off ur back...just tell him u want to be friends


alrighty well its kinda long but one day me and my bff brittany were walking to wegmans and on the wayy this boy kept screaming "your hott!" at me and i just ignored it the first time, but on the way back he did the same. i knew who he was and stuff but i didnt really know him but britt talked me into turning around and talking to him. so i did and we ended up going out - for like a week and then he broke up with me. the thing was, i grew to reallyyy like him. he said i talked to too many guys but a few days later he told me that wasnt the reason, and he still liked me, but he didnt really trust me and also said "maybe i made a mistake breaking up with you". i couldnt figure out what the real reaosn was , but i think it was cause he likes this one girl. a few days after that, he said he doesnt like me. but today he came over (cause were still friends) and he said he doesnt like her anymore. the weird thing is i dont think i like him anymore but whenever i see other girls on the bus talking and flirting with him i wanna kill them. (i know, probly jealous) but he acts like he likes me when hes around me just me and him but its like i wanna know what you could do to win a guys heart back. the girl i think he likes is moving tomorrow (which is good lol) but what can i do to make him see that i wasnt worth breakin up with and maybe he did make a mistake? a way to make HIM jealous instead of me? (link)
hes just acing like he likes u cuz hes flirting everyone does it even if its not intentional. if he likes someone else hey... he likes someone else but eventually hell move on and like someone else m/b u m/b not u i mean its not like ur in LOVE so if he doesnt like u i know it hurts but get on move on u dont want a on and off relationship where u never know whats happening its heart breaking trust me... so move on and get over it...


when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
when ur ready... if u have strong beleifs in God and Christianity and God's word than you should so wait until ur married...but if its not the choice is tottally up to u just be careful


here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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red or french DEFINATLY (tips would look hott!)


there is this guy that i like and he likes me but he is foreign and can speak some english but has trouble some times and i wanna help him do u think he would think i am rude for tryin 2 help him? and i was wonderin if u know of neways u can tell that a guy is about 2 ask u out ( dumb i know lol but i am curious) cuz that guy keeps sayin he is thinkin about me and stuff he is so sweet and i wanna go out wit him but i am 2 shy 2 say nething about it ? HELP i will rate you!!! (link)
i wouldn't help him he mite think that you are being too pushy...or bossy...or plain out rude... he probly has ppl workin with him at the school to learn correct english thats what they are for... dont be shy around a guy bein too shy mite make them think that u dont have a personality being flirty always turns them on! well there are alot of diff ways that u can tell a guy is gunnah ask u out but that list would take days g2g buh-bye


ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
well he probly still likes u just doesnt want to go out with u again because he thinks ur not a good g/f i mean u said it urself that whuile u were on the phone you didnt really comment that much just make him feel like hes not trying hard for a relationship but u should still talk to him if he thinks ur flirtin hell flirt back~oooh hormones! lol jk




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