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Friend Troubles
What should I do if one of my friends lies to me and then goes behind my back and now its like she's backstabbing me all of the time? And yes I have tried talking to them but they won't listen to me!!! It feels like they are pushing me away. What should I do and say to them?
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first off, i know how you feel, and its really tough. but if your 100% sure that they're lying to you, and backstabbing you, then maybe what might be best is to let things chill for a little while.
and if you've talked to someone about this before (ESPECIALLY parents!), they might say, "well, a friend like that isn't worth having," and that isn't always what you want to hear, but it may be the truth.
then again, the reason that they may be doing this to you, could be because they have things going on in their life and thats their way of letting it out. which isn't cool, bcuz you dont deserve to be taken out on. but instead of trying to talk to her, what you might want to do, is ask her for time to talk, and if she ignores you, just simply tell her that if anything is wrong, that your there for her. if thats not the case, and shes just doing this bcuz shes doing it, what you might want to do is ask her for time to talk just the two of you, without distractions, that way she's pretty much forced to listen.
i hope this helps
-tubular taz
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