okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/
Comfort her. tell her it is okay to be scared go wiht her to get a pregancy test. and if she is then you need to let her know that the best thing to do is tell her parents. my step-sister is pregant and she is young. but when she was 4 months she finally told me to tell my mom and my mom told her dad. if she is scared of how her parents might react believe me it isn't near as bad as yall think it would be.
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My best friend and I just had the worse fight ever.... we both said very horrible things to eachother and i guess all of our true feelings came out... i can't explain how i'm feeling right now but i guess i'm feeling a strong urge to just cut myself and get it over with... i know people reading this think i'm a freak... but i need someone really bad... please help me.. :(
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5's to anyone who helps me.....
You and your friend got in a fight. the things you said to eachother might've hurt but yall didn't mean what you said. yall just got angry and started saying a whole bunch of mess. do not take mental pain and turn it into physical pain. inflicting pain on yourself is no way to solve the problem that just creates more problems. talk to the friend yall will really realize the things you said weren't true.
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I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help
you reacted like anyone in your situation would of acted. but you shouldn't feel uncomfortable unless he is pressuring you to have sex with him. when he starts pressuring you that is when you should feel uncomfortable. he was just telling you that he wasn't a virgin because honesty is the best policy in a relationship. i mean i have been in a relationship where a guy would pressure me to do certain things and i wouldn't because i didn't want to ruin my reputation by being known as easy. jsut remember our dignity is alot more important than your relationship. and if you feel uncomfortable just let him know that you are a virgin and you owuld like to stay that way for awhile. no one is mature enough at 15 truly to have sex. we don't get our sexdrive until out 20's just let him know that. we aren't like guys.... walking hormones!
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is ear cartilage piercing safe? i want to do it myself, with sterilized stuff ofcourse. has anyone else done that? what do u think? is it safe?
you shouldn't do it yourself if you weren't trained to know how to pierce cartilages. it is a very dangerous thing to get pierced. it could get severly infected. just leave it to a professional.
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot
tell him that if he can't even handle a little confrontation about a couple a words you didn't like that he was saying, tell him that he can't handle a relationship. if he continues to be rude to you don't talk to him, it isn't very hard to say dude calm down we have only been together for 2 weeks. always remember in relationships u are going to go through some times when you are climbing a mountain and you just keep falling on your ass!
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Ok. My boyfriends dads, halfbrothers, half son seems to always hit on me whenever i see him and my boyfriend always gets mad at me. when we went to the movies and him and his bestfriends, sisters friend was there.. he was like all over me and then me and my boyfriend left the bowling ally with his step-brothers dad.when we got in the car my boyfriend was extremly upset with me... how do i make this stop?
You should tell the guy that he is crossing the line. say you have a boyfriend, and that you care about him deeply. if he continues to flirt with you bring it up to your boyfriend that he needs to explain to him that you don't like him.
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