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Hey everyone!! My name is Kristen, I'm 15, Single, and love playing volleyball!![A]ge: 15..going on 16!!
[B]irthday: February 2!
[C]olor(s): Pink
[D]ream boy: Nice guy, Good personality, Sweet, Interesting, Social, Loving, Caring, and looks are just a plus!
[E]yes: Brown
[F]riends (best): Mara Spagnoli!!
[G]reatest things: Family, Friends, Sports, Summer!!
[H]air: Brown w/ Blonde Highlights
[I]nterest(s): Hanging out with friends, talking online, shopping, playing volleyball!!
[J]ealous of: Mara
[K]razy?: I guess sometimes
[L]ocation: Chicago Illinois/Mount Greenwood
[M]arital status: Single..not really liking it
[N]ame: Kristen
[O]bsession: Volleyball and Friends
[P]izza(s): Cheese and Pepperoni
[Q]uestion: hm....
[R]andom: Yes...
[S]chool: Marist High School
[T]alent: Volleyball, and Having a good time
[U]nbelievablly Embarrasing moment: Way too many to just put one.
[V]ery best thing about me: Personality
[W]orst thing about me: Don't know
[X]..yah nothing begins with X: Xtreme?
[Y]ummies: Chocolate Shakes
[Z]odiac: Aquarius
advice
Hey i am 13 and the other day i was talking to my boyfriend and he was all like ya i might be moving out ouf the state next year ! i was so shoked i couldnt belive it i mean i really care for him and dont want him to move the reason it is is because his dads job so it is not really his choice Help wat happens SAy he ends up moving wut do i do HELP PLZ DONT DELETE THIS
Theres nothing you can really do about it..just make the best of the relationship while you can..and while you still have time!
HI,
I have a situation. I have been involved with this guy for close to a month.. We talk on the phone alot, and just recently we met up.. I met him through some desi personal site. Things were going great until after we met up.. I don't hear as much from him, I dont even get a comment regarding our meeting and when he does call he acts strange towards me. I have asked him whats going on... and he tells me nothing. then later on I ask him to be straight up with me.. and he tells me that he likes me alot... but he doesnt know if he can eventually marry me in the end.. You see he is Hindu Bengali and Hindu Punjabi. He says that he has hurt his family before with a previous relationship that lasted 7 years and he doesn't want to hurt them again. But he also says that he wants to continue this relationship regardless if it happens so that he cannot marry me.. What do I do? All my life I have been in relationships where guys have said the exact same thing to m e.. and I've continued with the relationship.. just because for me its hard to find someone that actually likes me. Should I continue this relationship with him? or let him go.. I am so confused and frustrated...
Help Pls
-ss
I think that you should keep going with the relationship because you said that you like him and he said he likes you. The whole thing with his family he is obviously willing to go against if he still wants to continue seeing you. If you don't feel like the relationship is going to go far then you might want to get out of it for yourself. I know you mean by its hard to find someone who likes you. I just found mine but he has a girlfriend so0o. But I think you should sit down and talk to him and tell him what you really feel and what you really want...then ask him what he feels and what he wants. -Sorry if this didn't help..i tried- Kristen
my friend knows guys for liek 1 day and she'll have huge crushes on them...i tried to tell her you don't really liek them sooo much if youve only known them for one day but she is just like..yeah i do so how else and i convince her to get to kno the guy before she crushes on him?
Well do her relationships last long? Tell her that there could be more to the relationship is you get to know them better.. and if she doesn't get to know them before they go out, then once they start going out then she may notice she doesn't like him at all!! -hope I helped- Kristen
I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! The baby didn't do anything at all for you to go and kill it before giving it a chance to live its life! Have the baby and give it up for adoption..I know it's not what you want to do but you shouldn't kill the baby.
