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shyness.....AHHH
ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him.
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My boyfriend and I used to be the exact same way when we first got together, even though we had been bffs b4 then cuz he's a REALLY shy guy. The way we pretty much broke the ice was when I just came out of of the "o no he's my boyfriend and i dont wanna mess anything up" shell, and just did something wacky with him. Just try to be yourself around him...joke around, and tease him a bit. Hopefully that will make him feel more compfortable. Hope that helps!!!
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alright this happened to me too! it can b awkward! but if u like him, just go over to him when u c him and say HEY *name* wuts up? its not random, and its an ice braker! from then on itll b better! trust me!
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i use to be like that, hang around with other guys to make you less shy around them just imagian your talking to one of your other girly mates, just change the convosation a little lol, he'll get the hang of it and talk back to you, try making a few jokes about how you like guys that are confident he'll pick up on the hints
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Ok... think about how you two were when you weren't bf and gf. Think about whatyou talked about and how yall acted around eachother. Just be yourself and if it makes you nervous to think about the bf/gf thing... just hang like friends. You know... just be yourself.
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Aeromonkey
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Get some ice cubes in a freezer and take an icepick to them. You just broke the ice.
Or, when he isnt looking, sneak up behind and stick his index finger in your mouth. Then stand up and get right next to him so he doesnt think it was you.
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perhaps because you think it might lead to something else? Just try hanging around together, going for walks or to the cinema and event hings like chatting on msn as then you don't have to be there in person. You are both obviously quite nervous so the more you concentrate on the friendship part first, the rest will come naturally. Hope this helps
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I have the same probelem and i know how you feel but the kid i like isnt shy .. it told him that im wicked shy and he just told me to be myself around him and it tottaly works its awsome !
call him on the phone and stuff
thats what i did and it worked !
good luck !
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heyy .. you have to make the 1st move so get yourself together and get confidence and just make the move
hope i helped
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I've been in the same situation. My boyfriend was really shy, but I am only a little shy. I knew he would never make the first move so I gathered up all my courage and just pretended that I was comfortable with him...even though I wasn't. Try saying something like, "Wow, are you as uncomfortable as I am?" because then he will know that you are on the same playing field as him. Hope I helped.
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Well hey hun.. maybe hang alone and talk about things you'd like to move on to in your guys relationship.. dont hold back and not do things you want too cause then eventually your relationship will get old and probably be over with.. and im sure you dont want that to happen.. ive had it happen plenty of times til i was completely with one guy that came along that i was friends with then we became more.. not sayin you should do the same thing but your relationship gettin old can happen from not moving on to other things... im not sayin have sex cause i think relationships should be tooken slow so they dont get ruined either.. so i think try talking to him about things and then make your moves try to open up more.. much luv dez x0x0 good luck
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