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Telling it like is. Not sugar coating my answers to spare your feelings.. so beware .I believe in God, Karma, luck, fate, and living on the edge. Being average or normal isn't for me. I never wanted to blend in... it's all about being unique and being yourself . Loving who you are, and to hell with anyone who who doesn't agree.
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Help please I dont know what to do. I'm being blackmailed. I am a 19yr old male and she said she was 20yrs. I sent a nude picture of myself with my face in it to a girl on Kik and she said if I don't pay her money she would post it on Ellen show website and try to have her show it on CNN or something like. And ruin my life. She wants me to pay her $100 and if I do she said she would delete the picture. Im scared that she will post it and ruin my life. I can't tell my family because they would be upset at me and cause more issues. Please someone help me I don't know what to do.
Tell her to go ahead and do it because most likely she won't post it anywhere, especially if she thinks you don't care.Don't worry cause even if she did send it to Ellen they would toss it in the trash. They don't wanna see nude pics.
Stop taking the bait, she is just messing with you. Even if you paid her 100$ who is to say she would even rip up the photo? She is full of crap!
p.s Copy and paste this link to give the bitch
http://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/revenge-porn-laws-penalties.htm
I have invited another woman to have sex with my husband while I watch. She and I have meet and I like her, she is just the type I wanted for this experience.
She and my husband have not meet and won't until the night of the event. She is coming to our home where we will enjoy drinks and conversation first.
I'm looking for ideas on how to make the transition between conversation and sexy time smooth and less awkward. She and I have talked about bondage and restraint being part of the evening.
Ideas? Suggestions?
I could only discourage you from doing this. Can't help but feel you will regret it later on. So many "what if's " come to mind.
Good luck
Tips to have sex with my sister
You need mental help.
I don't think this is a real question, hopefully u are joking. It's not a funny joke at all.
Give advice ?
We feel the same when dealing with people from other countries.
Nothing that we can do about it unless we all start staying in the country we are born in.
23/F
So basically I'll start off with I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and when we broke up in June I felt so sad i have always had depression and self harmed myself but no one knew Fourth of July weekend I felt the saddest I have ever felt and looked at my medicine cabinet and said what am I going to take to kill myself I thought about death every day and thought it was normal. I talked to my doctor and she put me on zoloft. I have never felt better until yesterday. I met this new guy and I finally moved on to my ex we had sex twice both with condoms. The only skin on skin action was us in the shower but we never physically did it until after with a condom. The next day I had an outrageous yeast infection and I found out yesterday I have Herpes. I have only been with 2 people and this is what happens...the guy I slept with is in denial and said he doesn't have anything but maybe he does now because I gave it to him! He was with his ex for 2 years and he said they are both fine. I just don't understand how this happened to me and now I am back in my hole where I don't want to live anymore. I feel broken and sad and nobody is going to want me.
Very Sorry to hear that you got Herpes but no fear because it isn't the end of the world my friend. IF you take the meds then you can have control over it somewhat. Just have to keep it real with your future loves just so you are not guilt ridden your entire life for giving it to someones else. I am sure you already know this.
So why did you and your 5 year relationship end? Are you positive that he isn't he culprit? Just because the 2nd guy denies giving it to you doesn't mean that he is telling the truth. Most people would lie before admitting to knowingly passing an std to you.
My advice would be to forget both of them and concentrate on loving yourself. You will never be able to love someone until you are able to love yourself. Yes, I know it is so cliche' but trust me... it is the truth. YOu must be happy with you! All these thoughts of killing yourself or hurting yourself is proof that you have no self worth and that is very sad. Please know that suicide is the most self centered act in the world. If you think you are just taking yourself out of the world and avoiding pain then you are not looking in depth at how many people love you, and will never be the same if you werew to kill yourself. Do you want to put this burdon on your family?? The hurt that you would inflict on these people that love you would be undescribable and never ending. They would always wonder what they could of done to save you or if it was because of something they did that caused you to choose death over life. Do not even let these thoughts cross your mind , there is so much you have yet to experience. It gets better.... I promise you that. YOu have to be able to handle the lows to be able to experience the highs. Hang in there sweet person.
Very smart to get the meds you need because I know that depression is REAL, it isn't you it is the chemicals in your brain. I will say a prayer for you.
