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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months this guy jake all of the sudden starts liking me and all of my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with jake because jake seems way nicer and that he would treat me better. they say this because my boyfriend is kind of scared to make the first move and its fine im not in no big hurry but jake n i were talking and he said that my boyfriend doesnt give me what i want and he was talking about .. you know.. well c i dont know if jake only likes me for that or because of my personality and stuff and he said i was awesome n nice ? help

from eperience, don't break up with your bf becuz of your friends. if jake likes you for the things hell get from you then dont go out wiht him. but if he likes your personality and you then i would see. if your bf doesn't treat you right like givin you attention then i would/might break up wiht him. in my opinion just let things happen rightnow.

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Ok, there is this boy named Eryc, he's in 4/6 of my classes. My friend thinks he likes me, and I kind of believe her, kind of don't. Sometimes he can be such a bastard! But then when I need help he stands up for me. My friend is only in 1/6 of me and Eryc's classes, so she wouldn't know at all what I go through with him and what he does. But in the one class she is in, she thinks he likes me. My question is do you think he has a crush on me?

i think you have a crush on him. or it wont really matter..scratch that. has anyone ever told you that guys are really annoying and a-holes when they like you. so think about it. i think he does.

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I liked this guy at the beggining of the year and he was becoming one of my best guy friends. I always had a crush on him and we would always flirt a lot. Everyone always said oh my gosh you guys would make the cutest couple and oh my gosh you guys should so go out. Before I didnt want him to know that I liked him so I always said noo never hes my friend! I always thought that he might have a lil crush on me because we flirt so much and at the movies I would snuggle with him. Now like 5 months passed and I`ve been getting over him because he was going out with one of my best friends on and off and no one ever knew that I liked him so I let it go and forgot about him. I have a boyfriend and I've been going out with him for almost 4 months. Now me and this other guy still flirt and 3 other guys like me. He is always telling me if some1 is messing with me that he would punch them and stuff. Couple days ago we were talking and he was like did you used to like me and I was like hmm ... maybe and he goes I could always tell but U wasnt sure.He knows that I liked him then he asked if I didnt have a boyfriend would I still go out with him. He told me if he knew that I liked him that he would ask me out. but that was then anyways.. like when ever we talk and we joke around and stuff he always looks at my boobs and stuff and messed with me n laughs. he told me that he liked me and he always writes all this stuff over aim like give me head please and he would say lol and he was like show me your boobies and i dono if its just a joke or something. am i a horrible person for just lettin him say all this stuff.. i love my boyfriend really much but he doesnt treat me that good .. long story but its not that bad but sometimes i feel guilty for some reason. this other guy is really sweet and so is my boyfriend at times. not to mention everyone wanted us to break up but now its settled down. what do i do? i am soo confused? i dont kno if the only thing this other guy wants is to get some from me but im not like that and im not sure if he likes me. i like flirting with him and stuff but i dont know. im really sorry if this is confusing and that its long but i really need advice. thanks i rate 5`s!

ok. in my opinion, i think you shouldn't think anything of it, until something he does-physical-happens. you can still flirt with him, i think thats healthy. if your bf doesn't treat you rite all the time then talk to him about it . and the guy that is sweet to you...take an interest in him, maybe get close- only as friends for now- and see what hes like. if you already know, then i think you should hang out with him more. i hope everything works out ok.

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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

just go out for rite now then dump him...or if you want to be nice, talk to him about your friend emily. hope everything works out.

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hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!

ok heres what you do...dump him for her..i no its mean, but if she wont see it...or you could take a picture of him doing it...whats wrong wiht your friend...is she blind...jk...

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I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back

ok...why dont you ask him out. i no it sounds kinda weird for a gurl to ask a guy out...but. or just enjoy your flirting wiht each ohter...good lucl=k

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my bestfriend looks at me when she spends the night over at my house in a weird way...like when we are gettin ready to go to bed i catch her lookin at me when im changin i really feel uncomfortable and i want her to stop but i dont know how to bring it up and i dont want to start a huge fight and i still want to be friends but im just not like that....what should i do?

umm...girl, you need to ask her straight out. or ask her opinion about girlz staring at other gurlz. ...if she doesnt stop...i dont think she should be goin to your house...cuz your not likehtat...good luck

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does anyone know of any good s/n ideas. i'm looking for a new screenanme and i was wondering if people could just give some random ones. i asked beofre but people only gave ideas like "pick something that is your fave and some of your numbers before and after it".... well that didnt help to much. so please and thanks.

hotmama69...i dont no. ummm...gurlzrule...oh. pick your favorite band, food, store, bf...you can make it funny...parisandnikki...i dunno...good luck

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14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high)

okay girlie. move on. if he still has feelings for you then hell go afta you. but if not your already movin on anyway.

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ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?

no thats not a bad thing. it sometimes happens to me. if he asks you out ummm...consult your friends first.

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My boyfriend used to be so romantic to me and for the last few months its like he lost it all. I even gave him more space which is what he wanted but he likes to hang out with his bestfriend and i respect taht but his bestfriends girlfriend is always over and its like everyday and i dont like him goin there because he liked her before we went out and she liked him then too but she also liked him when wer first started goin out..i trust him and i want him to be with his friends but i dont trust her she likes to be with her boyfriend but also with my boyfriends its always like them three and i ask him to do sutff the four of us be he thinks i'll ruin the fun because im so miserable because when ur boyfriend can say the meanest things to u but then turn around and say the sweetest? whats up with him i need help fast?

the bad thing is tommrow is our 11 month ann. and today he said he doesnt think we'll be together for a long time and i dont know what to think i lve him more than anythign and i dont know whered i'd be without him!

im in the same situation. im just letting him be rite now.

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i have to do this thingy in front of my class.. which is 36 people and i have to memorize it... its a monologue. and im scared. i think imn gunna go out there and like freeze!! what do i do? 13/f

hey. im about your same age. if you no the material and you breathe in thruo your nos out thro ur mouth. talk to the class not the floor. smile. stand up straight. good luck. :)

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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..

just dump him sweeetie. if he aint doing things ya lik and annoying you...get rid of him. hopefully hell understand your reasons.:)

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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not.

hey. well, wait it out for a few more days...in my opinion. he might not b wat you think.:)

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Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks!

okay...well. there's a problem. jk jk. ummmm...just don't tell her anything. or ummm...just say you want to be friends. thats all. hope everything works out. yeah yeah! (w/the hand motions):)

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My bestfriend and I... dont really get along... we can't be around eachother for more then 10 minutes or we'll start fighting.. n i have 2 other bestfriends (all four of us are bestfriends lol) and they think it gets annoying but me and my friend are trying to work it out but we cant.. n i just wanna kno if u think this is a good friendship.. so tell me wat u think.. thanx a bunch!

hey! i have two sides. 1. try to still work things out. but if they dont, just be friends or distant friends. but not best friends. 2. just tell her you dont want to be friends. it might ruin the 4some.but you have to take a chance. also, if your other best friends say its annoying you two trying to work it out, ask your other best friends. maybe with their help they wont think its annoying. hope everything goes well.:) 4thofjuly

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