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Dose he like me
I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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First of all, decide whether yu like him. Dont go out with him just becus yu want a bf. Yur first bf should be special, dont go out with him just for the sake of having a bf.
From what you have told me, it kinda sound like her likes yu. Guys are so complicated tho. It's easy to get signals crossed. Yu have to talk to him tho, definetly. If yu really like him, just talk to him more, be friendly. Find something yu have in common(a school subject, sports, anything) and have a conversation. If yu feel that in yur heart yu really do like him, tell him. Yu have to, it's really the only way. He sounds very shy, so he needs to know just how you feel. If yu really like him, you shoodnt be afraid to tell him. Or have one of your more outgoing friends go up to him, and ask him if he likes anyone. Be subtle, ask if he likes "anyone" Although, he might not say he likes yu to your face, but if he says no one, he is probably lying=) I really hope I helped, let me know how this all turns out. Best of luck! =)
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Hey babe! I think this guy definately likes you and you should definately go for it! But if a boy likes you, he might be mean to you like in a joking way i guess and call you names and stuff bc guys are just weird like that! But if he likes you then he'll do sweet stuff like "save" you too! haha! Well, hope I helped! Let me know how it goes! Love yah!
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i am a boy i mest upon my advice colme and if i like a girl i wold brobly be sorty she around then and stair at them when they was t looking hope i helpt
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Ok. You definitely have a guy falling for you there. I'm sure that he is attracted to you and that is why he stares. Why don't you try and be good friends with him. Then you can start to hang out and see if it leads to something great. From what i have read...it seems that you definitely may get this guy if you play it right. Here are a few things that might help (me being a guy and all). Just start talking to him...try not to be nervous..but really nice and interesting...guys love girls that can keep a conversation going with them. All you have to do is find a common ground. Don't bother him though. Play hard to get (all girls are good at that one). If he doesn't yet know of that game...he won't play it and you will have him. Give him time and he should pursue you and start thinking about you more and more. You will captivate him if you are: Nice, Attractive, Funny, Not girly girly (guys dont like that), and if he is able to hang out with you as a friend as well. Like i always say, "the best relationships start off as friendships and take a natural course into a relationship". Try it out and keep me updated.
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Well i think that you you already know the answer but ill give you some things i think. the same thing happened to me and we eneded up together it was in 6th grade i thinky ou should really take your chance on this life is alll aobut risks and this will be one of them. you wil have a great time. dating is a whirlwind of happiness sadness and sometimes very confusing but it will all be worth it in the end. follow your heart and make the right decision in the end. it will all be worthwhile. *Kelley*
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well... You cant really find out if he likes you unless you ask him yourself. Try asking him online that way you are not talking to him directly. No one likes rejection, but its better to know than not to. If he is looking at you then he probably is interested in you. take a chance and ask him online.
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I remember going through this when I was your age. You remind me of myself when I was 13. The random staring is definitely a sign that he is attracted to you. One way to tell if he likes you is when you're sitting in school... if he has his body turned toward you or if his foot is pointed in your direction that's a sign that he likes you. Just look at his body language and you will notice these things. If he finds random excuses to talk to you then he probably likes you. If you get the guts to do it, maybe talk to his friend or have a friend talk to his friend to see if he likes you. I hope this helps... if you need anything else just let me know...I'm glad to help! Let me know how everything goes! thanks a bunch!!
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Rule #1, unless they like you, guys don't usually pay attention to you. I think he likes you. Get your friends to talk to him for you? If you are too shy to. Good luck, I hope it works out!
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flirting , trying to be near you or if he's imature sometimes is always makeing fun of you because he cant stop talking about you and doesnt know how to express himself , he may do favors for you ... its hard to figure out if he likes you because i dont really know what he is like ... him staring and helping you may have been a sigm that he like you but it may also mean that he just helped you out to be nice .
