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when are you "old" enough to wear makeup (not just lipgloss and glitter)

umm.. age isnt anything but a number so.. idk ..lmao .. just as long as you know how to apply it without looking stupid

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anyone know where to get a cute AIM valintine icon? thx a bunch!!

iconhell.com

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hey..ok, this is akward but i need sum adivice lol. lets just say im not that big in the boob department. im 13 and most of my friends are like really big, i used 2 be bigger and now i have like shrunk or something! i got a paded bra, but now in the summer guys will see that im way way smaller in my bathing suit!! i heard chicken makes them grow...? :S

umm first let go of the padded bra sweetie. you dont need it. second.. your only 13 you dont need big jugs anyway.. just .. let em grow. some guys like small boobies.. ;)

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Does anyone know of some good ways to make money? Im 14 and I can't babysit because there aren't any kids in my neighborhood. I can't seem to find any ways to make some money.

wash cars

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my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!!

umm.. get like really weird and funky colored furniture.. paint your walls like .. in polka dots and stripes and shit... :) that should liven it up

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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

YES IT IS!! no matter how gothic u are thats.. BLLAHHH.. okay some girls may like it .. but.. honey... stop before you start wearing tampons..

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No long explanation this time. Simply that I'm a lazy ass, hardcore even, and I need suggestions on how to motivate myself to do what I need to do.

sex?

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

u can only do it at a sock hop like a sadie hawkins dance wen its the point.. i mean u CAN if u want to any other time but i mean ... umm yeah i think its a guys` job... most guys feel intimidated wen grls ask em out so idk..i wouldnt im just not the type bt if u wanna go ahead

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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?

HELL NO if a guy wants u to change then he really dont want YOU .. he wants you to become wut ur not..

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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.

ok thats dumb

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I am Vietnamese to and I'm scared to ask my parents bout this cuz it could mean something bad...I know I should know my language pretty well but I don't I do wanna learn...I am full-american born and raise...I know how to say some words in vietnamese...but this is giving me the weirds...It's from a guy I like but he won't tell me what it means...I know this is long and I may sound stupid for not knowing my language but I do this is just giving me mixed feelings...What dies this mean
anh chi muon em toi em von cong yeu anh khong?
I know anh means...boy also your older brother
and chi means...big sis...
Em...also means...little...girl or boy
muon is want...
toi...is to
yeu...means like
khong means...would or could
I sound dumb don't I...but I'm just asking

ask ur parents

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how do i get rid of weeds in the patch on front of my house and stop them from growing back through decorative stones?

throw some weed killer pebbles or w/e... u can get em at like home depot or lowe's :)

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Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?

~*~*~signed...clueless.

ask him wat hes doing that night and if he says hes free then be like " wanna go see a movie? " dat doesnt make u seem head over heels at all.. bt wen u get there and ur inside the movie .. make a move :) lmfao okay u dont have to bt i would

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Ok I heard a rumor and me and my friend were wondering if its true. If u wear sports bra's all the time will that reduce ur growth *if ur still maturing. Signed: Fully Matured

gosh so many myths on the damn titties no it will not reduce your fricking growth! lmfao wear em all u want .. der comfy

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i have felt depressed lately cuz i cant get a boyfriend. i am trying to forget it but i just really want a boyfriend. I am tryin my best but i cant break outta my quiet shell. Any tips on, getting more popular,getting a boyfriend,breakin outta my shell and tryin to b more happy?

i kno how u feel ive wanted one too bt dont go lookn for them just have fun with ur grlies and let them come to u .. u dont wanna come off to desperate! u cant trip up on ur pimp game - boo

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I didn't know what category to put this is... but what are your opinions on tall girls.. I am 13 and 5"8" do u think thats weird cuz im starting to feel self consious but every1 is sayin its good cuz i can be a model.. any thought? think boys will like me or be intimdated?

okay tall grls are sexy lemme tell u that .. lmao its better to have long slim legs than short and .. stumpy legs.. some guys go for the short grls bt most go for the tall ones... its more attractive * no offense to u shorties ur still hott * .. im 14 and im about 5'8 .. be proud! show ur legs off! if u got em flaunt em... u should wear like mini skirts and stuff guys love that on long legs... so show it off grl! -boo

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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?

just one answer... never give up...

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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!

umm hmm maybe he wants u to call him...

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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!




oh god.. it could be someone lying to u never believe those people .. they are nasty!

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how do u lose weight... not weight, but fat in ur inner thighs??

its actually really hard because thats where your fat is stored.. idk how.. im not sure maybe u could do like lower body workouts

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