Your knight in shinning armor is waiting for you but it may take a few years before you reach him. It isn't going to be easy but it will be worth all the hard times you go through!
YOu just have to believe in yourself. : )
I am scared to report c porn because i am afraid they will blame me. i don't know why. please report these sites for me?
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please help me and report sites above!
all i searched for 2was teen! OMG! i m a girl!
I don't want the feds on my ass either
I am a little embarrassed to ask my mum I'm 12 years old a male but how do I ask my mum to buy me new underpants?
just ask her. She should know this is she does your laundry.
i want to bruise myself. how can i do it the best way?
Someone needs to knock some sense into ya, you can get a bruise that way.
I can help ya out, where do you live?
hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it?
Honey,
You are doing the right thing by wanting to do God's will. I think you should speak to the leader of a church or someone that goes to your church because they would know what to tell you to help you move forward in this direction.
Just pray to God for Guidance, he will help you.
Your are a very smart young man. Kuddos to you my friend.
p.s can I please get a rating?
It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable to essentially be viewing foreplay without consent. There were children in line, too. Some people seem to get a sexual thrill out of people seeing their pda and that just seems sick and self centered. It makes me understand why there are countries that ban it.
Good question.
My guess is that they are insecure or they are just proud of the love they share and just do not have enough class to keep it out of the public eye.
I agree that it is very uncomfortable to have people put it in your face like they were doing at the mall. Most likely a young couple.
What do ya do ? If ya say something then they are most likely to do it more than before.
Just shows that you have class to be annoyed by this behavior.
Get a room people!
P.S if you fee my response is deserving of a rating would you please give me one?
ive been pretty depressed for a while... i got my first bf in feb. 2014 and we broke up last week. also my frinds started fighting and hating eachother. i lost my only 5 frinds that i had made since 1rst grade. i started getting bad grades on my report cards and im getting made fun of for it. im just 10 years old but i cut myself and hav suicidal thoughts... please give me advice.
Oh honey, don't you worry. It gets so much better. You are at a difficult age and ever thing seems like the end of the end of the world, but it really isn't. You have so much to look forward to, trust me on this.
It hurts to lose friends but truth is that it will happen over and over again. You can't stop caring bout life just because things didn't go the way you wanted.this is going to happen a lot. Too.you must learn to shake it off and roll with the punches life throws at you.
I really don't und er stand how cutting yourself will help.you will regret putting marks on your body cause you will have to explain these marks to your kids one day.
I'm sending you a big hug. Please stick around...it would crush your family and ruin thier lives if you killed yourself. You are just bout to be a teenager. ..that's when life gets fun!
how should i show my boovs to a guy????
. Guys like mystery. They are the hunters and they want you to make them work for it. That way when they get you they feel they have won the trophy. If you just show them your boobs right off the bat then they will lose interest. Don't let them fool you girl, be a step ahead at all times.
Besides ... he will tell all his friends and then they will tell more people and so on. Next thing ya know you have a bad rep as a HO, and that is how you will be judged til you graduate.
I'm writing a story about a girl and a guy who fall in love in the girls least favorite subject. And the guys friends don't approve and all that crazy stuff... Anyways I need help with a title, this is all the information I want to give right now. So hopefully that is enough. I just want to have a simple title so it doesn't have to be really creative or anything. Thanks for any of your idea!
" That's what she said" or "Boy meets Girl..."
" Frienemies"
Okay. 1) I have EDS type 3 makes it hard for me to lose weight because of my loose joints. Hard to exercise. 2) I'm 5'8" 3) I weigh 210 4) I was doing the Atkins diet for 2 months. I lose about 20 lbs.
I am well portioned and instead of looking like I weigh that much, I look about 150.
I've been hitting the gym 3 days a week since January.
I have lots of muscle in my legs, and some in my arms...
My mom says; "Muscle weighs more than fat." "Muscle is smaller than fat." "If you build muscle you'll be smaller."
I don't want to be a freaking whale my entire life!!! Okay.. So this is the problem.
Muscle is smaller than fat, yet it weighs more. So if I go to the gym and get smaller, yet I STILL WEIGH THE SAME... how can I change it so I weigh less..
I don't know what to do and I'm not going back to my anorexic behavior.
"But you're too fat to have an eating disorder."
I don't care. I just want to be thin.
Muscle also burns calories faster than fat.
