Hi! My name is Melissa. I'm 15, from Oklahoma and sometimes it seems like I'm better at giving advice rather than taking it, (only sometimes). I love meeting new people and talking and all kinds of crazy stuff. I'll try anything once which is probably why I'm always in trouble but hey, it's hard not to be at such a crazy age when you have a car and a boyfriend and tons of free time right? anyways, ask me anything and I'll answer you and if you don't want anyone else to be able to read it , email it to me and ill get back to you, K? love you lots! BabyGurl_1503
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Irishchick24
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Starting about two months before summer i started liking this guy- we got really drunk one night and were making out~ we had hung out alot before that night but i had never looked at him that way or had feelings for him like i did. After that night we hung out alot and usually ended up doing stuff. It lasted throughout the summer, and i really liked him, he would tell me how much he loved me and how he had never met anyone like me, i meant Everything to him and he meant everything to me. He always bothered me to have sex with him, we had been fighting like the beginning of september, one night i was just so sick of fighting with him i just said lets do it maybe it will make things better so we did. The next day we didn't talk, the week after that we didn't talk either. finally i got to discuss what had happend with him and he told me he needed time, it was over but he still cared for me. Now he just treats me like shit doesn't care how i feel about any of this and just ignores me all the time, it just seems like we never loved at all he just hates me. what should i do to finally understand what happens, what should i ask him to know what happend between us that ruined out relashionship????? (link)
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i think he was just in it for the sex because usually thats how it ends up. they tell you they love you and just how much they need you in their lives and how you willl be together forever just to get you into bed and once they get what they want theyre jerks. it happened to me to this past summer only we werent drunk. my advice to you is just try to get over him and move on. hes a jerk and that was his own dumbness for doing that to you. soon hell probably think about how stupid he was and by then itll be to late for him but you just need to try to focus on other stuff and try to ignore him as well. the more you try to talk to him the more itll hurt and stay on your mind. i hope i helped. sorry if i didnt. Good luck
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What is an average weight for a 13/f. Height- 5 ft 1 in or maybe 2 in? Please help! (link)
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umm... around 105 - 120 lbs.
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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks (link)
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i know you dont want to talk to him but lets be honest... you need to! the guys a jerk and conceited. you dont need that little boy no matter how hot he is or whatever. you need someone who cares about you too and not just your money call him or write him or ask a friend to come with you to talk to him for support whatever it takes you need to get rid of him hope i helped.
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There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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Wow! relationships are crazy, huh? I've been there a few times but the guy actually had a girlfriend. All I can say is for you to ask him out or to tell him that you want to have a real relationship with him not a fling. Good luck!
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lets call the kids jack and jill.
so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.
what should i do?
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Either call her or however you wish to tell her, and say that you would but you can't do it everyday this summer because you have plans that you can't back out on, if she asks you what they are then make sumthing up. Tell her you got a summer job or that you're going to visit relatives out of town or something and you can't get out of it. Or you could just tell her that you would but you don't want to give up your summer, hope i helped atleast a bit. luv ya! missy
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okay so my hair is black and i wanted to die it brown but whichever product i tried didnt work out.. only my roots turned out medium brown and then once it gets towards my tips.. it starts to fade into black. but what am i doing wrong? (link)
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you should just go get it professionly done that way you won't keep spending you money on stuff that doesn't work and atleast that way you'll get it the way you want it faster.
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how can i make my crush like me enough to finally ask me out. cuz he does like me is just dat i dont feel any connection at all. but he tells all my friends he likes me so wat's up with dat ? (link)
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I think if you like him you should ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you. It may seem a little strange but its really not that wierd. If he says no then atleast you can say you tried and if he says yes then you'll be 10 times happier but you have to try in order to get anywhere.
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hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!
I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!
Luv,
~~~ASHLEY~~~
P.S. i rate high
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If your best friend cheated on him and then dumped him then thats her fault, if he likes you the way you like him she no longer has a chance with him. If you like him you should go for it. Don't worry to much about your best friend, talk to her if you need to. If she's really that great of a friend she will get over her mistakes and move on to someone else and be supportive of you. I'm telling you this from experience, I'm caught in the same place right now but it's working and it will for you too. Just go for it. Good luck! Luv Melissa
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Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though. (link)
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truth be told, she sounds like she's just playing games. it sounds to me like she's just wanting to have fun with you both and not to bring your hopes down but there's probably more than just you and this other guy with her. It's a game and until she loses, the game won't end.
