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he cheats on her
hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!
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There isn't much you can do but prove to her that you're right.. somehow.
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I'd confront him about it. Tell him that its not cool what he has done. Then go to you friend and sit her down and tell her everything. Tell her she would be better off without him and make sure you tell her if her was if there is more times that she doesn't know about. Remind her you are just being a friend and looking out for her.
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you have to find some way to prove it to your friend that this kid is cheating on her... i guess it's true when they say love is blind.... if you can't find a way to prove it... then get her interested in another guy... if that doesn't work.. confront the dude.. tell him that you aren't gonna just sit back and watch him cheat on ur best friend... tell him he either has to stop cheating or break up with her... i know it will hurt your friend for a little bit and she might be pissed and not talk to you... but you have to do this... she will just get hurt.. if not pull a trick on the jerk and teach him a lesson....=)
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ok heres what you do...dump him for her..i no its mean, but if she wont see it...or you could take a picture of him doing it...whats wrong wiht your friend...is she blind...jk...
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who. cares. find something productive to do.
-hitler
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You should sit down and tell her than because you're her friend you are watching out for her and that you really are worried for her. You should also lte her know "who do you trust more about the truth, your friend, or a guy?" but be nicer about it, ya know? If you don't want to do that just let her know "I have been trying to convince you of the truth, and all I can do it hope that you believe me, and do something about it." I think it takes a lot of guts to tell her that, so I definetly give you major props that as it is. I wish you so much luck.
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In situations like this you simply think Karma. What goes around comes around. One day he'll get caught and your friend will realize she needs to trust you more. Now you have two options. 1) You wait until he gets caught. That way you don't look like the nagging friend. 2) You can sit her down and use the relationship to sway her. Look her in the eyes and say I have seen him cheating, and if you don't believe me then it is your down-fall. Who are you going to believe, your best friend who has excepted you even when you were at your worst or your b/f who doesn't plan on being serious with you. I mean he'll have to date you for 4 more years until you are legally married. So, I think our relationship will last longer and has lasted longer than you and him.
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If she doesn't want to believe you, it's her lost. She should beleive her friend over her boyfriend any day. Next time you see him cheating on her, call her up and tell her to go where he is. Then she can see with her own two eyes. Or maybe even catch him in the act. Take a picture if he kisses some girl and show her the picture. It's a picture and pictures can't lie. Even though, just keep being there for her. She'll need you when this boy does break her heart. Then she'll realize what a good friend you are in the first place, by trying to get thru to her about the hole cheating deal.
♥ Krissy
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there is really not much you can do now. but if you still want to try, try to make her see him doing stuff. if that does not work you need to talk to her boyfriend. i hope it all works out and she finds out. good luck i hope i helped.
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