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want back what i lost....
hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt
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you need to find some way to talk to her and maybe talk to her parents as well! im sorry that this happened bt its worth a try i hope i helpd
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i think that if she really loves you then it wouldnt matter wht her family sayes even tho blood is thicker then water..do yall talk still?
im you do then maybe you should just spill ur heart out to her but dont scare her away. and tell her exactly how you feel. if it doesnt work then maybe tall should just be firnends, i know thats hard but you'll eventually have to move on.good luck and im sorry about wht happened between yall
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I think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell her how much you still care about her.Sometimes this can be really hard to tell someone that you still care for them but it's the only way you two can be together again.If you dont think her parents like you then I suggest you call them up and talk to them and tell them how you feel about their daughter.If you really care about her.. you'll call her and her parents and tell them. If you need anymore advice just ask me! <3Juliet<3
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I think you should keep trying, tell her that she should only care about what SHE wants, not her family!! And maybe you could talk to her family about what their deal is. A really, really romantic way to git her back:
Drive down their and go to her house and have flowers and everything and be like baby I want you back, I love you! And then kiss her--> unrealistic, but sweet :)
-Hope I helped!-
*Emily*
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ohh, thats so sad!! If i was in your shoes and ther was no way i could get her back, I would distract myself. I would focus more on work/school what ever you're doing. Eventually you'll move on, time heals all wounds. Someday you'lll find somebody new.
If this isn;t an option for you, than talk to her, and maybe do something really nice for her or help somebody she loves. I hope everything works out!!
happy.advice
by the way...where is Namibia???
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You already made the decision by breaking up with her and I assure you, you won't get her back if you plead and whine.
You have to have a discussion with her. Ask her why she may not consider getting back into a relationship with you. Ask if perhaps she didn't see the relationship as positive as you saw it.
There is very little you can do to get her back, but at least if you approach her maturely, you can still maintain your dignity.
If she has made the decision to not go back with you and you are sure of this (after she makes it clear, of course), then you have no choice but to respect her decision.
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no matter how far away you move from her she'll still be on your mind like crazy. maybe you should just lay off the subject with her awhile and just try to hang out with her again. maybe things will change
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