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We know you really do not want to talk to this boy BUT it would be the best thing to do. No matter what he does you will always just be ASSUMING he likes you. You could talk to him casually and just smile and be natural. Then it will make him feel comfortable around you because it seems to us from what you said he is shy. You have to break that shy barrier or it will not work out. You cannot both be shy!! Start conversation with him (I know it is easier said than done)...maybe be talk about how yall have gone to the same schools or talk about some mutual friends you might have. You just have to be confident! Guys definitely send mixed signals though, trust me I know. If he pays that much attention to you though, then I would not be surprised if he did like you and is just scared of rejection. Next time you catch him looking at you, do your best not to look away. Just smile at him. Make sure he knows you are easy to approach and talk to by being friendly. Usually you can tell if a boy likes you by what his friends say, how he acts shy, when he looks at you, if he offers his help, if he tries to make conversation with you, passes notes with you, smiles at you, needs "help" with classwork. Do not be surprised if he sends mixed signals. He could just be shy. Remember just be friendly and smile and work your way towards talking to him and you'll figure it out soon enough.
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Well that definitly sounds like he likes you. It depends on the guy really.. some guys make fun of you, some play hard to get/ignore you , some are extra nice to you maybe shy or blush around you.. those are usually signs a guy likes you. The stareing thing is kinda annoying but yeah he probably likes you and has prob told his friend. Hope it works out for you.
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well he is for sure showing all the signs! look at him and smile, if he smiles back then that means he is thinking about you and he is soo glad that you looked at him...then just slowly kinda look away....more then likely he will come to talk to you and all your problems will be solved! heheh....also if he ever makes attempts to establish eye contact or if he tries to mkae funny jokes to see you laugh...he asks you or your friends for your number os sn or something like that....and just tries to show you as much attention as possible without making it obvious that he likes you...hope i helped ya sweetie!!! xoxo
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i think he defantly likes you. if a boy likes you and you have a gut feeling thats how youll know i cant tell you how but youll know just know. without talking to him about how you think he likes you you could maybe ask a friend to ask him. i am the same age as you and i have experience and it worked.
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You can't figure out if he likes you without talking to him just a little bit. I would say you have a nice stack of evidence that he is at least interested in your welfare. Bring up a current event that you have a strong feeling about or something interesting you read somewhere and ask his opinion.
Asking your friend to ask for you is uncool because it shows lack of confidence. Confidence in yourself lets other people have confidence in you. Writing notes only get into the wrong hands. Maybe just maybe figuring out/asking for his s/n might be fun. At least you don't have to be bashful. But after you creating a small bridge, let him have a turn at chasing you. Because you don't want to be desparate. And if you look at it as if you are gaining a friend instead of focusing on "this guy is going to be my boyfriend before I know anything about him", then the transition will be much smoother.
Best wishes.
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to find out if a boy likes you gotta see if he:
stares at you,tries to make you laugh, flirts, makes lots of eye-contact.........you can also ask his friends if he likes you. since im friends with the guy i used to like i asked his friends (who are my friends so that was easy for me) if he liked me and they said yes and they were telling the truth....thats a long story so w.e....but anyway try to flirt with him a lil bit and you never know......this guy might ask you out....but i totally think he likes you
much lovee
kriss <33
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if i were you i would try getting to know him better! start out just being friends and just flirt with him! guys like girls that smile and just act like themselves! if you want to know if he likes you get a close friend to talk to him and ask who he likes and if he would be interested in going out with you! it sounds to me like he's already interested in you so just act confident and have fun around him! hope i helped!
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well if he did all that then he probly does like you because if he saved your life then wow ya he should like you afeter that atlest i think so if he has been staring like that so i would say ya he most likly does! hope i helped!
rkgurl13
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Hey girlie, I've seen this question on the site before but since I can answer it, I will anyways. Honestly? What I do is, I become friends with the guy and after a while I give him my number then we talk on the phone. Or you could get his e-mail and like e-mail him and ask him "as a friend." Or if you wanna be like secretive about it, make up an e-mail address at yahoo or something and pretend to be one of his friends and ask him...Although, I wouldnt do that unless you are totally desperate.
Does he give hints that he likes you other than staring like, when he walks by, does he "accadentally" run into you, or do you catch him walking by you alot? Do his friends talk about you? You could always ask one of his friends to ask him or tell you. Just be you and dont change just for a guy.
