dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:42 pm: No, you shouldn't change who you are for a guy. You know why, he'll know it's not the real you, and that would make him dislike you. Just be yourself, and the best you can be. Stick with your friends, there's other guys out there. Boys really don't matter, why do they anyway??? Someday, you'll find someone that you can be yourself around. BUt that guy isn't. [ dramaqueenbabeiwb's advice column | Ask dramaqueenbabeiwb A Question ]
PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:36 pm: Awwwwww! No, you shouldn't! I think that it is very wrong when someone thinks that they have to change their appearance or the way they look just for someone else. Looks aren't everything at all. It's wrong when guys just care about looks in a girl. They should be looking at the personality and how the girl is. You shouldn't have to change the way you look for a guy. NOONE should have to change the way they look. Guys should like girls for the way they are, and not make them change the way they look. You shouldn't feel obligated at all to change your appearance. If you like a certain guy, but you think that he won't like you cuz of the way you look, then he wouldn't be a good guy to go out with. You should choose someone that will like you just the way you are! DO NOT change your look for a guy!!!!! Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:20 pm: NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!
NEVER change for a guy. If you're going to change for anyone, change for yourself. YOU have to be happy about the way you are/look. Who cares what everyone else thinks, as long as you like it? If you like your style, keep your style. If you don't like it, change it. It's totally up to you, and ONLY you. If a guy can't like you for who you are, not the way you dress, you don't want to be with him. I mean, does it really make any sense to lie to a guy about your personality, or your style JUST to get him to like the person you try to be? Then you could change back to the person you used to be once he starts to like you, but if he doesn't like that person...would you really want to be with a guy who likes a lie, not you?
Think about it. Don't change for him. If you're gonna change, change for you.
Hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
AsKmE135 answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:01 pm: Definately NOT. A guy should like you for YOU, not for someone else that ur trying to be. You'll never be happy if you're always going out of your way to impress guys. [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
smallfry831 answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:59 pm: If u really want to find a guy that truly likes you, ur gonna have to be yourself, and not try to be sumone else. If he can't except you for being urself then he isn't worth it. I deal with this kindof problem all of the time, so i know how u feel. If you would feel comfortable changing your image, and you really want to do it for yourself, and not just for this guy, then before going through the trouble you should try talking to him just the way you are now. Maybe give him some flirtatious hints, and see if he returns them. If he doesn't like your personality now, he probably won't when u change ur image either. And if he did decide to like u afterwards, then it would probably just be for looks. I hope i helped a little! [ smallfry831's advice column | Ask smallfry831 A Question ]
sullivanstreet answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:55 pm: NO! Do not ever change the way you are for a guy! Nothing is based on the way you dress so why change? Plus preppy is soooo much better than punk. Make the right choice. Hope I helped. Good luck! [ sullivanstreet's advice column | Ask sullivanstreet A Question ]
blondie42222 answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:54 pm: Noo way!!! Punks freek me out!~ I think preps r more i dk..nicer looking!!
babiigurl076 answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:53 pm: If you feel it's right..I don't think you should change for a guy, but I've heard some people change themselves for love/lust or whatever. He should like you for who you are..not whether you're punk/prep or what not. Hope I helped! [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
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