I have always weighed more than people my size buyt it is because I have more muscle.Just keep on working out and in time you will see a change. You don't want to dimples on your body below your neck do ya? Get toned and keep the pilsbury doughboy look away.
If someone makes fun just knock the hell out of them because you can do so and win. Watch out for assault charges though. : )
Listen to your mother, she is telling you the truth.
how to get girlfriend to blow your friends?
First off, You do nothing of the sort. That is the most insulting thing to ask of someone that cares about you.
You have a lot of learning to do. You don't care about her as a girlfriend otherwise this wpould never of come to mind.
What a dipshit you are!
do u have to take birth control pills before or after you have eaten in order for it to work 100% effectively
Most important is to take them at the very same time every day. Morning is ideal.
Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills).
I am not sure what the question is.
So my boyfriend was rubbing my bare stomach as we were laying on the couch. Is there any chance I would be pregnant from that?
Only if you are under the age of 20.
Hello,
My boyfriend and I are 17 and 18 years old. We started a long distance relationship a little over six months ago. Back then, I was still a virgin and he knew that. However, a few months ago I cheated on him and lost my virginity to a guy I honestly had no feelings for. I was completely aware of what I was doing and I did it because I really just wanted to get it over with. I made sure there were no feelings attached. Now, the guy still chases after me, but I want no business with him, or any other guy rather than my boyfriend. I love him to death and really have no trouble remaining faithful. I realized it wasn't worth it and he's truly the only guy I ever want to be with. However, I know that he'll want to break up with me and his heart will be completely shattered if he knows. He keeps talking about how magical he wants my first time to be once we finally see each other again. And I believe it will be magical because it'll be with him. I don't want to lose him, but I do think he needs to know. I also don't think it's any conversation to have via phone/text/video. A close friend told me not to say anything '"cause there's no point". I know if we were in the same time zone it'd be easier to confess and try to win his trust back, but I have a serious disadvantage by not being able to daily demonstrate my true feelings towards him. I've thought of telling him in the far future, once we're living together, but I don't know how he'll feel about it after such a long time...
Also, I'm actually kind of glad I did it only because it was extremely painful, and he wasn't the one who caused that terrible experience. The guy was gentle, so it would've been bad either way. Should I tell him when we finally meet again? If so, should I do it as soon as possible, or do I give it some time? If I do choose to tell him, I know I probably shouldn't have sex with him until he's known, but I'm terribly scared of ruining the possibility of a future with him.
I'd appreciate any thoughts and advice,
Thank you.
Hi,
I am afraid the you really made a bad choice by losing your virginity to someone other than the man you love. The only thing worse than that is to tell him about it. Your friend is right, nothing good can come from telling your boyfriend what you did.
This is coming from someone that is honest as honest can be. I am speaking from experience when I say do not tell him. All it will do is give him ammo to throw back in your face at a later date. He will use it against you and that is only IF he is still speaking to you after you confess.
Why do you feel the need to tell him? Is it cause you feel guilty? You know this will hurt him and why would you want to do that? If you love him so much then it is a huge insult to him that you gave away something so precious to someone you do not even care about. WHat thu fck were you thinking? You said you did this " to get it over with" OH my goodness , please don't tell anyone else that cause it makes you sound like a tramp. I hate to say that but it really doesn't sound good at all.
I have always been upfront with men I date, and back in the day when I didn't consider how my actions effect other people I confessed to rid myself of guilt. You cannot go back once you tell it, no matter what he will resent you til the end of time for this. I know I would if it were me.
It will be difficult not to confess but there is no reason to. You aren't married and you don't have a ring from the long distance guy do you? So, you can look at it like that and it may rid you of guilt. Just don't tell it that is it that is all, bottom line........ DO NOT TELL HIM , Ever!
I think that maybe you do not love him as much as you think ya do. If you did you wouldn't want to be touched by any else and you sure as hell wouldn't have the attitude "Just to get it over with".
Best of luck, I hope this works out for you.
How do you stop yourself from loving someone ? :( like is it possible to love someone your not with your whole life ?
If you truly love someone it doesn't ever go away. It may be in the back of your mind 20 years from now but it will always be in your heart,
I still love my high school sweetheart and I always will and I am now 50 years old. Haven't seen him since I was a teenager but it doesn't matter the distance or the time frame it is always there.