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Non-communication
I have a boyfriend, whom I have been dating for two years and 2 months. I started college this year. The college is just a couple of hours away from home. We seen each other two days before I left for college, but have only talked four times since then. I have tried to get together with him on weekends that I'm home, especially this past weekend because it was homecoming weekend and also his birthday was this past Monday. He doesn't seem interested in talking with me. I haven't received one letter or phone call from him since we have been down there, yet all the other girls in the dorm that have a boyfriend have either gotten a million letters from their significant other or got a phone call from him, or both. That would be my roommate. I don't know if I should ditch him or give him a little more time because he may be too caught up in school work. I'm too afraid to talk to him about it because I'm afraid of how he might react. Can anyone help me and guide me in the direction I need to go?
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if he is usually real caught up in school give him more time if not find out whats going on
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In a relationship you should never be afraid of how your man is going to react...hmm....it's really weird he hasnt even called you, come on, if he really missed you dont you think he could pick up that phone and dial up? You should definately talk to him about it, dont hold feelings in cause that'll drive you insane and hurt you more. Talk to him but dont mention your other roommates...wouldnt you hate it if he compared you with other girlfriends? But yeah, tell him that you miss talking to him and ask if he feels the same...ask him what he wants but in a casual and sweet way...good luck
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Is there a possibility that there is another girl and he doesn't know how to tell you?
If so then don't be pressed and make him call you because girl there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are beautiful at least in the heart from what you think and say on here. (I don't know what you look like but everyone is beautiful in there own way) Good luck in school don't let this mess with college alot of people don't get to go so enjoy this opportunity.
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Definitely talk to him about this. Make sure he KNOWS that you not only want to talk to him, but that you NEED to talk to him. Fear is no reason to continue a relationship that could possibly be already over (I'm not saying that it is, but it remains of the possibilities). It isn't uncommon for two people to drift apart in a situation like this. But he needs to uphold his end of the relationship and talk to you. It is part of the responsibilities of a relationship.
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ask him why he hasnt even called you once. does he still care about you is ther someone else?
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