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Ok well one of my friends told me about this site. We were talking and she was like "hey, Kasey you love helping people and your good at giving advice. You should take a look at this site." So I did and...well, you could probably guess the rest. Anyway, I love listening to people and trying to help them. So if you need someone to talk to...I'm here for you.
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I never know how I should respond to the "V" question when trying to get with a girl. If I say my truthful and say no, they are like "awww, that's sweet" And pretty much never hear from them again, but I don't want to lie and have it kick me latering down the line. What should I do in this situation?
Well, I think I guy being a virgin is an awesome thing. I think it cute...I know I just proved your point, but I think it makes a guy seem hotter. I don't know if your getting what I'm saying,but...For some girls know a guy hasn't had sex take the pressure off tehm. I mean they may feel that its not as big of a deal for you. I don't know many girls that ask about that but, just be stright about it. Be like yeah I just havn't found the right person yet. That make them aww.
Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!!
Write to eachother, call eachother, e-mail, aim, there are tons of ways. Go to like school events. Like if you are in the same county and your schools play eachother. Or plan time to hang at the mall or something.
hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!
I'd confront him about it. Tell him that its not cool what he has done. Then go to you friend and sit her down and tell her everything. Tell her she would be better off without him and make sure you tell her if her was if there is more times that she doesn't know about. Remind her you are just being a friend and looking out for her.
i want my hair to not poof during the day because it usualy does so i would have to go to the bathroom and put a little water on my hair so it wont poof. i am planning to go out and buy hairspray that will keep my hair stay unpoofy and stay straight for the whole day, anyideas?
I have the same deal. I've got crazy hair. I usally keep it wet (let it dry naturally) and spray a bit of Aussie (spelling) hair spray in it. Or sometimes I try gel. If you shower at night put you hair (wet) in a tight bun after brushing it. That'll give it time to dry somewhat over night, ut it'll still be wet enough to do stuff with. Try anti frizz stuff. Frizzes (I think thats it) works well...or Got 2 Be products. You an get all that at Wal*Mart.
I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back
Well, whats stopping you from asking him out. Just be like "Hey, you want to go see a movie together."
is ear cartilage piercing safe? i want to do it myself, with sterilized stuff ofcourse. has anyone else done that? what do u think? is it safe?
I had a friend who did it herself and she turned out ok, but I would say to be on the safe side get it done by someone who knows what they are doing.
I went out with this guy (we'll call him Tim) for a few weeks but then we broke up. Now, a year later, Tim is one of my best friends. He tells me anything and always comes to me when he needs advice about his new girlfriend (we'll call her Callie). The problem is that Callie hates me! The reason why is because before Tim dated Callie, Callie had another boyfriend (we'll call him Connor). Connor dumped Callie because he thought I was hot and wanted to ask me out (which he never did). Tim said Callie hates me because she's mad that her ex boyfriend dumped her for me. I don't want her to hate me because she seems like a cool person and I don't like it when people hate me! And I know for sure that Tim is telling the truth about her hating me because he is so sweet! Please help thanks! I'll rate ya! ps. I'm 13/f
Talk to Callie and explain to her that you had nothing to do with Connor dumpping her. Its not like you told him to. Tell her that you want to be friends, because she goes out with one of your good friends and that you know it would mean a lot to Tim it ya'll were friends.
Hi ...mii boyfrend broke up wit me nd asked another girl out....nd she went out him....then another boy asked me out so now im goin out wit him.....but i still cant get mii ex out of mi head.....wat shoold i do?!?!?!??!
PLZ HELP!
signed love trouble
Well, it sounds like he has moved on. Why you try doing the same? I know thats easy to say and hard to do, but all I can say is that time will help. Try spending more time with your new boyfriend. You'll get so wrapped up in being with him you'll forget all about the old guy. Don't dwell on the past.
So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!
