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Hey everyone .
I love giving advice to friends and
i would love to give adive to you !
feel free ... this may be hard to keep
up with but im gonna try ! just no rude
and unexpected comments please =)thanks
guys !! x0 love aways . becky
E-mail: pinkxice143@yahoo.com
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Location: Im from New Hampshire
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Age: 13
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bratzgyrl
My little brother can be extremely annoying. I dont want to tell him to go away, but somtimes i lose my temper. I hate yelling but he just deserves it so much!!!! How do i get my mom to relize that he's the monstor not me and to start dishing out the punishment to the right person????

He has chased me around with knives, hit me, refused to let me eat, and done countless other things! He really hurts my feelings.

What do i do?

I rate 5's!

~Melissa~ (link)
hey ! i would talk to your parents like tell them that hes been botherin you and your just about to lose your temper ! maybe even neal down to his hight and tell him hun you really need to stop bothering me im trying to do someting !

i HOPE i helped ! :] good luck


heyy umm me and my friend both liked this guy and he liked her when we first met him and stuff .. soo a couple of days ago he started to like me and she went away and just found out over the phone .. and now shes all upset about it .. and after she found out she called me and was like complaining to me about how upset she was .. but like i helped her and stuff .. but like when i use to like this guy they both went to a club and danced and stuff and he started to like her and he kissed her by the end of the night .. and she told me she sorta kissed him back .. and when i got madd she gave me like an attitude like oh my god its not my fault or w.e .. soo now like i dont know if should like be together w. this guy that we both like or not.. cause like i really really like him too soo i dont know if its okk help! (link)
hey im so sorry im answering the question now im probley like a month late :[ sorry ! but i would say how good of a friend is she . i think you should go for the guy but if the girl is your best friend than i would forget him becz its not worth ruining your relashinshop over someone you [ may ] not be with forever - i hoped i helped :]


I`m a 12 year old girl and I`m obessed with what I look like. I mean it`s not high matencine (i can spell lol) or anything like that. It`s just I can`t friggin stand myself!!! I always compare myself to others, I exercise constantly, and I feel like I`m always saying "Ohh you`re too effin` fat" or "God why the heck can`t you be skinny??!" I`m a size 0 but it`s like I cant accecpt that... I use to be anorexic (once again i can*t spell) and I use to cut myself. I don`t know what to do...is there something wrong with me? Please help me!!! (link)
no not at all !! girl this age tend be like you .. we all care about what we look like ! if you are a size 0 your not fat at all !! stop worrying about your self so much ! if you can look at yourself in the mirror thats all that counts .. dont ever thik about what other people say they are all gonna be jelous of you !!
hope i helped * and sorry i answered late

- becky


UGHHH this is becky the one who gives the advice.. the qoution where the person said the 3 montes thing and moving on well if you go to view my whole answer is there but it only gave half lol sorry (link)
opps


okay... me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 months ago. and im crazy in love with him... and ive tried EVERYTHING to get him back except the "moving on but not really" tecnique. im wondering if that will work... ya knw like if i just ignore him... try dating.. i dont knw, please help me!! you seem really good at giving advice!! -brittany (14)female (link)
lol thanks


Okay.. there is this guy.. and we have been best friends since we were little.. and i really like him.. But im afraid to tell him, because if i tell him i dont want him to feel uncomfortable around me.. I dont know what to do? should i just flirt with him to see if he likes me??
Thanks for the help! (link)
Ask him ! because ten to one he'll like you too ! maybe he has feeling for you or maybe he feels the same way but is just too scared to ask ! I bet hell like you too


i was gonna visit my dad whos in jail but he cancelled my visit i dont know why. any way he rang me after and i asked him he didnt tell me but his coming out in a few months and asked me and my little sister if we wanted to live with him. i wanna but my foster family am telling me he ay changed so i dont know what to do? anyone help. plus i do love my foster family but i wanna live with my dad (link)
Ahh thats so sad ! I think you should live with your dad sense he changed maybe you and your little sister could change him back. He is your own blood andd your foster family may be nice and all but i think you should go with you dad =) good luck hun !


a lot f my friends tell me in pretty and i no am but i just cant seem to get a boyfriend! i no a lot of guys that like me but i jut dont feel the same way about them... whats wrong with me?? (link)
Its not always about your look ! Im not trying to be mean but maybe you have a bad attitude .. or maybe people are considering your a slut =( or maybe girls are jelous of you and tell boys stuff that arent true ... if i didnt help youuu just tell me . good luck :)


I got a really bad hair-cut today, & its really short, I normally have very long hair, but now its really short... how can I grow out my hair as fast as possibul? & how long will it take? it dosen't have to be a day or something, but I'm going to some kind of beach thing in 2 weeks & I'm seeing a cosin in California a week after that, so I want to look good

14/M (link)
try extentions maybe i heard they hurt but you get usto them .. i aloso herard [ not trying to be gross .. becz i wash my hair every night ] but i heard if you dont wash it for like 3 nights it will grow faster cuz its dirty lol sorry !


