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Well i really like this boy at skool and he likes me to but he is 6th grade and i am in 8th and to make matters worse both of his parents are teachers at the same skool. What should i do?
My brother already asked his mom if someone asked him(the boy i like) out can he go out? and she said yes as long as he does good on his games. But he keeps like avoiding me but not really like he is shy. What should i do?

well first of all....if he is mature enough to handle the kind of relationship you want right now then age doesnt really matter. if i was you, i would be the one to go up to him and just start making conversation. then maybe ask him if he wants to come over one day after school and yall can study or do something. start by taking little steps and then he will stop avoiding you and he will see that your an awesome girl! and hopefully yall can develop a special relationship from there! :-) xoxo

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Maybe this sounds stupid but....
..Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! X'O

yea i do sometimes actually haha....all you can do is tie them one thing tighter and keep pushin your hair up....lemme know if ya need anything else!!! xoxo

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i have not had my period for 4 months i have had really bad cramps doctors say that im not prego i am really scared that there is something seriously wrong with me i am only 20 years old i dont wanna be sterial help my e mail is hot_stuff_200557@yahoo.com

you need to tell them whats wrong and have them test you out. its possible that you actually might be infertal

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hey im a sophmore in highschool and this guy likes me but the only problem is that hes big...and i only go for guys who are jocks or prettyboy,cute and guys like that.
and i dont wanna lose my reputation for dating someone who is fat.
all my friends say im really shallow..and i guess i am. but over the past week ive started to like him...but the only thing is that i dont wanna date him because he's fat.

well i dont judge my boyfriends on looks because that isnt as important to me as a sweet personality and making me happy. But if you really just dont want to get involved because of a person's weight then just be friends! hope i helped

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ok well i wore my ring to sleep last night i usually don't but i kinda forgot to take it off and today just a few min ago my thumb here the ring is on my finger is like a greenish black. Why? Is this good or bad? What shoud i do?

it means its fake silver

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have you had ...?????????? jw is it bad?? is it scary???

haha well yes i have and its not bad or scary so dont worry!!! :-) :-) feel free to ask anything else! xoxo

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why duz sex hurt???????????? like i mean wut happens that it duz?????????????

because something is going inside a girl that has never been in there before. and the area where the guy's thing goes in is really tight and has never been streched out before so it hurts when it first happens. but it wears off after a little while. hope i helped! lemme know if ya need anything else!

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i dont know how kiss girl you shove me ..how good?

well i don't really know how to tell a guy lol...but all i could think of is to just start by peck kissing and then slowly work your tounge into the whole thing...put your index finger under her chin and just have fun! lol

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If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test?

drink TONS and TONS of water...wash your hair twice a day and always be doing something physical, you should pass that way!

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how duz sex hurt

pinch the skin on your arm and pull up....then wait for like 3 seconds....that pain you feel after oyu just pinched yourself is how it feels for like the first 3 minutes then your all good to go! heheh....sry thats the only way i knew to describe it hahah xoxo! be safe whatever ya do!

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well is discharge ure piriod or is it a sine ure period is cumin? do i haf to wear a pad or tamponfor discharge

no it could be a sign that your about to start. and no you shouldnt have to

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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

well he is for sure showing all the signs! look at him and smile, if he smiles back then that means he is thinking about you and he is soo glad that you looked at him...then just slowly kinda look away....more then likely he will come to talk to you and all your problems will be solved! heheh....also if he ever makes attempts to establish eye contact or if he tries to mkae funny jokes to see you laugh...he asks you or your friends for your number os sn or something like that....and just tries to show you as much attention as possible without making it obvious that he likes you...hope i helped ya sweetie!!! xoxo

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i LOVE playing my flute and violin......well not so much the violin! mi parents say THAT THE VIOLIN IS A WUNDERFUL INSTRUMENT.and i no that! but i just dont enjoy playing it as much as i like playing the flute! mi parents r always sayin like 'ill give you $5 orill take you sumware if you play ure violin in the talent show this weekend!' or sumthin like! i meen if they haf 2 say they'll pay or sumthin just 4 me 2 play mi violin.... duznt that tell them that i just dont want 2 play?
r there ani other ways to let them no that?plz anser this!! thx, B.G.

just tell them that you really don't want to play! they can't make you or anything so just be like i really don't want to :-) they will understand...i promise

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doe anyone know the name/artist of the song that goes like this "everythings gonna be alright..rock a bye.." ik its really old but i need it!! i rate

"Lullaby" by Shaun Mullins :-)

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hi, i am 12/f and i am talking my mom into letting me get my own room this summer. i have shared a room with my 8 year old sister ever since she was born. i like the color pink and i was wondering if anyone had ideas on what i should put in it, like furniture, decorations, ect. i will rate high!

thanks so much!

well you could maybe outline your room in an ice skating border. you could also find a poster of your favorite ice skater and hang in on your wall. Pottery Barn Teen has AWESOME stuff for your room. and there not very expensvie at all! just go to google and type that in. you can go to Bed, Bath, and Beyond and see if they have anything you like. do like a cool pink bed spread and have different color pillows....just have fun!

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i need a job for this summer but im only 15. i know that sonic and chick-fil-a hire at 15, but does anyone know of any other places that do? thanks.

i know that some tanning galleries do. ummmm just check around and see whats in your area....im sure you can find something! :-)

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ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!

when it comes down to being raped and abused....the rules of friendship go out the door!!! TELL SOMEBODY!!! seriously dont play around with that!!! i dont care if she was crying and begging on her knees for you not to tell anybody....you tell your parents and if they blow you off...get the cops involved!!!!

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Hey ok i just asked a question about how old you should be to wear a thong and most people said about 13 and well im 13 and i wanta ask my mom if we can get some but how should i ask??

well there really isnt an age...lol...but if you want some and you feel kinda weird asking for them then just tell her that you have a pair of jeans of pants that show panty lines and you need a thong to make them look good on you. or just go to the mall with your friends and buy some hehe

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I'm getting a new computer soon and I'm not sure what operating system to install. I've been using Windows XP for a while but i've had quite a few people tell me that Linux is better. I use a computer for playing games, watching films and word processing. Which operating system does these things the best? I already have windows xp so cost isn't an issue.

Linux is 10 times better. i just switched for XP to linux myself...i like it alot more

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My bf and I just had a big fight. I'm a pretty emotional person, and i warn him a lot about that. Well he started pushing my buttons said i was lazy (after all i've done today was work and clean) and that i didnt try hard enough in school cause i didnt get straight A's cause of French and a 11th grade math class (only a freshman folks) and it upset me to the point where i picked up a razor set it down. took tumbtacks n stabbed my wrist with them. i stopped cutting awhile ago. i was gona break up with him cause i dont wanna start cutting agian. but he really usualy makes me happy. then he had to go n i was a bitch n said like hell u do. and im upset that i got so mad at him. did i have ne reason to?
Also, i told him to go away leave me alone n shit put up aways but he kept pestering me. saying i was cute when i was mad. or it was funny or sumtin.
why so emotional??? or is he being a dick?

well first off sweetie you should never turn to cutting or hurting yourself as an answer for anything! your not solving anything that way and anybody who says it takes away stress is insane. but yes you have every right to be upset!!! you dont have to get straight a's to be good in school. espically since your just a freshman and your taking what algebra II or pre-cal?? thats AMAZING! and also you being a girl should know that guys never think girls do anything all day when we say "oh ive cleaned this and cleaned that" so i would just roll that off. next time he says something like that just be like whatever! and move on to the next subject. let me know if you need anything else hun! keep me updated!!! xoxoxoxoxo

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