There is nothing wrong with trying to have friends or trying to be popular just watch how you treat you old friends. Its all grand having loads of friends, but you need to remember who has been there for you.
hey i'm 13 years old and im not a geek or anything, and ithink i'm kinda pretty:-/.(i'm kinda skinny and 5 foot which i dont like, but anyways)
The only guys that have asked me out were kinda dorky, and only like one guy who i actually liked asked me out, but i misunderstood, not knowing that he liked me. This one guy who i sort of thought was cute asked me out, and I said yes, but he's kinda shy, and I don't know what to do, because he might be coming to my school, and he didn't really hang out with me or my friends when he visited, an everyone was making this huge deal about us, because someone found out. I think another guy who i might like might like me, who is really cute, but i just started going out with matthew, (and he's in 7th and im in 8th) and i don't ^really^ know him yet, and don't want to hurt his feelings(he showed me a poem about the last girl who broke up with him that was kinda creepy about how he hated her)
what should i do?(sry about it being so long!)
-needz advice!-
Wow...it sounds like you hormones are all over the place honey...maybe you should take a break from dating for a while give yourself a chance to cool down.
okay... im a girl and 14 and i really like this guy & he liked me too and we went to homecoming and everything was going great... after homecoming, he said that he likes me too and that he wants to go out with me ((but he didnt technically ask me out yet)) so then a few days later we went to this party & he wasnt there... & the whole time i was thinkn about this other guy and kissing him and what not... but then we went to a school nearby at around 10 ish & lit off fireworks... that was a long story but the cops came & "gatherd" all of us "kids" to go back to the house the party was at. and the guy was just walking around looking for his cat & the cops told him to go back to the party too. okay so then we were all watching a movie & the OTHER guy that i was thinkn i wann'd to kiss and i were sitting on the chair and we started making out and what not... right in front of the other guy that i hella like that liked me too. & well.. needless to say.. he doesnt think things will work out with us.. he said he still likes me a lot.. but after that he couldnt EVER go out with me cause i hurt him so much. i kno i made a huge mistake expecially cause he means soooo much to me.. but what should i do cause i really want things to b right with us again.. a lot of time has passed and we r just now starting to BaReLy talk again... please help me out & dont call me a slut or w/e cause i've gotten plenty of that around school..
Just apologize, thats about all you can do. The rest would be up to him. You said a lot of time has past so tell him you've changed and your not like that anymore.
Hi, I'm doing a speech on voting. I need a graph of how many people voted during previous election. Could anyone help me??! :/
try like cnn.com or some political website or try google
i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
Just talk to her...whats there to lose? Tell her that you miss talking with her and hanging out. Then ask her how things have been.
Heya all, i was wondering if any of you had tips on how 2 get a lot of white out out of a dark navy and a black sweatshirt???!?! I got it on my enitre sweatshirt and my boyfriends while we were throwin it at each other cuz we was messin around as usual..., and i wanna get it off mine but i feel bad cuz i got it on his... any help is appreciated!!
soke it and then use something like shout. I got paint on a pair of my pants and I just washed them and it came right out. If that doesn't work maybe try taking it to the dry cleaners
hey..im in 10th grade and i havent had a serious boyfriend since 8th grade. I hate being single. I want to meet someone great, and it doesnt look lke thats ever going to happen, especially in my school. It just gets kind of depressing, especially around this time of year. What if I dont have another bf until after high school!? I cant wait that long..what can i do? if anything?
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Well, if you really want a boyfriend and there is no one at your school then try joing some kind of group (church, sports team, county play,ect.)If not try going to the movies or a skating rink with friends a try to pick some guys up. Now,I'm not telling you to go be a whore or anything, just go up to a guy and try to have a friendly chat...if things go well give him your number (or get his) and see where things go from there.
