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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿

yes dump him.. guys will lie about anything just to get a girl, and he is obviously lying to you. Why would you want to go out with a guy who likes another girl??

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My boyf & I have been together 4 2 months ... yet he has a problem communicating his feelings openly and honestly. W e have both had a rough and not so nice upbrining, we have both been put down numerous times by our step-parent's.

Whenever he does it's because he has consumed alcohol and he has a tendensy to use unneccessary 'ugly' descriptions of what I am to him. For example he has called me 1 of the most dis-interested lover's he has ever had ... and then as always the next morning he is very sorry and asks for forgiveness ... it's the same old story over & over and it's getting too much 4 me to handle ...

He is obviously not doing any good for your life, and since he is screwed up, he isn't going to fix your life. I say dump him, you don't need someone who treats you that way. Since you have had a rough upbringing, you need someone who will love you, and tell you over and over again how great you are. So dump this guy so you will be open to new guys.

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Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing??

My friend was REALLY tall when she was like 12, and the doctor she would grow to be 5 foot 10. But then like 2 years later she stopped growing and now she is just normal like everyone else. So a lot of times, the doctors are wrong, don't listen to them. Also, if you exercise excessively, sometimes it will stunt your growth. Or you could stop drinking a lot of milk, or drink a lot of coke with caffeine. Hope I helped..:-)

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Well you see I have dated this kid many times and the last time we broke up was because we were going to schools different from eachother, but then he asked me back out after he realized we talked and saw eachother alot more then expected... and i think i love him and we tell eachother that we do, but I have a crush on a boy that goes to my school who I think flirts with me. And i had a dream last night that the kid I like picked me up and swung me around in a hug and kissed me on the cheek.. and he chose me out of alot of different girls. i don't know what to do?

How long has this guy been flirting with you? If he's been flirting with you for a while and he hasn't asked you out yet, then forget about him and stick with your current boyfriend. But if he has just recently started flirting with you, then maybe you could try flirting back and see if he will ask you out. But if you really love your current boyfriend, then stay with him. You just have to do what YOU want to do. No one else can tell you what your heart wants. Sry I wasn't much help.. Good luck!!

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I just moved to this new school. The problem is I still like this other boy from my old school. i know i may never see him again... but i still like him and i'm the only one who knows it. What should i do?

That happened to me too!!! But then when I got to my new school, I starting liking some of the guys there, but at the same time I still liked the guy from my old school. Just try to move on, but if you can't, I know how you feel. Try to get his sn. Or look his number up, and if you were good friends with him, call him. Or you can "accidently" call him, or call him and make up an excuse like "do you know ____'s number" or something like that, and then just start talking to him. But just remember that whatever happens is meant to be and everything will fall into place in the end!

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Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]

Honestly, if he is pressuring into that kind of stuff, it sounds like he is only with you for sex. Guys can be pretty decieving sometimes. They can make you feel like the most beautiful, special, best person in the world. They can convince you that they are in love with you and lift you off your feet. Guys are pretty good at making you think all this, even when they don't REALLY mean it. If you don't feel comfortable doing something, DON'T LET HIM PRESSURE YOU INTO ANYTHING!!! If I were you, I would break it off with this guy because he could only mean trouble. I know you may care for him, but in the long run, it will be for the better, and you will be glad you ended it.

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I always wished I was fatter I'm so skinny and all my friends can wear tight jeans and juniors clothes and I'm stuck in 10/12 in pants and 14/16 in shirts. The 10/12's are even baggy, I can't fit in 8/9 because they are to short. How can I gain weight? I know I have to eat but is there any other ways?

If you start exercising more, then your appettite will increase and you will be able to eat more food. Don't eat junk food though. Eat lots of protein and carbs and calories. Good luck!

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I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH!

it might be herpes, talk to your doctor

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I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!

sorry but you can't control falling in love

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there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about?

yea sounds like she was flirting with you so try to get to know her better!

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ok well i was talking to this guy, were friends, not even friends and we were talking about his friend who had sex with his new girlfriend. then hes like shut up, my dads home. so then we stopped talking about it. then a little bit later it sort of came up again and i made a comment about it. then he didnt respond for like 10 mins. then he said: i hate u, u got me grounded, i told u that my dad was in the room. he didnt tell me that he was in the room, he had just said that he was home nad i had no idea that he was reading the conversation. now the guy (paul) is grounded for 2 months. he says hes never gonna forgive me or ever talk to me again. i feel so bad, theres nothing i can do about it.
help! what do i do?

Try to explain it to him, and apologize. And if he doesn't forgive you, who cares? He wasn't your friend in the first place.

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im doing 300-600 sit ups a day is this bad 4 me?thanx

yea it probably is. working out too much could stunt your growth if you are still growing. And im not 100% sure about this but i think that by straining your muscles too much you could get a hernia (sp?) in your stomach muscles. And I heard that doing sit ups everyday won't do any good, that you should only do them once a week b/c if you do them too much then your muscles will never have any time to develop.

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I took like a week break from gymnastics and now I am going back tomorrow with a bunch of cuts on my wrist because I slit my wrists a few times over the week. I didn't think I was going to go back to gymnastics and I'm still not sure but I might and everyone will see the cuts and they're going to wonder what they are. I don't think they will believe it's from my cat. What should I say? I can't wear bracelets or anything over them that is noticable because we're not supposed to. Help!! How do I hide them?

wear those sweat bands??

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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

Just a guess.. maybe his girlfriend heard the rumor about him liking you, and that's why she broke up with him. So maybe now, he feels uncomfortable talking to you, especially in public. This may not be true, but it's just what it sounds like happened.

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OK, my name is Alex and I am 13 and in 7th grade. I have a boyfriend named Matt who is 13 and in 8th grade and he is the best! But i want to get a little more intimate with him, ya know? He isn't really into the whole kissing in public thing, and I kind of want to do some other "personal things" with him. But how do I tell him that I want to do all of this with him? I can't just go up to him and be like, "Hey Matt, I want to give you a handjob." Can you pleaseeee give me some help!?!?

Hmm.. 7th grade is a little young, but if you really want to, here's what you should do.. Ask him over to your house, or go over to his house, and go somewhere private where there are no adults around and watch a movie, in the dark. Then start kissing/making out with him, I guess to get him a little turned on? Then just let slowly make your move!

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ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions?

..do u wear deoderent?? if u do, try wearing a stronger deoderent, maybe one that's meant for athletes, like Adidas or something.

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I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don

Run for 20 minutes everyday.. do LOTS of situps, like atleast 50.. and STOP EATING SWEETS.. I heard that if you stop eating sweets for like 3 weeks then you stop having cravings for them, so be strong.. and DONT expect to lose a bunch of weight immediately, give it time!! Good luck!

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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help

He sounds like a desperate freak.. just stop talking to him alltogether and he will eventually move on.

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i shave my underarms but lately its been gettin irrated and it itchs. wat to do?

That happened to me too and it was because of the deoderent i was using.. i was allergic to it. Try using a different deoderent. Dove is a good one that doesn't irritate your skin.

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New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings.

No its not rude. 7 1/2 hours is PLENTY of time to spend at someone's party. Infact you'll probably be leaving her party before 11:00 if you say she isn't into late night stuff.

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