Hey guys,
When I was in second grade, I got really sick and had to be put in the hospital. Since I wouldn't eat, they gave me streiods. When I got out of the hospital, I wouldn't stop eating and now I am chubby. I want to loose about 10 to 15 pounds and I am just so fed up with my weight! I have been trying to loose for about 3 years but I havn't really been able to stick with really anything. I want to loose some weight as soon as possible. Does anyone know any ways that would be fast and easy? Please help me!! I want to feel beatuiful and confident. I will rate a 10 if someone suggests something good. Please help!!
~Chubby~
Losing weight never really goes quick and easy. I had that problem too and kind of still do! I know you eat alot when your on this but just eat alot of healthier stuff..instead of chips and snacks like that just eat like a salad or soup or something healthy..it took my like 1 or 2 months to lose like 10 pounds..so0o try and stick to it and you'll be fine! Hope I helped! -Kristen
ok jus like 20 minutes ago me n my sister were play fighting...well she pinched me realli hard on my hand and now my vein is purple n sticking out is that ok or should i go see the doctor??
Me and my brother get into fights like that all the time...there for I get those alot too!! It should go away..but if it hasn't by tomorrow yeah you might want to go to the doctors! -Kristen
I know this is long, but PLEASE READ! I need help! Thanks you very much!
Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, Freshman. Last Saturday I went to the Homecoming dance and I danced with this guy... lets call him John, 14. (I knew nothing about him!) We had a great time and he asked me out... I said yes...
Well I went back to school and everyone found out! All the other guys that like me (who are my friends) seemed mad and sad at me. One of of my friends... Dan... asked me to go with him to the dance a few weeks ago, but I didn't because a lot of other guys asked...
I felt bad today because I figured out... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... or so guys liked me all together... I feel so bad... everyone seems mad at me... and I cryed today at lunch in front of all those guys... (they tried to cheer me up)
Also today... one of the guys... Tim... gave me a letter saying he loved me and he cried because I was going out with someone else and I felt so embarrassed... and sad... also Dan told me he loved me yesterday trying to get me back... he wants me back....... (he said, "Will I ever get a chance to go out with you?).... that also made me cry....
I have no idea what to do... Tim wants me to break up with John and Dan wants me, but I'm going to the movies this weekend with John (maybe) and I was planning on kissing him.....
PLEASE someone help me... I'm so confused...
Hey..yeah alot of guys do like you but what you have to look at is who your most comfortable with! You may think you are with all the guys but they are all different and one can have something you like more than the other! Spend time with "John" this weekend and see what happens if you not comfortable with him and you know your better of with Tim or Dan then go with one of them. You shouldn't keep going with John if you don't feel comfortable with him. I know its hard to do but you have to because your better off ending it now (if thats what you do) then doing it later and having him find out that you didn't want to keep going out for a while now! It's your decision hun! Do what you want to do..not what others want! Lemme know what happens..or if you need anything else..lemme know!! Hope I helped! -Kristen
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
Hey hun...yeah its a little confusing! But a way I believe the girl could be you and then again it couldn't...your right though we do have it harder b/c we do have to turn down guys we don't like and all they have to do it ask (then have the fear of being rejected)! It's sorta hard to tell but I personally think that he likes you..because he wouldn't have said "you do" when you said I like you! If he didn't care then he would be like oh ok that's cool! He might be afraid to ask you out because you did say you rejected 5 guys before. But what you really have to do is talk to him and tell him how much you really like him! Even though you may not feel right doing it..its better to take your chances than not and wonderful for the rest of your life what it could have been like if you just took the chance..if the worst comes of it you guys could always remain friends! don't let this ruin your friendship by any means at all!! Let me know how it goes..sorry if I didn't help....I hope I did! -Kristen
There is this show on FX called Rescue Me. I LOVE the theme song. But I can't figure out what it is! I've tried looking up the lyrics on many sites but it shows up as it can't be found. Does anyone here watch that show and know the name of the song? I can't even remember how the lyrics go I just know the beat of the song but I obviously can't type that! Thanks.
try to get a sentence or two from the song and then go to letssingit.com and put them in the box on top then click lyrics and then go...it should show up.. sorry if it doesn't work!
