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broke up
ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! </33
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I think you should just talk to him. You know, don't come onto him or act like you're gonna go farther, just act like a good friend. A lot of my friends have broken up, but they're still friends. So, just because he broke up with you doesn't mean you can't still talk to him! Just talk to him, see his reaction and what he does. If he seems like he still likes you, ask if he does. Also, ask him out if you feel like you should! Follow your heart, if you really think it would be better to stay as friends that's okay too. If he goes out with the "slut", that's not your problem. But still be his friend. Hope I helped.
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well he probly still likes u just doesnt want to go out with u again because he thinks ur not a good g/f i mean u said it urself that whuile u were on the phone you didnt really comment that much just make him feel like hes not trying hard for a relationship but u should still talk to him if he thinks ur flirtin hell flirt back~oooh hormones! lol jk
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Believe me he's not worth it... if a guy leaves you for another girl 1 time and you go back it's ok but if he does it twice than he will do it again... I wish you the best of luck But I dont recoment going back with him... and no he probally dosent like you still he just wants someone he can say i go with er untill something better comes along.
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lol don't worry about it being long. He probably does really like you and noticed that he made a mistake dumping you for the other girl..tell him that your really upset that had to lie to you and that it made the matter worse..if that was the real reason ask him why he couldn't have just told you that instead of having you hear it from your friends (which you shouldn't have to do) I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what happened..you never know he could realize he made a big mistake and you guys could get back together...if not you don't deserve him if he is going to dump you for another girl! Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! -Kristen
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lol don't worry about it being long. He probably does really like you and noticed that he made a mistake dumping you for the other girl..tell him that your really upset that had to lie to you and that it made the matter worse..if that was the real reason ask him why he couldn't have just told you that instead of having you hear it from your friends (which you shouldn't have to do) I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what happened..you never know he could realize he made a big mistake and you guys could get back together...if not you don't deserve him if he is going to dump you for another girl! Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! -Kristen
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Hey sweetie, I am married with 4 kids and I just wanted to let you know that I am going through some problems with my hubby too. But as for you just deal with it like a young woman and don't let him know that you are upset by it, I believe in karma and it will come back on him. Find a new man and he will notice what he has lost. Take it from someone who has had plenty of relationships and have been through alot of stuff almost anything you think of. I have been raped, hit, abused, verbally assaulted, cheated on, messed with a married man and didnt know it, slept with a man that was living with another woman that was pregnant by him and we slept in their bed. I have been through alot and I am here for you to talk to and I will help you out as much as possible. Your loving friend Dymond
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Wow, that is really long lol. But honestly, maybe he keeps looking at you because he's confused and maybe he does like that so-called slut. Honestly, if he IM's you any time soon I think you should ask him if he really broke up with you for that girl and if he says no then ask him if he does still like you. Then if he says he does tell him that you still like him too and you wish yall were dating. I hope I helped, I just don't want you to ask him out when your not sure if the rumors true or not. -Kayla
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