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Heyy guys my name is amanda and i am 13. I am here to answer anything you guys want but im really good with relationships. Ive been through a couple and ive been hurt a lot of times. So please ask me questions and i will answer them as soon as i can! Thanks

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I really love to sing and my friends think i'm really good at it....but i refuse to sign in front of crowds or even my parents....wat could i do 2 get rid of my stage fright?

When you are singing, just pretend you are sitting in your room and singing along to the radio. Act like no one is there and just do what you want to do and have fun! I hope i helped. Tell me how it went!

amanda

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This lad at my school has been spreading rumours that my dad beats me we used to be best friend but i never told him that the only thing is that he did see my dad hit me once and its because i was being rude to him. but now everyone looks at me like im some freak ive talked to him and he just says im speaking the truth what should i do?

Pull him aside so he is not with his friends, and say my dad doesn't beat me.. why are you doing this to me? Make him feel bad for you! It works for me! If he is being that mean then just ignore him and hang out with your other friends and just act like hes not there.
Amanda

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Sometimes my friends treat me badly and i think they are talking behind my back. The thing is that i've told them they leave me out all the time but all they say is sorry. Sometimes they can be soooooo nice. other times they can be not so nice. What should i do???

I have the same thing going in at my school.I am friends with these four girls and then we would be so nice and all hang out in school. Then i find out that they go to the moves together all four girls and didnt invite me. I always feel left out. I think that you should just hang out with some other girls at your school and become close with them. Sooner or later when those girls see that you dont care about them and that your not always near them anymore, they will come around. Try it and see if it works!

amanda

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I've liked this guy 4 a long time, but hes a year older than me. Since he's gonna go to a new school next year, I wanted to tell him how i feel. The problem is, i dont know how. i cant do it in his yearbook, cuz sum1 might read what i wrote. i think i should do it by e-mail, but i thought that was a turn-off for guys, but i dont know. Please help, because the end of school is on friday, and i want to tell him before than.

Please help!

I think like in school when its just him by himself, you should walk up to him and say hey and start talking to him about things. Then when the times right say look i really liked you this year and i still do and i just wanted to let you know how i feel before you leave. Who knows, he could probably like you too!! I hope i helped

amanda

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hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!

I think that you should call your friend or go up to her in person and sit her down and say listen.. I like the same guy that you liked for a while and he told me that he liked me. He said he is going to wait for my answer because I said i didnt know because i thought about you. I really like this guy and i just wanted to come up to you and ask you how you would feel if I went out with him. If you really like this guy and she wont approve it, then shes not a real friend. Try it and i hope it works out!

-- amanda

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ok so i had a bf for almost 4 months....n hes my brothers best friend, so i will eventually see n talk to him this summer. we havent talked in about 2 months so i guess u can say this is our little break...do u think there is a chance that we will go out again once we start talking...has anybody had a bf n not talked to him for a while then go back out?...
thanks in advance!!!!

I have!! I went out with him in the summer and then we just didnt talk wen he went back to school. Later he said i miss you and we went back out. I definitly think you guys will go back out because you seem like such a nice girl and why wouldnt he want to go back out with you if you liked him and he liked you for 4 months. I think you will.
Hope i helped! amanda

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