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ok... i was at my friends house and we were just watching TV you know.. just hanging out...well we were like extra bored so we sat on her bed askin each other stupid questions..like what have you donse wiht a boy.. or girl or w/e but i noticed she keeped on asking questions bout girls like... would you ever make out with a girl.. stuff like that... well after that we were jus looking at each other for some reson and she kissed me.. then we stared making out and doing some other things.. but the problem is..if you didnt already know im a girl...i dont know what to do i cant look at her the same but she acts like nothin happend..dose this make me a lesibean?? i dont think i liked it but thenagina im confused right now.. what do you think?? sorry its so long btw
-Crystal (link)
Well did you like it? If you did, but you still like guys you could be bisexual. If its weird with your friend you should talk to her about it!


ok i have this HUGE project due TOMRROW and my partner (we got to pick our partners) shes my friend and everything but she is so flakey!! she already has a F in that class and i didnt know that and i tryed getting together with her over x mas vacation to start it and she never could...and i talked to her about it at school and shes lkie OMG ya when is it due again? OHH tuesday...well lets do it on sunday...and then so yesterday about 2pm i called her and she was getting ready to leave and then she was like lets just do it at lunch tomrrow...YEA FINSIH A PROJECT IN 30MINS AT LUNCH TOMRROW! but the thing is IM HOMESICK TODAY!! i am throwing up and EVERYTHING...and my grade s already a low c in that class....should i just do the whole project now and 4get about her (because for all i kno shell forget to go in at lunch today) and if i did do the whole project id only write my name on it...not hers....but the thing is we signed up and the teacher nows were partners....wat should i do...its a huge project but i have all day and if worse came to worse id hand it in a day late... (link)
Do it yourself.. talk to the teacher and tell her that you did it all alone. You'll get the credit you deserve and she'll learn something


im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
Depends on how rough he is. lol.


hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-) (link)
hah USE a condom. Noises are normal..I do it to. Dont worry about it


Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child... (link)
Talk to your parents..see what they think, and talk to pierre. But most of all remember that the ultimate decision is yours, not ANYONE elses.


hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
Okay, first off..and you've probably heard this a million times USE PROTECTION..and now that thats out of my system..Go get a pregnancy test. They Usually cost up to 15 dollars. And when you feel up your vagina its not a unborn baby. So dont worry about that. If your breasts are tender and your a bit bloated, thats a good sign your period is going to start!


Does anyone know a fast way to get rid of dandruff? I only have untill 1/7/04 and only going to Walmart before then! Help please!

Hair Scare (link)
Head and shoulders might help


I'm a dancer and in one of my dances I have to do a high kick and mine isnt that high and I want to improve it. Is there anything I can do to make it go higher? (link)
Well. lol first off.. I KNOW cheerleading and dancing are completely different, but for cheerleading we over-stretch our muscles, wich makes kicks and jumps go higher...


i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e (link)
Sorry hun :( theres nothing you can do about being short.


What is anemic depression? And does anyone have or know wehere to get any info on it? Thanx! xoxo - KrIsSy* (link)
okay. we'll I am anemic also. Being Anemic means that your iron levels are low. While being in the lowest part of being anemic, I experianced tiredness and I just wanted to sleep, and I'm pretty sure you could have called it a type of depression. I had no energy to speak of. After I started taking pills to boost my iron intake I felt more alive. If your anemic, talk to someone about how to help yourself get better.


I am 13, and I am going back out with my X Boyfriend, I'll call him Alex. Now, In our past Alex and I have went out two times. The first time we went out, everything was perfect. I thought I ment my true love. And he was in love with me, and I was in love with him. Then one night Alex and I went out to a hockey game. Amazing nigh, i had the best time ever. I thought nothing else could go wrong. After we both went home, I got on the computer and he said something mean to my best friend, Leah. And I asked him why he said that, and he started flipping out on me, saying that everything he does is wrong, he never does anything write. And he started cursing at me. Calling me things, then he said why don't you find somebody else thats better than me. And I told him, there is NOBODY that is better than you, I love you Alex. Then he said that again, took me out of his profile and put an away message up. He came back about 10 minutes later, and said he was so sorry he didn't mean anything he said. I was so mad, I didn't know what to do. I wanted to say I was sorry too, but i couldn't, I told him I don't want to take his crap anymore. And his only excuse was, ''I only had one girlfriend before, give me a break.'' And then I was so mad that he broke up with me, I went out with my other X-boyfriend Josh. (that same day). And Josh and I went to a football game the day after everything happened. And I really didn't like Josh, I just wanted to go out with somebody to make me happy, and try to get over Alex. And when I was going out with Josh, I was still loving Alex the whole time. Then at the football game, I couldn't take it anymore, I needed Alex, after seeing him there and everything, I couldn't help it but to remember everything that we had. So at the football game i broke up with Josh and went back out with Alex. We lasted about 2 weeks (at the most) and he broke up with me, because he said that he couldn't stop thinking about me going out with Josh. And then about two months after that happened, he went out with somebody else named Ali. And when they were going out, i was so mad. I couldn't help thinking about what we used to have the first time we went out. And while they were going out Alex and I started talking again, being close friends again. And I started loving him more and more every day. And one day he was so mad, and he wouldn't tell me why. He said ''I only need one thing to make me smile in this world''. And i was thinking about it all night, he wouldn't tell me what that one thing he needed to smile was. And I thought that it was me, the way he said it. Because then he said, ''Why do you want to know, you wont be able to give it to me anyways'' And then I told him that i still love him, and I need him so bad. A couple days after that, he told me that that one thing he needs was me. He said he never stopped liking me. I couldn't beleave it. And now were going back out again. For the third time. I acutally think this time is going to work, and he tells me he loves me soo much, and everything else like that. And I beleave him. And that's what he told me the first time we went out. And I wanna beleave him, but I keep thinking about what he told me the first time. And im scared he's going to get me to love him again more and more, then break up with me again. What do you think I should do? Beleave him or not? XoXo **AmberO** (link)
wow. lol that was long. BUT anyways. Give it one more try, be honost with everything your feeling.


