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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help? (link)
i have depression anxiety and ocd i would talk to someone about try a friend or maybee a doctor someone it could just be teenage hormones but it usually isnt the case at first i thought it was jsut hormones making me feel the way i did but then it turned out it wasnt things started getting worse i tryed to kill myself about 2 times but i couldnt do it i cut my self numerous times and i just wanted to be alone nothing felt right to me i would get werid thoughts in my head which i had no idea where they were coming from they were so random and i would cry alot becasue i was afraid and lonley i also started exculding myself from everything i would stay in my room doing nothing but sleep i would write songs about death lonlieness and all that crap then oneday my mom cought me tring to stangle myself and then my family admitted me into the hospital i have been in the hospital about 4 times for depression but i only stayed there for 1 time for about 1 1/2 weeks the rest were only sort maybe 4 hour visists then i started going to a therepest and i got put on medication and i would just talk sometimes i just didnt want to talk and i wanted to tell her to stfu but i haveto say it helped i mean yes sometimes i still get depressed but not to the extent that i was at i am glad i got help becasue my life is now almost back to normamll

i am sorry for going on about my life story but i wanted to tell you that you should dewffintily get help before it comes to the extent mine was at even if you aretn close with them tell them they are your parents and they should know what is going on and iam sure they will get you help maybee you just need someone to vent to about your problem someone that will just listen and understand you without yelling and saying your wrong

i hope i helped and if you need someone to talk to drop me one and iw ill be happy to help you

redroses


what age do most teens have sex? and how do you know when,where, and how to do it? also how do you know that your partner would like to do it too?

-needs help in texas (link)
in todays day many teens have sexx early my younger sister is in 8th grade and her friend had sex with a 7th grader not too long ago so i mean it is very random ages

you will know when your ready dont jsut say your ready because you want to just say you have had sexx

when and how do it is what you need to figure out i mean it is hard but i am sure it will come to you i mean there is a firrst time for everything and to where i mean you could pretty much do it anywhere the choices are endless

if you feel you are ready then you should talk to your partner youshuldnt be afriad to talk to him or her or else you are not really readyy

hope i helped


ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH


ok first.

-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.

(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.

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there is always a risk of someone having an std but condoms do not prevent you from getting an std in may cases. if you know for sure that they are both virgins it is unlikely that he has an std, but you can also get one form oral sex. maybe they do have and they got it from oral sex and passed it on that way you never know. i would just get tested it would make you feel so much better then worrying!!!! FEEL BETTER


My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
YES there is a possibility you could be pregnant, there is something called pre-ejaculation fluid which guys do not feel come out therefore you never know. this can fertilize an egg and make you pregnant. i would take a test to know for sure. next time use protection,you can do it for longer and you dont need to worry about these issues. GOOOD LUCJ




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