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Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks!
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Just let her know that you dont swing that way she needs to respect you and just get a boyfriend-trix
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You have to tell this girl the truth. Dont be afraid, she had enough courage to tell you that she likes you in that way. Just tell her that you still want to be friends but if she's going to go over the limits and try touching or doing stuff with you then I rather stay away.
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Just be honost, but not mean. Tell her your not into things like that, and just being friends is all you want to be. She'll understand if shes a good friend.
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Sit her down and tell her you're sorry but you don't have feelings for her in that way and that you are straight. Tell her you still want to be friends though!
*Hope I helped!*
~Emmy~
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just tell her what you just wrote down in that question, she should understand. good luck**
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You just have to tell her straight up that you are straight and that you aren't interested in girls and probably will never be. She should understand, since you two are good friends. What ever you tell her will hurt her feelings but you just need to tell her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I've been there! The best thing for you to do is tell her that, no, you don't like other girls that way...but more important, let her know that you still want to be friends! The important thing here is to know that your friend's still the same person as before, you just know something new about her. It'll take a while to get used to, but you'll be surprised how soon it blows over, especially if neither of you freak over it. Good luck!
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Tell her you're just not interested. Nothing personal. And it doesn't affect the friendship. And mean it by the way.
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Tell her that your sorry but your not lesbian and that you cannot change for her. Tell her that you'd love to still have a relationship as friends but that you cant be anything other than that.
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Just tell your friend-I'm sorry but I don't like to frolic in that kind of playground- or -Look, I'm sorry but I only like guys and I only like you as a friend- If you think about it, its kinda freaky.
Love, Jamie
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well just tell her that your not into girls and you just want to be friends with her. it might be scary being friends with her knowing she like you but shes still your friend no matter if shes straight, bi, or lesbian.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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Just tell her you're not like that, and you really just want to be friends. Tell her you really care about her and don't want to lose her friendship. She'll understand. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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well you have a tuff one on your hands...you have to be open and right away tell her your not interested in her like that im sure she'll understand
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just say that there are some people that are out there for you, but im not one of them.
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okay...well. there's a problem. jk jk. ummmm...just don't tell her anything. or ummm...just say you want to be friends. thats all. hope everything works out. yeah yeah! (w/the hand motions):)
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Hey Sweetie, That can be quite weird for someone, but just let her know nicely, im sure if you approach it the right way then she wont be offended beyond the disappointment that you dont like her back but that is normal! Good Luck Hun!
-Britnie
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hey hun, well just say it nicely, just be like "Hun, im really flattered that you like me like that, but i like guys, not girls..i mean we can be friends but nothing more" ..try it
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Just tell her that you rather be friends, because your straight. I'm sure she'll totally understand. Try setting her up with another girl, that's bi or a lesbian then maybe she'll be happy.
♥ Krissy
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Just tell her that you aren't a lesbian, but that you are flattered that she is interested in you. That is the truth and it shouldn't hurt anyone's feelings.
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oh boy, just tell her staright out that your straight, yea i say that girls are pretty but i dont actually mean it like more than friends! oh man! she should understand because you guys are good friends. just be honest, its the best way to go than just going along with it x0 Renee
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