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my friends
i feel like none of my friends like me b/c no1 ever wants to hang out with me and im gettin rlly upset about it </3 idk wat im doing wrong as being a good friend...what are some things i can do to have my friends like me...or fun things to do with them?
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Maybe your friends see you as someone who only likes to be friends with them during school. Show them that you would like to do things with them on the weekends, or after school. If they still do not want to do anything, ask them why, and get the truth out of them. If they are really your friends, they will tell you the truth. Some fun things to suggest to them would be, " wanna go to the movies? " or, if you live near a beach, ask them if they want to go to the beach. Do things to make them trust you, one reason they may never call you and ask to hang out, is because they dont trust you, or they dont feel like they can depend on you, show them that they can. If one of your friends has a problem, be there for him/ or her! I really hope i helped, and good luck.
and remember, YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE FOR ANYONE! BE WHO YOU ARE, AND FIND FRIENDS WHO LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE!!!!
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I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO BE IN THIS KIND OF SITUATION..YOU NEED TO TALK THEM TO TELL THEM WHAT U ARE FEELING... WRITE THEM A NOTE OR AN EMAIL SAYING THAT U WANT TO HANG OUT SOME TIME AND MAKE AN EFFORT SHOWING THEM THAT U REALLY WANT TO BE THEIR FRIEND..I SAY YOU CAN NEVER DO THE SAME THING AND GET A DIFFERENT RESULT...SOO TRY SOMETHING NEW... MAYBE TALK TO THEM ABOUT SOMETHING THAT INTRESTS THEM.... YOU NEED TO BE YOURSELF AND IF THEY DONT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE THEN U SHOULDNT WANT TO BE THEIR FRIENDS ANY WAY..HOPE IT HELPS!!....-BASKETBALLSTAR
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this is kind of hard to answer cuz...i don't know how you are n how ur friends are...but i do know how ya feel cuz i feel like i have no one to hang w/ n i feel like i only have two friends...but jst make the most of it...n u shouldn't put ur self down like that or think that way...cuz i'm not saying you are/do...but ur friends not wanting to hang out w/ you also has alot of the way ur attitude is...like if your a depressing person they don't wanna be like that cuz it would get on there nervs n if ur a bitchy person they wouldn't want to be around bC well u know wat i mean<3
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I don't really know bc i don't know how they don't want to hang out with you. Maybe try calling them and see if they want to go to a movie.
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i think the only thing u can do is confront them and tell them what's on ur mind?! if their ur friends they'll listen! Maybe they can't out because of their busy schedueles.
*BeSs*
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if you have to go out of your way for them to like you, then they dont sound like very good friends to me. no offense. i dont think you should change anything for anyone. you deserve better. hope i helped. if you need anything dont hesitate to ask...i've also gone through something like this and it sucks. im sorry you're going through it too.
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Throw a party or invite them over. No need to make them like you just reinforce that you are a great friend. Get to know them even better. I'm sure you're probobly a wonderful person and they just need to realize that. Hang tight and everything will work out find. Best of luck to you, hun!
xOx Emmz
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Hay! I think you should start off *new*! Just walk to them and be all hay..and cheerie. For fun i go to a movie or out-to-eat or skating, or somthin you can think of, maybe through a party! If that didn't help then ill write some more ideas for you!
Always with love <3
Mary-beth
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