I've been trying to loose some weight. I know i'm not fat, but i'd just like to loose a few pounds. I started last week, and it went pretty well, but i've decided that this week i'm just not going to diet but start up again next week. I know i shouldn't but i have my reasons. But ever since i've been on this diet, all my friends ever do is hound me about it and make fun of me! they always steal my food and count the calories in it, and everytime i tell them to just stop getting involved with this, they tell me to just listen... they laugh at me and count my calories and tell me how fat i'm gunna get, and it's really really annoying and being on a diet is difficult enough since i have a terrible sweet tooth, but they make it worse. I've tried many times to tell them that it's not their place to hound me about what i'm eating, but they don't listen to me and make a big deal out of everything. I have no idea what to do and they're making this really difficult for me. any ideas what to do? sorry it's so long.
Hey hun...if your "friends" are making fun of you for something that your trying to improve in yourself or about something that would make you more comfortable with yourself then their really not your friends. If they can't see that what your trying to do to make yourself happy..then that's pathetic and you deserve better. Your right and its not their place at all to be making fun of you and counting calories and what not. I'm on a diet too and I'm not fat..just like you I would like to lose a few pounds. My friends don't really get involved because I didn't really tell them. I usually don't even eat lunch at school but anyways...do what you want..and do what will make you happy. If you need anything else..write me back hun! -Kristen
i met this guy over the summer and weve liked each other since we met 5 months ago. hes supposed to come over and spend the night with me wednesday while my moms out and hes talking about us going a little farther than im willing to. im only 15 and not exactly sure about what to do. i have a really hard time telling people no. can you help me out???
Hey I know exaclty what you mean. You need to talk to him about what you are comfortable doing. Like you said your only 15 years old and I don't think you what anything too big to happen at this point in your life...and I don't want you to get hurt or anything! Talk to him and tell him how far your willing to go and if he can't accept that then don't do anything at all. You need to be able to set your goals and the guy needs to understand. Don't do anything your gonna regret or that your gonna get hurt in the long run with doing it now at 15. If you need ANYTHING I mean anything else!! Write me back! Hope I helped! -Kristen
hey my names amy and i am 15 yeas old and my bf is being a jerk. he's always ignoring me at school and at home.wat should i do?
Hey Hun! How long have you and your boyfriend been going out?! I don't think he's exactly ignoring you...but I can't tell you he's not because I'm not there to see it everyday. You should sit down and talk to him about the way you feel about him and tell him what he's doing in school and at home and tell him how that makes you feel. I'm sure that he's not doing it on purpose but like I said try talking to him and tell him how it's making your feel!! Sorry if this didn't help..I hope it did though! Let me know how it goes hun! -Kristen
Hey! Ummmm, ok here's my story. I dislocated my knee on May 24,2004. And sometimes when I run around I feel like my knee is dislocated again. But it's not. Is that normal? !~*Steph*~!
I dislocated my knee a while ago and it does eventually go away..it's different with every person because of the way your bones are! -Kristen
ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high!
lol don't worry about it being long. He probably does really like you and noticed that he made a mistake dumping you for the other girl..tell him that your really upset that had to lie to you and that it made the matter worse..if that was the real reason ask him why he couldn't have just told you that instead of having you hear it from your friends (which you shouldn't have to do) I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what happened..you never know he could realize he made a big mistake and you guys could get back together...if not you don't deserve him if he is going to dump you for another girl! Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! -Kristen
ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high!
lol don't worry about it being long. He probably does really like you and noticed that he made a mistake dumping you for the other girl..tell him that your really upset that had to lie to you and that it made the matter worse..if that was the real reason ask him why he couldn't have just told you that instead of having you hear it from your friends (which you shouldn't have to do) I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and what happened..you never know he could realize he made a big mistake and you guys could get back together...if not you don't deserve him if he is going to dump you for another girl! Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! -Kristen
Hi I am Renee and my hubby Ray is working this job and he says it is for a better life for us but he is never home and when he is home all we do is argue, well he has cheated in the past so you know that runs in the back of my mind all the time but I took him back because I believe in my vows and it was great. Well now he works with this girl that is around all the time, and he comes home all hours of the night. My question is how do I make things right between us and get my point across with out fighting and make him understand me? I love him and I think I can trust him but I don't know how much. Please help me and tell me what I can do?