I sit with the techers at lunch and some of my friends. Well, my friend Kayla asked me if I like this guy Johnny, who is a techer and in 12th grade. (Im in 9th). I told her i dont know him that well to like him. She told Johnny that I like him. I'm not mad at all! I thought it was funny because Johnny is really cool and thought nothing of it. Well, she told my other friend Kelsey who also sits with us that she thinks that johnny and I should go out. Kelsey thought we should and that we would make a cut couple. I sit beside Johnny everyday and he is really nice and funny. I think i am starting to like him but im afraid he doesnt like me back in that way. we talk on the computer almost everyday and have become friends and i dont want to ruin that. Kayla has stopped talking about me and Johnny going out but i can tell that she wants us to go, i think (lol) Kelsey wants me to go out with Johnny as well. The thing is i never had a boyfriend before and i dont know how to have a boyfriend (if that makes any sense!) Do you think i should see if something could happen between me and johnny? Or should i forget about having a boyfriend for right now? HELP!
Thanks so much!
HEC!
Well, before you do anything make sure you like him like him (you kow what I mean{I hope you do}). Like don't say you like him just because your friends say ya'll would be so cute togeather. Make sure its something you want and something that you a ready for. If it is and you are then just tell him. Or you oculd write him and note. Just be like "I'm kind of shy when it comes to this stuff, but I like you and I wanted you to know. Would you like to go to the movies or something." You can tell I have experience writting these letters. Make sure you tell him that its cool if he just wants to be friends. There is nothing wrong with being friends. Oh you give him the note, if its from one of your friends he might not believe you wrote it. If you can't work up the guts to give it to him put you phone number in it and then get a friend to give it to him.
How Do You Know If You Found The Right Person You Want To Spend The Rest of Your LIfe With ????????
Hum...that a tuff question. I'm hoping your not like 12 or something. Anyway, some say you know its true if their the fist thing you think of when you get wake up and the last thing you think of before you go to sleep.
You know the rest of your life(hopefully you've got awhile) could be a long time. So if you fell you just can't live without that person and they take up at least 6/10 of you idel thinking time then maybe their the one.
I guess Just follow your heart...I know that sounds lame, but its better then flipping a coin.
I used to be best friends with this one girl maddie for 3 years..she was really close friends with jaime too.. after a while i started hanging out with jaime and never talked to maddie.. me and jamie practicatlly hated her! but it was immature so i started being her friend again after a year.. but jamie gets so mad when i talk to maddie.. what should i do!
Explain to Jamie that you can be friends with more then one person and just because your friends wiht Maddie doesn't mean she has to be. If she is a true friend she'll understand.
ok, my parents, dont smoke..or say they dont. when theyre in their room, and they leave and let me go in there..it smells horrible..like smoke, but not cigarette smoke. ive been to a concert...and smelled mostly everything there is to be smoked, and one of the smells is what i smell in my parents room. last year i was looking for presents around xmas(hehe) and i had heard of looking in btween the bed and the mattress, so i tried there. i found a couple of baggies with something in them..and no it wasnt a cd or anything.. well everyonce inawhile, i see a pipe stickin out from under the bed.the othr nite it finally hit me what the smell was..pot..so jus a second ago, i went in(theyre not home) and lifted up the matress, what do i find?the pipe i saw, and some baggies with the same stuff. so i went to freevibe.com to see what it could b..and i think it is pot. if they are, i need them to tell me, even though i noe that wont happen. if they are i wanna get out of the house and go stay with my aunt. the thing is, i love my parents, and theyre BOTH sunday school teachers.do u think they are? and if they are..how can i stop it or let them realize i know?
Just ask them. If you really want them to stop tell them. You could get on the net and get some facts togeather and show them how much this means to you. If that still doesn't work, then tell them its either pot or you. Giving someone an ultimatum like that takes guts and you need to be willing to back it up. I would say jsut talk to them about it.
my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot
Hum...two weeks that kind of quick to drop the L word...(childish I know)...ever heard the saying "No guy is worth your tears and when you finally find one that is...he wont make you cry." It was completly childish of him to tell you that you started it and it was wrong of him to call you out "in fornt of god and everybody." In the title you called him "a jerk" so I think maybe you might have already mad up your own mind what to do. If not...think about it...do you really want to go out with a jerk?