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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
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I think you should talk to her. She seems to be trying to make up. If she continues to be disrespectful, leave her.
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Yes give it a shot who knows? its a 50/50% chance maybe she does want to be your friends or doesn't. Forgiving is the most important thing and hope she does.
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Well, You should show her that note, and have a note that you write with it, and the write that you want to be friends with her, and that you want things to work out, and that you want to be friends forever just like she wanted!
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You should talk to her and you just need to be like hey I'm sorry for what I said. I didn't mean it and I want to be friends with you again because I loved it when we were friends. Just be real with her.
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you should talk to her. say that i really want to be friends with you again. then when you're all set straight, invite her to a movie or something like that.
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hey hun- to be honest with you, i think that you SHOULD talk to her. i know what its like to be in this situation. but i know that if you two were really great friends, that she is missing you as much as you are missing her. she might not be ready to admit it, but she is. so what i think that you should do is either call her, write her a note or personally i would go to her house and talk to her in person. you dont need advice or my words as to what you should say to her. what you need to do is be completely honest with her and let her know how you feel. open up to her. just say what you feel and believe in your heart. let her know that you miss her and that things have been rough without her. and i know that things might be awkward for a while but you could atleast mention that you two could try to start over and take things slow, unless she is wiling to be best buds again. i think that as long as you are honest and truthful with her everything will work out in the long run. just let me tell you, she might not be as accepting as you would like. so be prepaired incase she does shoot you down. i want to wish you the best of luck and i hope everything works out for you and your friend!!
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Just talk to her...whats there to lose? Tell her that you miss talking with her and hanging out. Then ask her how things have been.
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i would definatly talk with her... it never hurts... and NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE, APOLOGIZE, for what ever happened even if it was her fault... YOU STILL MUST APOLOGIZE..i mean if you apologize and tell how wrong and sorry you are she will probably ultimatly forgive you if you guys were really good friends... so ya i say call her up some night and just APOLOGIZE and don't stop apologizing...even if she complains that you did this and you did that...instead of trying to argue back... JUST APOLOGIZE...
i hope i pounded my point to you
good luck
kev
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i think that you should. just go up to her and appologize and tell her that what you said you shouldn't have said it. maybe she was right. maybe ya'll might just be friends forever! you can always tell who your real friends are when they stand right next to you through thick and then
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The exact same thing happened to me.. me and this one girl promised to be best friends forever.. but then we started saying bad things about eachother and we weren't friends anymore. all i did was just talk to her.. like when sum1 els is talking..get in on the conversation and be like..omg remember that time we..went to a concert or sumthin? hope i helped! x3
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Ask yourself if you can be friends for good reasons, or if you will only turn on each other again and talk trash about one another again. If there still is that hostility in you to say mean things, it's probably best that you keep away from being friends with her for a while yet.
If she really wants to fix things, hear her out. But if it's just a ploy, keep away. You don't have to waste your time playing mean games with each other.
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you should definitely talk to her, if you want to fix things with her too. it'll be really hard and a little bit awkward at first, but if you have been good friends with her, it won't be that bad. just tell her that you're really sorry for the things that you said, and you hope that you guys can fix things and be friends again. i know that one you start talking, there will be so much to say, that you won't need anything planned out. but if it helps you, then make a list of things you want to say to her-such as appologies, questions about why you got ina fight, etc. i'm sure she'll be really happy that you took the initiative and decided to talk. it takes guts, and if you do it, you're a really strong person, and i admire that. best of luck, and i hope this helped.
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You shouldnt just block her out of your life, that can really hurt a gurl. If you care about her still and want to be friends with her then you should call her up and just talk to her. I know exactly what you are going through, bc I am going through the same thing. Just follow your heart and make sure that you make the right decision. If you have been friends with her for a long time, dont just through away your friendship. Just think about it, and your heart will tell you what to do. Hope I Helped!
sign- sami
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