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how should i show my boobs to a guy?
how should i show my boovs to a guy????
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. Guys like mystery. They are the hunters and they want you to make them work for it. That way when they get you they feel they have won the trophy. If you just show them your boobs right off the bat then they will lose interest. Don't let them fool you girl, be a step ahead at all times.
Besides ... he will tell all his friends and then they will tell more people and so on. Next thing ya know you have a bad rep as a HO, and that is how you will be judged til you graduate.
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I am going to guess that you are very young but puberty has hit you earlier than most so you've got more chest than your peers. So you're probably attracting lots of attention from the guys. They may have been asking you to let them see your boobs. While it is understandable that hormone driven young boys are going to wish for this, it is totally disrespectful for them to even ask you to do so. I have not yet run across any young female who seems to have an incredible urge to bare her boobs to show them to males of any age.
If your're the first, realize this, your body belongs to you just like anything else that is strictly yours, your bike your cell or computer, etc... If someone asks to let them have your cell phone to use for the next week, would you hand it over? Simply because they asked? Why on earth would you send photos of your chest to any male and meet him secretly and whip off your top for them to see your boobs just because they asked. You don't owe them anything and certainly not that. If you think it will make you popular and get you a boyfriend, you better think twice about what you are getting into. Young boys like you have brains that have not finishing growing and wont be fully mature until at least age 25 or later. No teens are fully capable because of that fact of making good decisions on their own so I am glad you wrote in. I may not be answering your question as you liked but it doesnt matter how you bare your breast to any male, all it will do is attract the wrong kinds of guys and wrong attention. There are countless girls who send nude shots to boyfriends, only to have the boyfriend or a friend of his get hold of his phone and post the pics for the whole school to see online and the girl was bullied and taunted and felt like killing herself over the embarassment. So the thrill of having someone like your body can turn into a nightmare in the blink of an eye. There are males of any age who will approach underage girls cus that's what they like but that is not okay with the law. If any male 18 or older is asking you to show your boobs, you need to tell your parents so the police can be contacted. You are in danger of being lured by these older men with all sorts of promises and then used for sex. You may be unlucky enough to be sold into the sex trade market in other countries even. The likelihood of that, I can't say but in this current world we live in, those likelihoods increase on a daily basis and sex is still the highest selling item in the world, even just pornographic stuff, not just the sex act. I don't care of older sis does this, or mom or even a friend, just because someone else shows off their boobs doesn't make it right. The ONLY time you will ever rightfully be able to show your boobs to a right should be when you are old enough to marry and the man you've chosen is in love with you and treats you well and you are the best of friends and the best way the two of you have to show your deep love for each other is through the sexual act and anything else related such as flaunting your body in front of him. Some women do this while single and younger. If the guy treats them well, loves them and has made a commitment to be her boyfriend for however long it lasts, then it is also okay, provided they are older teens. Girls younger than 14 can't go to planned Parenthood for example and get onto birthcontrol yet so if the law considers you too young to help out with birth control at that age, you really shouldn't be thinking of doing anything like being nude for guys because eventually that will lead to sex. A guy may be so overwhelmed with lust that they wont listen to "No" and force you and rape you against your will. So do think twice about this idea of showing your boobs off to guys. It just isn't a hot idea.
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By asking this question I believe you may be to young to be showing your Boobs, not boovs, to anyone except your doctor. So wait a few years before doing so.
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