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well there is no absolute correct answer to the question because all guys act differently, if he flirts with you, seems to watch you a lot, acts truly interested in you, pays more attention to you than other girls, maybe even gets a lil upset when you talk to another guy (he may be jealous) otherwise all you can do is maybe have a friend ask him or talk to his friends, show an interest in him and see how he responds, i really hope this helped
good luck with him!
<3 donny
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Well to me it sounds like he likes you. It's hard to tell with some guys and when they're young it's even harder. But if this boy keeps doing the things he's doing most likely he does like you and maybe he's to shy to do or say anything about it. So my advice is if he keeps doing these things and doesnt say he likes you or ask you out then talk to one of your friends and see if he/she can find out for you.
let me know how it goes
ashley
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it is different now than it was when i was 13 because now when you like someone you are much more upfront about it. when i was 13 if guys liked me they would kinda just bump into me n start giggling and their friends would talk to me about them n stuff. I would either talk to him yourself (which i think for a 13 yr old that would be pretty brave to do) or if you dont think that you can do that, have one of your friends talk to him or talk to one of his friends.
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If a guy is giving you attention and looking at you a lot, chances are he's interested. Also, it he starts acting more 'macho' around his friends when you show up, you can bet he's trying to get your attention.
Giving him a nice smile and saying something like, "Hey (name)! How's it going??" will defiantly let him know you notice him as well. (In fact, a really cute girl did this to me on the last day of school, several times, and it really got me to start thinking about her. The next week (during the summer) I happened to be working at a kid's camp as a counselor with her. ;)
School dances are a great way to get to know someone. If you're uncomfortable, you can start things off with a "Did you come here with a date?" kind of question. After talking a bit, you might be comfortable enough to ask him to dance. Or maybe you are comfortable in the first place. In any case, make sure you let him know you like to be around him. Mention whatever it is you like about him. His humor, the comfort or happiness that comes from being around him, ect.
At school you can strike up conversations and slowly move the conversation toward relations and ask if he has a girlfriend. If you're out of school, like I am, you can get some friends together to go to the mall or a local hangout spot, call him, and tell him to bring some friends.
I hope this helps and good luck!
-Krupple
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You know what? You've asked this question before. Didn't get the correct answers then?
Stop asking the same questions.
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well....i think you just just ask him to hang out sometimes.....like go to the movies...
well first ask him what kind of movies he's in to and ask if there's any movies he wanna watch..right now.....then yall can whatch a movie...try to have the BEST time EVER....
then after the movie ask himif he liked it...u know flirt a little....then you know if you see him looking deep into your eyes.....
and all that.....hello ask him out gurl...
good luck.....
p.s.tell me all about it later..kkk
:)
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Well, I'm wondering why you don't want to talk to him. Sure, it might be embarassing, and you might get turned down, but there's a really big secret about what to do if you get turned down - accept it, and just be like "OK" and move on. OK, so it's not so muhc of a secret, but yeh.
Now, to tell if he likes you, you can never be 100% sure. "A truly wise person is a person who realizes that they know nothing except that they know nothing." If your observations tell you he likes you, then just know that it seems that he does. But you can never be sure unless you get it from him directly.
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sure, no problem. it does sound to me like he likes you. try talking to his friend and just ask him why he stares at you all the time. i was always afraid to ask so i had a friend do it for me. until one time i just told the guy flat out that i liked him and we started going out within a few weeks and we've been together for almost 2 years. you could either get a friend to ask him, or his friend. and about the information on how to tell if a guy likes you, staring at you seems to be one way. also, if he can confide in you it means he can trust you and you atleast mean something to him. wheather it be more than a friend or as a good friend. also if he flirts with you, like teasing for example. i've talked to some guys and they say they tease the girls they like. no matter how immiture it may seem to girls, its what they do. i just asked my friend and he said "tell them there good looking and just give simple hints" but thats just the way he does it. every guy is differnt. hope i helped. i dont want to take up too much of your time but if you need anything else my sn is blinkbabe2469. i'll be happy to help. and i wont say anything to anyone so no worries about that if thats a problem.
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girl he likes you. obviosely there is something about you that draws his attention to you and the hurry up look away thing is so original. so the only way you can find out is start talking to him more and dont be afraid to flirt. your only 13 so take a chance and if it doesnt work out you have plenty of time to go to better things (boys).
*jody*
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