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I'm so Petty
My bf and I just had a big fight. I'm a pretty emotional person, and i warn him a lot about that. Well he started pushing my buttons said i was lazy (after all i've done today was work and clean) and that i didnt try hard enough in school cause i didnt get straight A's cause of French and a 11th grade math class (only a freshman folks) and it upset me to the point where i picked up a razor set it down. took tumbtacks n stabbed my wrist with them. i stopped cutting awhile ago. i was gona break up with him cause i dont wanna start cutting agian. but he really usualy makes me happy. then he had to go n i was a bitch n said like hell u do. and im upset that i got so mad at him. did i have ne reason to?
Also, i told him to go away leave me alone n shit put up aways but he kept pestering me. saying i was cute when i was mad. or it was funny or sumtin.
why so emotional??? or is he being a dick?
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Yes, he's being a dick. Yes, you are being overly sesitive about it. My grandfather loved to bug the crap out of my grandma because she truely does look adorable when she's mad. One of my uncles does the same thing to her for the same reason. The problem with this kind of teasing is that the guy rarely realized how much it really hurts. Having been a cutter, you are not stable enough emotionaly to deal with this brand of affection. You need to get into some therapy to help you find another means of relieving your stress. Things aren' hope;ess between you two, but he's got to develop a bit more restraint with his teasing. Yeah apologized for snapping at him, but not for being annoyed in the first place. Luck and Love
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1. You cut yourself.
2. You cut yourself.
3. You cut yourself.
4. You cut yourself.
5. You cut yourself.
You're weak. Why go and do that? Are you really that dumb?
Taking razors and tacks to your hand. Pshh. Wow.
Get over the fact your boyfriend is a dick. You got with some a hole. Get used to it.
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Girls tend to get more emotional then what guys do.But dont ever turn to cutting your wrist because of some guy.It seems to me that he was having a bad day and he took it out on the wrong person or either he had things on his mind and he kept it bottled in and then he finally exploded..Next time he seems like he is mad or upset just ask him whats on his mind. It will help the relationship and the fighting so that you all wont fight as much anymore. But it seems to me that he does love n care about you alot. Hope things work out.
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well first off sweetie you should never turn to cutting or hurting yourself as an answer for anything! your not solving anything that way and anybody who says it takes away stress is insane. but yes you have every right to be upset!!! you dont have to get straight a's to be good in school. espically since your just a freshman and your taking what algebra II or pre-cal?? thats AMAZING! and also you being a girl should know that guys never think girls do anything all day when we say "oh ive cleaned this and cleaned that" so i would just roll that off. next time he says something like that just be like whatever! and move on to the next subject. let me know if you need anything else hun! keep me updated!!! xoxoxoxoxo
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Yes, I think he was totally being a pig. It was very wrong of him try and make you feel bad for not getting straight A's, especially since u r only a freshman and he doesn't know the circumstances. Just don't try and hurt yourself! You should try to control that. Hold your breath and slowly count to 10. Then break up with him. Why would you want to be with a guy who purposely pushes your buttons????
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well, im not so happy to hear that you hurt yourself. you have a problem, and before you deal with the relationship, you ought to deal with the cutting problem. hurting yourself is never the answer, it makes things worse. did you tell your bf what you did? im sure he'd be pretty upset. i know relationships are hard, and guys never seem to understand that we need our space. you need to sit down and have this conversation with your bf.. it will help. dont shut him out, because it might be easier for you, its harder for him... he deserves to know what is going on. does he know about your prior cuttings? if he does sit down, and tell him about everything... and tell him that he went out with you knowing all this, and didnt seem to have a problem with it. im not sure why you did that to yourself, but i do hope things get better. you have people that are there for you, and if you EVER need to talk heres my sn on AIM- XXcrzinlveXX. or email me- almari17@yahoo.com. keep me updated... i hope for the best. ~kris
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