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i need your help :'(
My best friend and I just had the worse fight ever.... we both said very horrible things to eachother and i guess all of our true feelings came out... i can't explain how i'm feeling right now but i guess i'm feeling a strong urge to just cut myself and get it over with... i know people reading this think i'm a freak... but i need someone really bad... please help me.. :(
Lost N Broken
5's to anyone who helps me.....
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First, CALM DOWN! There is no need to cut yourself! Sit down and take deep breaths. it may sound stupid but it helps. don't stress out about it, first if you calm down you will find that you can think better and more clearly. Write down words like you are yelling at your friend like the paper is her/him and then read it to yourself and afterwards rip it up because you know you really don't mean those things and if your friend finds it later, they will be really mad! Then, apologize, you probably just wanted to get things out into the open and that helps, tell your friend that.
Hope my advice helps!
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I know what kind of situation you're in. Don't do anything drastic over one fight, it happens all the time. Instead, try writing a note to your friend, IMing her, calling her on the phone, or talking to her in person. It may be that she feels the same way you do. If she decides to still hold a grudge, then you need to just give her some time. Don't think about it for a while, and maybe she'll come around. If she doesn't, then she isn't worth being your friend anyway. Hope I helped, and good luck!
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Its always good to let out your feeling dont be scared becz maybe from what you said they can make themselfs better <3 good luck
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You and your friend got in a fight. the things you said to eachother might've hurt but yall didn't mean what you said. yall just got angry and started saying a whole bunch of mess. do not take mental pain and turn it into physical pain. inflicting pain on yourself is no way to solve the problem that just creates more problems. talk to the friend yall will really realize the things you said weren't true.
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hi
try and ring her up and tell her you didnt mean it
luv nicki xxxxxxx
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I wouldn't cut yourself it is dangerous and i don't think you want to go to the hospital when the way you are feeling they are depressing already i guess it was meant to be because you have been friends for along time and one of these days you guys were going to get in a fight because you have been friends for so long i wouldn't worry about it very much because you have many other friends who care about you and probably would do anything for you so don't worry about it very much you don't want to stress yourself out when you pretty much are already stressed out.
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Why dont you ring her. And tell her to come over so you two can sort it out, that way you will feel but better and wont have the urge to cut yourself.
luv roxie
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Did you mean the things you said to her? If not then it's probably very likely that your friend is thinking exactly the same thing as you. It's a question of who'll make the first contact to apologise.Whenever friends have arguments it can easily spiral out of control and lead to you both saying things you don't mean. If I were you I would send her a text and be the first one to say sorry. Just say, 'I'm so sorry for all those things I said - I didn't mean any of them - it was just an argument that got out of control. I hope you feel the same and didn't mean the things you said too cos I really value our friendship and don't want us fighting anymore!'
Hope I have helped a little
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well one thing dont cut! that is suicidal! how ever you spell the word lol! and if you do cut and your parents find out you could be sent to a phycologist or a mental place! i no my best fiends there cause she cuts! WEll one thing it depends on how bad you said your feelings! one thing you cant be mad at the truth if it the truth! And it will blow over! you have other friends and till it blows over hang with them! you can always have more then one best friend! But if you dont want to do that write her a note sayin i didnt mean what i said and stuff and that i hope we can put are diffrences aside and be friends how we use to be! thats probally one the best things you cvould do or write her a letter!
And if shes a tru friend she would now how you truly feel!
i hope i help
ilu!
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Um... well.. If you cut yourself you would probably feel better(I know cuz I used to cut myself anyway)for awile but it won't resolve your problem. You just need to chill, relax,or cool off a bit. If you guys are really good friends everything will work out in one way or another ok
FOREVER
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ok well you dont want to do anything to end your life or cause harm to yourself. nothing is worth that. espically not a fight between you and your best friend. and also if she/he is your best friend then things will for sure work itself out. but no matter who started the whole thing, be the bigger person and just go to her in a calm way and tell her why you feel the way that you do. try to keep things as civil as possible and let her.him know you didnt mean anything that you said really and that it was just anger talking. im sure they feel the same. and whatever the fight was about, trust me it will be ok. i cant tell you how many fights me and my best friend have gotten into...and sometimes over serious stuff! but we are still with each other literally 24/7 up to this day lol....keep your chin up hun! let me know how it goes!!!!
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cutting yourself obviously isnt going to take back what you said and its just a cry for attention. well i have no idea what you guys said to each other so i cant realy help what you did but say to write her a note or letter and apologize, and make sure to say that she said mean things to you , too. you could also work out the problems that you guys have with each other. good luck
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