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how to get rid of a guy and still be friends


Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 2:23 pm

hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help

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SarBear456 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:43 pm:
Tell him plain and simple. Your Married, your NOT leaving your husband, and you apologize for taking so long to tell him. He's probably going to be hurt, but thats something you can't avoid.

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SweetThoughtz answered Sunday January 9 2005, 4:09 pm:
hey hun! your married so um...you don't need HIM!! just tell him in a nice way that you really love this guy your with and that you just want to be friends with him, and tell him to please stop waiting and move on with his life...xoxo!!

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Babii_Soccer10 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 3:44 pm:
AVOID AT ALL COSTS!!!!! get a new email and never talk to him again!!! hope i helped!! *~!Hannah!~*

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l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 3:00 pm:
Well I don't have much experience with these sorts of things, but umm how about "I don't want to be with you, I'm sorry, please don't wait for me." :-/ I hope I helped.

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funkyfresh answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:45 pm:
Y dont you block him? Just ignore him. Dont cheat on your husband. You're never going to see the guy you met online so you can just tell him I just want to be friends. Even if you hurt him *you dont have to* he still will never see him again. Try getting him out of you mind and ignore him as much as possible! ♥ Michelle

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sweetjewel answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:37 pm:
just say im married and im definately NOT leaving my husband. i would perfer if we didnt talk anymore. if he continues to try to contact you, block him

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AsKmE135 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:30 pm:
He sounds like a desperate freak.. just stop talking to him alltogether and he will eventually move on.

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xoxobabygirl answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:30 pm:
well since your married and you met this person online you need to tell him straight up and tell him you just want to be friends and that you married and you love y0ur husband ok hope i helped! need m0re help leave me s0me in my c0lumn! l0ve sh0rty>

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:29 pm:
dont tell him. Block him. New email adddress. New screenname. new Yahooname. New everything that he might know. besides your name-trix

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