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um ive had sex like 12 times and im only 13.. i dont know if its bad and i dont want to get a bad reputation and i have alot of friends and im pretty cool but one of my other friends just had sex and shees like telling EVERYONE and then like i dont know.. i dont tell any one i just really like it and is there any way you could tell me how to tell this guy i dont want to do it any more and i dont need to get myself into trouble..
ps i might be pregnant
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having sex at 13, (i doubt your married lol), isnt a bad thing. its YOUR choice, YOUR life, so its based on what YOU think is right.
about "this guy," all you have to say is "i dont want to do it [have sex] anymore," and he should respect that. if he doesnt and tries to pressure you into it, and you dont want to, say "no." if he still tries to (more than once), you MIGHT want to avoid doing things with him, alone, that way theres no risk of anything happening.
if your trying to stop having sex compltely, then you can always start over. if your not, and you want to have sex but not get a bad reputation, then just try not to tell anyone, but things may happen, which is a downside to having sex.
i hope this helps.
-tubular taz
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What should I do if one of my friends lies to me and then goes behind my back and now its like she's backstabbing me all of the time? And yes I have tried talking to them but they won't listen to me!!! It feels like they are pushing me away. What should I do and say to them? (link)
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first off, i know how you feel, and its really tough. but if your 100% sure that they're lying to you, and backstabbing you, then maybe what might be best is to let things chill for a little while.
and if you've talked to someone about this before (ESPECIALLY parents!), they might say, "well, a friend like that isn't worth having," and that isn't always what you want to hear, but it may be the truth.
then again, the reason that they may be doing this to you, could be because they have things going on in their life and thats their way of letting it out. which isn't cool, bcuz you dont deserve to be taken out on. but instead of trying to talk to her, what you might want to do, is ask her for time to talk, and if she ignores you, just simply tell her that if anything is wrong, that your there for her. if thats not the case, and shes just doing this bcuz shes doing it, what you might want to do is ask her for time to talk just the two of you, without distractions, that way she's pretty much forced to listen.
i hope this helps
-tubular taz
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hey its me again... um well my friend... i told her the truth and now she is REALLY pissed off at me and i dunno what to do.. should i try talking to her again and be like well i just didnt want someone else to tall you in the wrong way? but ont worry its not ur advice that was wrong i just think that my friend was really affended.. ive never been in this situation b4... what do i do to get the NOT mad at me? (link)
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aww shucks =(. im sorry!!!!!!! =(!!!
okay, *deep breath*, you should probably try talking to her, but also try to give her a little space, maybe to cool off for awhile. and when/if you do talk to her, explain how you felt, before you told her, and how you feel now. explain the situation you were in, and the one your in now. that will always clear up any misunderstandings. also, try to be understanding as to why she may be affended, or mad. im really sorry your going through this, but always follow your heart.
i really hope this helps,
and im really sorry =(.
-tubular taz
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taz,
should i have sonic for dinner or chicken express
ITS DRIVING ME INSANE (link)
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OH MAN! THAT IS A TOUGH ONE!
hm, i'd go with sonic though, definetly. their grilled cheese is AMAZING!
hope this helps (haha)
-tubular taz =P
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hey its me again.. but its not something that i did.. presay its something that THEY did and i want to comfront them about it but i dont really want to tell them the truth... do i still tell them? or do i wait and see if it will die off? (link)
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oh, okay! sorry i misunderstood =(.
okay, if its something they did, and you value their friendship, then confront them about it. BUT, try to be nice about it, like i said before, tell them the way YOU would want to be told. and i understand you not wanting to tell them the truth, but at times, it might be best. this may be one of those times. about waiting to see if it will die off, wait a little while, maybe a few days, or a week, and if it dies off, then your problem may be solved. if you notice that it springs back to life again, then you should try confronting them about it, in an "appropriate manner." IF IT DOESNT WEAR OFF, talk to them about it, and if you dont want to tell the truth, you dont have to. just understand that the truth may get around to them, and they may be mad that you hadn't told them, or something along those lines.
hope this helps! =)
-tubular taz
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what do u do when u want to tell the friend the truth but u know that ur friend will get so effing pissed when they hear it? (link)
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okay, thats always a toughie, and i know how you feel. but in this situation, if its something you did, its always best to tell your friend the truth. even though your friend may get pissed, they're going to find out sooner or later, so its always best that they hear it from you first. if you know they're going to be crushed by it, or pissed, break it to them easy. if its something you did, try starting off by saying you know that what you did was wrong. if its something someone else did, explain whats going on gently. most of all...be understanding and tell them the way YOU would want to be told.
i hope this helps =)
-tubular taz
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