Well first of all you should sit down with him and talk to him about your relationship. Ask him if he really wants this or if he isn't ready to be committed. Tell him how you feel and what you think he is doing and give him time to explain. I think you can trust him..maybe him and the girl at work are just friends, it may seem more to you but that is because you love him and you care alot about him! Sorry if this doesn't help!
Ok, i have a friend, ive known her for a long time, but we just started to talk and get to know each other about a month ago. I'm finding a lot i didnt know about here, and im starting to like her as more than a friend. I told her im really starting to fall for her. She says that she dont think we could have a relationship for 2 reaons. 1. Because she likes someone else, and she doesnt want to get with me to just get over that other guy and hurt me in the process. basicly she doesnt want to use me. and 2. We've known each other for such a long time that she hasnt thought of me like that. The problem is, she still heavily flirts with me and acts like she wants to be with me. So do you think i have a chance?
Yes I think you have a chance...and if she says she doesn't think she can have a relationship with you then why does she flirt with you? She might be saying that because she likes you too but doesn't want to say anything because she still likes the other guy too..she should give you guys a chance and if it doesn't turn out the way you guys want it to atleast you tried. Ask her why if she doesnt think you guys could have a relationship, does she flirt with you...or maybe she doesn't know what she does around you so you could try telling her..or she could just be saying this because if you guys were to go out and break up then she wouldn't want to lose your friendship! Hope I helped sorry if I didn't..let me know how it goes if you want! Good Luck! -Kristen
I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam
I think you should tell your ex that you still have feelings for him or how you feel about him..and you should give you and Scott a chance...I mean if you don't really see yourself being with Scott tell him the truth because if you don't and you just break up with him and he finds out the reason later then he could get mad about it. Who do you see yourself with..which one do you like more..who are you comfortable with? sorry i hope i helped! Good Luck Sam!
A big problem. Ok... I'm in student government at my school. Were freshmans and are shut down for our ideas... even our teacher doesn't support us. Well, we have connections with stores and radio stations- and we want to organize a fashion show. I mean it's a huge responsiblity and were worried guys and girls won't come, and where thinking of dinners and so on. Please, give me some ideas on how to work this thing.. how to organize, promote, ANYTHING! Thanks- I rate higghhh
Maybe you could let the school whole school know about it and tell them to tell there friends. Tell them it will be an awesome night with dinner too!! Putting something on a radio station would be really good too because people would get the news and actually pay attention because alot of people listen to the radio!! Sorry not too much help..but i hope i helped a little!
Hey! It said in your advice column that you go to Marist! I live in Chiago I'm like 99% sure I'm going there, but the thing is I live like 2 blocks down from Mother McAuley High School. I shadowed at Marist on Friday Oct. 8th and I thought your school was awesome! I really need to know the pro's and con's of Marist but I'm pretty sure I'm going there! Just tell me a little bit more about the school. Oh, and do you play sports there? Which ones? I Irish Dance, so if you missed a practice, would the coaches be super mad, or can I juggle both dancing 3 days a week AND sports? Thanks I rate! ~*Annie*~
Hey my name is Kristen by the way!! Marist is an awesome school. I don't play any sports there because I chose to play club instead. I do play volleyball..just not for Marist! To be 100% honest with you there are really no cons at all with going to Marist. It's an awesome group of students and teachers. I'm a sophomore and I've loved the school. The past 2 years I've learned so much, the other students are awesome, the teachers are willing to stay after or come before school and pretty much willing to do anything to help you out. The guidance couselers are awesome. You only get one but all of them are awesome so no matter who you get you'll have a good time with them. Everything you say to them is confidential unless its life threatning to you then they HAVE to tell. From what my friends say the sports are awesome. If you like to dance then you should think about joining the poms team if you go there next year! If you need anything else or want more information my screen name is xlilirishcutie2x or write me back here!