my sisters are so pretty i just feel like im not and i hate that...then i always feel fat to because there are girls in my class who are like size zeros and im like not a size zero im tall and i weigh a bit but what is the average weight of a 14 yr old who is like 5'3 and how could i spruce up my look ill rate if this really helps me thnx
depressed
p.s. is this low self-esteem and how could i have good self esteem (link)
Im a fifteen year old, and im 5'3 also. i weigh about 123 pounds. To have better self esteem, Excersize. It'll make you look good and feel good, witch will boost your self-confidence!


Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks! (link)
Just be honost, but not mean. Tell her your not into things like that, and just being friends is all you want to be. She'll understand if shes a good friend.


Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
love. I honostly think that you could love at any age, BUT only when your older can a person truly appreciate it. It depends on how mature you are, and if your willing to commit, and most youngins aren't. But yeah I think young love is possible. I've seen many of my friends, whome have dated there husbands since sophmore year of highschool.


iv recently been dumped by a guy named brandon he dumped me for his ex gf,basically i got fucked over.i made a huge deal about it all this week i wouldnt talk to him even though he tried to talk to me he dumped his gf.He wants his old friends back we both have the same friends but they wouldnt talk to him cuz he broke up with me they thought it was messed up.I thought about everything and i want to be friends with him still but i dont kno how to say that to him i havent talked to him or looked him in the eyes a while im afraid of rejection that hell tell me he dusnt want to be my friend..how do i say this to him (link)
Just talk to him. Tell him that you would like to be his friend, and just talk to him and work things out. If he rejects you, then I'm sure he doesnt know what hes missing, and just like before, hell regret it.


hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help (link)
Tell him plain and simple. Your Married, your NOT leaving your husband, and you apologize for taking so long to tell him. He's probably going to be hurt, but thats something you can't avoid.


in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this... (link)
Go out with him if you like him. But!! lol DONT do anything with him if your not ready. If he trys to do something and hes making you uncomfortable, dont be afraid to tell him no and leave. NO guy is worth losing your virginity to if your not ready.


okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks (link)
Talk to her about it..if your friend really dislikes you both going out again, take what she says seriously. Remember, don't lose a good friend over a boy. Its NEVER worth it.


OK ive been liking this guy ever since we've been in the same class together and ive told him and he asked me out but then two days later he broke up with me saying he wants to get to know me more and hes been with me everyday since we broke up but still hasnt asked me back out...i want to be with him but i dont wanna wait around very long.. what should i do? (link)
Well, either he's nervous and doesn't know how to approach you, or maybe he doesn't like you. If your REALLY sick of waiting, casually bring up the subject of going out again in a conversation.


Okay i'm a 17 year old female and i'm a senior in high school!!
Well I kind of think i have a problem... i freak out over the littlest things! It's so horrible, like for example this morning my mom wouldn't let me drive her car somewhere where i wanted to go (mind you i have my own car anyways) and i got so pissed i started yelling at her and got all mad. I tend to do this a lot and i sometimes i get so frustrated like when she says okay this is done or something i'll start crying becuase its almost like i like to argue or i just want her to tell me i'm right or something i can't explain it. She always tells me that she thinks i have a problem and i tell her that i agree and that i kind of think i need help or something but then she just kind of blows it off. I am a really sweet girl and i'd do anything in the world for anyone but i get so mad about the tiniest things? Is there something wrong with me? and how can i talk to my mom about this so that she takes me seriously about me needing help? (link)
First off.. I completely understand what your trying to say. I do the same thing, and what I find helps is when you find yourself getting so mad, just take a second to think if its really worth getting this mad over. Your mom might not take you seriously because your a teenager, and a lot of teenage girls have 'attitudes' or get mad over little things.




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