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hey well i am having a problem. okay i dated this guy for four months and i really fell in love with him. at first it was great he was sweet but then we started having problemslike arguing and we would just fuss all the time well that was about last semester of school. this is our second semester anyways his name was andrew and i found out that he had some problems like mental. and i kept breaking up and going back with him on and off. well we broke up feb. 2 of this year and i then started dating this other guy for almost three months. i fell in love with him and he was the second person i ever loved, but andrew was the first. when andrew found out about me and jeremy he started making threats to him and saying all this stuff. well then i finally told andrew to stop and let me live my life. okay me and jeremy have been broke up for a month and a few days. i then have dated this guy michael whom i with now, well i dont care to much for him like everybody thinks. then today andrew's Best Friend who has grown up together came up to me and told me about andrew wanting me back i thought i was for sure over him but when he told me that all these feelings have come back and i am so confused on what to do. my friends say call him and see if he changed and the question is should i call him? and see if it is true? or should i write him well i am writing him now well plz help nikki
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I think you should talk to him. See if he really still cares about and wants to get back together with you. If you really still have feelings for him then go for it. But you need to make a few things clear to him. It is not good for him to act the way he did and it is not healthy behavior. If you do end up getting back together with him then you need to talk to him about that. Tell him that it bothered you and that you don't want it to happen again. If he really cares about you then he won't do it again. You need to trust your feelings here. Only you know how you feel about him and when you come to terms with how you feel then you'll know what to do. If you care about him call him or write him a note or something like that. But if you dont' then you should tell him that you don't and make sure that he knows that.
Good luck and I hope it all works out
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Aws give him a chance again. Its not like he cheated on you or anything. And you said you loved him.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Young relationships will never last. They're just for fun. They wont last too long though. Odds are not even a half a year at most.
Also, dating someone you already broke up with is the stupidest thing i've ever heard. You obviously broke up because of some reason you didnt like. It'll happen again.
Why bother? You should go hang on some greased monkey bars and see if it helps.
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i don't think that you should. odds are it's going to end up like it had all the times before. date who you want to date
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Wow. I am sorry you are in such a tough spot. DO what ever you think is best for YOU. Your friends can sometimes know you better than you know yourself (my friends have proven that) but the major decision is up to you. If you still like him, then give him a chance. If you do decide to go out with andrew again, break up with michael and give it a little bit of time. That way you can smooth things over between you and michael while you decide what you want to do about Andrew. Hope I helped!
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