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What if I'm the weirdo?
I know that most of the people that ask a random weirdos question are being stalked by a random weirdo, but I really like this one girl, and well, I am a girl too. I know it's weird though, but every time she sleeps in my study hall I watch her and fantasize. She woke up one time and saw me and got freaked out...and called me a weirdo. I have a picture of her in my class when we were in kindergarten when she dressed up as a chicken and I look at it every morning when I wake up. This is the only girl I'm attracted to, usually I like other guys. Am I really a random weirdo lesbian or am I just a straight girl with a big strange crush? help!
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you most likely are a Lesbo not a weirdo.
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There is nothing wrong with you...I mean you're not a weirdo. This could be a couple of things. Because this is the only girl that you are attracted to and you like guys you are not a lesbian. You are probably just at that stage in your life when you're confused a lot of teens go through it. You probably aren't attracted to her at all you just admire her or want to be more like her. I think that is the most likely scenario for this situation. However you could also be bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with that it's just the way you are. I don't really think that that is what is happening because this is the only girl that you are attracted to. I wouldn't be worried about it. You are probably just going through a phase and it will pass don't worry about it and you're not a weirdo.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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hmm , well have you liked any other girls,if you have , you might just be bi-sexual.
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That's not weird. I usually fantasize about guys, but thats another styory *lol!* You might be bisexual, but than again, what's in a name? A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet, right? So, what, you like this girl, at least you've come to terms with it. But try not to stare too much, I, myself have been caught doing that and have gotten uncomfortable as well. If she asks why you were staring at her, just act like you were looking into space and you have no idea what shes talking about. you're not a weirdo, don't worry about it, everyone stares and gazes and thinks about their crush.
MAd lOve,
Victoria
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You could be a lesbian or you could be bi-sexual. It's not a bad thing, just try not to freak the girl out. That isn't going to get you anywhere, but unless she's trying to hide her feelings by pushing you away, I have a feeling she's not bi or a lesbian either. Try not to be obsessive. There's probably other lesbians in your school you might want to talk to.
~K~
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there's a chance you could only be bi-sexual
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You're a lesbian. Its pretty cool, guys wont find it weird.
You should totally super glue your feet to her cieling in her bedroom so you can watch her sleep.
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You are not aweirdo don't worry! At your age everyone at some point goes through times when they have confused feelings. They confuse feelings of being bisexual with feelings of envy. Do you like everything about her in the sense that you wish you could be like her and that perhaps by doing the things she does etc will make you feel more that way? It's a bit like when we all look at pictures of models and have some of them on our walls. It's not necessarily because we fancy them but just cos we are in awe of them. Whether you actually want to kiss her is another matter. Don't worry yourself about this as the more you do the worse it will get. Try and say away from her for a little while and see how you feel then. It will take alittle time for you to realise how you truly feel. Hope this helps
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I think your bisexual and theres no probelm with that is she bisuxual too ? i have a bisexual freind and i found out like 2 days ago .. feel free to I/M me and dont be scared to ! I/M me at .. your weakness x0
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heyy .. i think you are bisexual seeing that you like guys and this one girl but i think you should talk about this with an adult also maybe a shcoo conciler or parent i know this is a kindaq personal issue but i think its best for you to do that
hope i helped
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hey,
it must be hard on you thinking you might be a "weirdo lesbian" or whatever but you're really not! see you may just be bisexual or bisexual curious. You're probably biseual curious which i really cant explain lol. But anyhow i went through the same thing and i got a test to know if i was straight, bi, bi curious, or gay/lesbian. here's the link! [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) . I hope it helps!
*Jill*
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Well I think that you are bisexual. Maybe just for now at least. You are a girl and maybe you are just feeling something that you are not sure about. I personally think that this might be a crush, since the fact that you don't like other girls. Hope I helped.
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bisexual would be my guess. now its a b it iffy that your looking at a picture of her in kindergarden but if you have no other pictures of her then i guess its fine. but since shes calling you a weirdo she most likely is straight herself and its a dead end. theres nothing wrong with you, alot of people go through confusing times when they question their sexuality.
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