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Yesterday my friend pierced my ears. I was wondering how long I have to leave them in before I can change them? Thanks! (link)
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I pierce my own ears a lot and my friends and since you asked, you can change them at anytime as long as you do it quick and don't leave your earings out for very long or else they'll close up but you can do it anytime, even on the first day.
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I think I'm going to visit my sister in Calcutta this summer. Any recommendations on what to do in Calcutta? I loved it last time I was there, but we were only there for two or three days, so I didn't really do much.
(And next summer, another sister will be in Uganda, and I want to visit her there. The joys of having world-traveling sisters.) (link)
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go out and meet some new people and have a blast!!!
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ok my friend i will call her "D" well she thiks that i am copying her, just because she died her hair and so did i aftre her, and that she painted her nails black and so did i... well its not that i am copying her its just that its in style. it is our first year of jr. high so we can die ou rhair anycolor and so every1 has therer hair a weird color and i died min epink and so she thinks i am copyign her
and i don't like who she likes ,
please give me help on how to talk to her nad work this out; i will rate u a 5!!!!PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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tell her to chill out and look around. if everyone else is doing it then why cant you do it too? explain to her that its whats in style now and your not copying her. after all i died my hair purple does that mean im copying her? no so just tell her to chill out.
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Why do people answer questions, just to say they don't know, or to ask somebody else?
Why do people answer questions they obviously, from their answers, don't have a clue about? (link)
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so they can feel important. lol.
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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do? (link)
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yes its normal. everyone goes through it sooner or later but the only thing you can really do is find someone you really like and see what happens, hope i helped.
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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
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no matter how far away you move from her she'll still be on your mind like crazy. maybe you should just lay off the subject with her awhile and just try to hang out with her again. maybe things will change
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Ok i have a sister who is a 13 months apart and she drives me crazy...i am so nice to her i let her wear my clothes and i do favors for her but she is just a brat to me any ideas on how to like make her not be such a brat? i dont know she like finds out things about me from my EX and she knows everything and like she wants to tell the world and its quiet annoying....uhhh yeah so any ideas...?
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i have a sister too. shes 6 years younger than me so i know what your going through. sisters are pains but theres not really a way to make them not be. dont be afraid to tell her no. and about what she finds out from your ex.es maybe you should try to keep a really strong friendship with your exes so they dont tell you sister everything. hope i helped
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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do? (link)
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if you dont like him as a boyfriend then dont go out with him just break it to him easy or you could atleast try it and if you still feel this way then break up with him i dont know what else to say. good luck
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
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no this doesnt make you a slut. he should have told you he had a girl and he didnt and if he would have then you wouldnt have done it right? right. so dont beat yourself up your not a slut. this just makes him a crappy boyfriend and friend.
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Me & my cousin used to be like sisters when we were younger. Ever since she was verbally abused by her ex-boyfriend, though, she hasn't spoken to me much. I've tried to talk to her, but she never really opens up to me. I feel really bad because she just got dumped by her "friends" & boyfriend.. But I don't know what to do. I have a feeling that we're never gonna be close again & it hurts :( Is there anything I can do? (link)
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hey, its ok to be worried about her but if shes not talking to you right now then just give her sometime eventually she will see how much she misses you too and will open up to you like when you were younger. keep trying to talk to her though.
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Me & my friend "Carrie" are really close. Thing is, she's really close to her soon to be step sister (me & her step. are friends, too) I always feel really jealous around them, because they get to hang out every day of the week & they have so many inside jokes & stuff that it makes me really depressed. Like we were shopping the other day & they saw a Barbie at Toys-r-us (don't ask y we were in there.... lol) & they were like "oh this one's me & that one's u!" It was like I wasn't even there! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love both of them, they're my best friends, but my stomach turns whenever they say or do something that I don't get, cuz I'm not close to anyone but them for the most part. I'm so confused (link)
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hey, ok first calm down. dont be so upset if you dont get one of their inside jokes. theyre not ignoring you theyre just having fun like you always do with your friends and if you get that upset why dont you become friends with another girl and then the 4 of you can hang out and you wont feel like a third wheel. that way when your friend and her sis are talking amongst themselves you too have someone to goof off with.
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