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I have a boyfriend, whom I have been dating for two years and 2 months. I started college this year. The college is just a couple of hours away from home. We seen each other two days before I left for college, but have only talked four times since then. I have tried to get together with him on weekends that I'm home, especially this past weekend because it was homecoming weekend and also his birthday was this past Monday. He doesn't seem interested in talking with me. I haven't received one letter or phone call from him since we have been down there, yet all the other girls in the dorm that have a boyfriend have either gotten a million letters from their significant other or got a phone call from him, or both. That would be my roommate. I don't know if I should ditch him or give him a little more time because he may be too caught up in school work. I'm too afraid to talk to him about it because I'm afraid of how he might react. Can anyone help me and guide me in the direction I need to go? (link)
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Is there a possibility that there is another girl and he doesn't know how to tell you?
If so then don't be pressed and make him call you because girl there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are beautiful at least in the heart from what you think and say on here. (I don't know what you look like but everyone is beautiful in there own way) Good luck in school don't let this mess with college alot of people don't get to go so enjoy this opportunity.
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My mother-in-law is always accusing me of over-reacting to things, when I think my reactions are quite normal. She tells me to calm down when I'm only slightly frustrated about something, and her saying this to me repeatedly causes me to get more frustrated, then she's like "I told you so." For example, today she was giving my daughter a ride to school, and I went along because she was in her p.j's and it was a cold day and she was doing us a favor so I didn't have to walk her to school. Anyways, to get to the point, my daughter had made a suncatcher keyring for her teacher and I knew that I had put it in her backpack. My daughter wanted to show it to her grandmother, so she opened her backpack, and I reached back and got it. I looked in her backpack where I had put it and it wasn't there. So I simply stated "It's not here. I know I put it in here." I wasn't hysterical, just slightly puzzled. My mother-in-law immediately starts saying "Calm down, calm down. It's no big deal," as if I was totally freaking out, which I wasn't, and I kept repeating "It's not here," as I looked because she kept saying "Calm down." She was irritating me, and I told her so, and that I thought she was being rude. She just told me to "Drop it." She acts so smug and superior. My daughter found it in the back of the car, and handed it to me, which my mother-in-law didn't even notice because she was so busy telling me to stop going on about it. I told her she was rude and didn't repect my feelings and that anyone would say the same thing when they were looking for something and it wasn't where they put it. She probably didn't hear half of what I said because she was too busy telling me to shut up. I finally gave up, but I have a hard time dropping a subject when I think someone is unfairly judging me. I was trying to get her to understand my point of view. She is always treating me like this. I'm so sick of it. Does anyone have experience with a person like this? How do you handle it without making it look like the person is right about you? I know this is what I'm doing when I respond to her rudeness. But I don't know how else to handle it. She is hard to ignore. Any advice? (link)
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I deal with a mother-in-law that is not even around and doesn't even see our kids we have 4. So at least you have that. But when we do go visit it is like are we done yet because she is so fake and ats like she likes me. Well if it always happens tell her to drink some coffee and then deal with your child one full day by herself and see how stressed out she can get with her and then maybe you can have that comon bond. I am not saying that your child is a burden, but if she is always nagging I would let her walk a day in your shoes, kids can stress you without thinking that you are stressed out. Take care Dymond
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i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us. (link)
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It sounds like he is desperat be careful he is on the lines of a stalker. I would advise you to tell him "NICELY" to leave you alone. And watch out. If you have a male friend then tell him you need some sort of body guard to get him to stay away from you with out hurting him.
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IS there a healthy way to gain weight? If way can anybody give me advice. Im not looking for any diet drinks or anything just somthing I can do! Please Help! Thnkx in Advance (link)
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Eat alot of carbs, that is what they say feed dogs when they lose alot of weight, so start eating bread and potatoes and any things that has carbs. Don't get the carb option things because that is low carbs. But only do it for a little while because you dont want to gain alot or too much weight.
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I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam (link)
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Girl you are in a serious situation, but when you get my age 29 you will see that it isn't that bad, boys come and go out of your life, only the good ones stick around.
Tell Scott that you don't want to get too serious that you just got out of a serious relationship and tell ******* that you don't want to get back with him either and that is because you think tht he lets his rep rule his life and if you take him back that you are going to hear that all the time. There might be another girl in his life and I don't want you to get hurt. I have 3 girls and I know how I am going to be going through this in a few years, and I am not ready but boys if they know that they can hurt you they will. And when they are bored that is when they will call you. Follow your heart and take some of my advice. Your pal Dymond
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Ok well so far in school im failing ALL my classes except 1. Im in 10th grade and I just switched school. You have to turn in a PERFECT PAPER. And if you get 1 thing wrong you have a F. And if you miss 3 things you get a F. Its hard. So I feel like im going to fail this year. I miss school on the days I have tests on accident. Like i know im going to have tests but I get sick. I like taking tests because it keeps my grade up. And my friends arnt helpng they keep saying Im going to fail. Like im missing 14 assignments in math. So of course I have a F! I just cant handle all of this stuff. Its too hard and It gets me thinking of how I passed 9th grade at my old school. What should I do? How can I keep up my grades and do all my work? (link)
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I know most schools have the homework helper of some source. Or talk to the guidance counselor and see if there is an after school program? Talk to you later.
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My mom had bought regular olive oil since my brother says that regular olive oil is much better than e.v.o.o. I can't taste a difference between them! Is there supposed to be a taste difference? If not what exactly is the difference between them? Thanks. (link)
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only difference is that it is richer and more expensive. And you easily just pay for the name.
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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out??? (link)
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Back away from the knife...not being funny but honey you are more important that that to let your body rule you, rule your body. Get help tell someone that you trust and explain how you feel and what makes you do the hurtful things to you. Take care and get back with me as soon as possible now I am concerned I have 4 kids of my own..
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there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long (link)
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Well sweetie I am not the most popular either I am 275 pounds but I am one who knows how the black sheep of the crowd is. I am going to say something to you and don't take it personal. Girl if the guy don't like you because you are tall then if you get together he isn't going to be the right guy for you anyway. I just want you to be happy. I wouldn't say accept you the way you are. I am happy for you. When I was in school I was very popular but now I am a person who keeps to herself. Holla at me when eva sweets!!!
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ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
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Hey sweetie, I am married with 4 kids and I just wanted to let you know that I am going through some problems with my hubby too. But as for you just deal with it like a young woman and don't let him know that you are upset by it, I believe in karma and it will come back on him. Find a new man and he will notice what he has lost. Take it from someone who has had plenty of relationships and have been through alot of stuff almost anything you think of. I have been raped, hit, abused, verbally assaulted, cheated on, messed with a married man and didnt know it, slept with a man that was living with another woman that was pregnant by him and we slept in their bed. I have been through alot and I am here for you to talk to and I will help you out as much as possible. Your loving friend Dymond
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