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This lad at my school has been spreading rumours that my dad beats me we used to be best friend but i never told him that the only thing is that he did see my dad hit me once and its because i was being rude to him. but now everyone looks at me like im some freak ive talked to him and he just says im speaking the truth what should i do?
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Pull him aside so he is not with his friends, and say my dad doesn't beat me.. why are you doing this to me? Make him feel bad for you! It works for me! If he is being that mean then just ignore him and hang out with your other friends and just act like hes not there.
Amanda
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Like I told some one else. Theres only 2 people who really need to know the truth. Thats you and The good Lord. If you 2 know the truth , nothing else matters. But if some one says somthing to you , dont be afraid to Stand up for your slef say "i dont know where you got that rumor from but its not true" h=give this time.... it will alll blow over.
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if i were you , and i understand hes your friend, id kick his ass and id tell him he has no right to tell anyone your buisness and just to let you know thats not someone that you should be calling a friend cause thats really fucked up but just tell him he has no right to be talking about your buisness
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Kick him in the balls then when he leans over, shove you knee into his face.
So then his voice is really high, and he also sounds funny cuz his nose it broken. It cant get much worse!!!!
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First of all, I'm shocked no one reported you to your guidance counselor if those rumors were going around. Do you have bruises on you? Do you have cuts, or any other type of marks that would show that your father did in fact beat you? If not then why the hell would they be looking at you? Do you act all emo (emotional and depressed) in school and try to shy away from other people? Listen, people in general are ignorant assholes. I could say that you could talk to your guidance counselor about what he is saying, but that still won't change people's thoughts about you. Why don't you try asking him why he's saying that? You know it's not true, your friends should know it's not true. Just let people believe what they want. You know what's true and what isn't. People that spread rumors basically have low self esteem about themselves and honestly, have no life whatsoever. If someone asks you about it saying "Wow, does your dad really beat you?!?!?" Just lift up your sleeves, tell them to look at you. As them "Do you see any bruises on me that look like defensive marks? No, I didn't think so." Unless you play rugby, or any other sport that would have physical contact in such a way, then they have no right to say anything like that. It's sheer stupidity is what that is. You can try talking to your guidance counselor and tell her about those horrible rumors being spread about you and your guidance counselor could even confront this little boy about the whole situation. All I have to say is boys will be boys.
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Well honestly, if I was at a friends home and I saw their father hit them, I would tell someone too. Although spreding it around school like a rumor is very wrong. Tell him that you feel hurt that he is sharing your problems with everyone in school, and if he wants to talk about it he should come to you.
Your father has a problem if that is how he expresses his anger, especially infront of guests. If this is a contiuing problem, please seek counsel.
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if you wanna get even, spread something about him that's a lie. if you wanna make it right, then tell him and other people to mind their own business and set the story straight. but if you really dont care what other people say, then just ignore them.
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Just tell your friends exactly what you told us here. Your father hit you because you were being rude. I'll bet most of them have been hit for the same reason. It will certainly sound reasonable, and make sense, and then they'll forget about it. In any event, it will pass soon, as soon as they have someone else to talk about.
Michele
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