Yes, well i'm rather young and I get around a lot and I dont ever use a condom. (the boy) because I dont even have my period yet but does this mean that I can still get std's?? If yes, do they make a condom made of paper or something cuz im allergic to the plasticy rubber stuff.
thanks,
I rate fairly high!!
f/15 (link)
yupp you can still get STD's your period dosnt havto do with anything you should always have a pretion sorry i dont know about the paper thing but your only 15 also try not to like do that stuff soo young youll regret it!


Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened? (link)
Maybe he didnt really feel the conneticon its common and there is a better guy waiting out there for you dont worry !



I really like this kid but he has a girlfirind and she is wicked ugly and im wickedpretty how do i get them to break up ? (link)
Well ummmmm maybe thats just you maybe she is wicked pretty its not really bout that its about the inside soo ... be nice to him and maybe hell stop liking her !


ok im only 15 years old and a lot of my brothers friends like me and they are a lot older then me (like 18-23)i dont like any of them bc i am just not attracted to them at all... but for some reason they always try to get me alone or go out behind my brothers back and i cant do that to my brother... but i cant say no to them bc i dont want to be mean about it ..... what should i say to them???
XoXo
Who Knows! (link)
thats gorss huh ? lol and scary ... tell them that you arent intrested if thy force you to do " something " go right away and tell your brother to not inite them over ever again tenn your parents and they will understand i dont think you should be in your house feeling uncofertable while way older boys are hitting on you its just not right ! talk to your brother or your mom or dad !

good luckk !


theres a song by puff daddy that goes 'im a hustler baby', and i just need to know the name of the song! Thanks! (link)
Go to a lyrics site and try to find it !


Hi, im 13, and i REALLY want my belly button pierced. Im not scared of the pain, because people say it doesnt hurt. But the problem is my mum. She says I cant have it. But i REAAALLY want to. Can i do it at home somehow? Please help me I want my mum to say yes, so I can have a belly button ring. Alot of my friends have it. (link)
My sister got it dont she said it dosnt hurt at all maybe for a second but then it dosnt !


Here’s the thing I’ve never been kissed (15/f), but there’s a guy I like so if I get a chance to kiss him I want to really impress him. And I don’t really even know the basics. I know many people say it’s good to just “go with the flow” and that it will happen naturally, but I’ve also heard many people talking about their first kiss and how bad it was and everything and how the other person didn’t like it at all. And I know it will really mater to him, because he is really hot (can get any girl he wants, but is not a player) and is a perfectionist, so if it goes wrong I will make a really bad impression and might never get a second chance. Plus he is two years older so I suppose he’s had a lot of experience. I really need someone to walk me trough everything. I am going for something that includes a French kiss, a kiss that he will remember in a good way that will sweep him off his feet. (link)
What kind of kiss ?


Hey. Today is my friend's b-day. He's turning 16, and we've been friends for about 12 or so years. (yeah, it's a lot lol) Well, I kind of don't know what to get him. I'm not sure what he likes. My friend and I have this suggestion. There is a pic of me and him when we were about 4, and since I have doubles, we were thinking about getting a nice picture frame to put it in. Is that a good idea? I'm pretty sure he's the kind of type who would think it's cute. He's kind of a ladies man lol. Do you have any other suggestions? Thanks.
x3 Erin (link)
I think thats a wicked good idea !

go with that !


ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him. (link)
I have the same probelem and i know how you feel but the kid i like isnt shy .. it told him that im wicked shy and he just told me to be myself around him and it tottaly works its awsome !

call him on the phone and stuff
thats what i did and it worked !

good luck !


I'm almost thirty and I've only gone out with a few girls when I was in college. Every time I had sex with them I was drunk and I only lasted a minute. Literally. Does anybody know any procedures I can do to last longer because I have a big date tonight with a really cute librarian and I think she wants to have sex with me. Please help! (link)
Yea like everyone else said just masterbae before the date .. lol ! good luck


I know that most of the people that ask a random weirdos question are being stalked by a random weirdo, but I really like this one girl, and well, I am a girl too. I know it's weird though, but every time she sleeps in my study hall I watch her and fantasize. She woke up one time and saw me and got freaked out...and called me a weirdo. I have a picture of her in my class when we were in kindergarten when she dressed up as a chicken and I look at it every morning when I wake up. This is the only girl I'm attracted to, usually I like other guys. Am I really a random weirdo lesbian or am I just a straight girl with a big strange crush? help!

16/f (link)
I think your bisexual and theres no probelm with that is she bisuxual too ? i have a bisexual freind and i found out like 2 days ago .. feel free to I/M me and dont be scared to ! I/M me at .. your weakness x0




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