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hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!
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if your friend really loves you she will understand, i was in the same situation a few years ago and me and the guy went on to date for 2 years and my friend got over her 2 week "crush" so if she does get mad at her then show her this questoin, tell her u care about her and u don't want a guy to get in the way, if she understands she will b a true friend but make sure that you give her a few days to settle down and don't kiss or anything in front of your friend, it will just rub it in her face and fusterate her!!
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I think that you should call your friend or go up to her in person and sit her down and say listen.. I like the same guy that you liked for a while and he told me that he liked me. He said he is going to wait for my answer because I said i didnt know because i thought about you. I really like this guy and i just wanted to come up to you and ask you how you would feel if I went out with him. If you really like this guy and she wont approve it, then shes not a real friend. Try it and i hope it works out!
-- amanda
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Your friend may like him, but he must like you. You can't help that. He isn't dating her so you aren't stealing him from her. You say yes you will go out with him. You explain it to your friend. She may be upset at first but if she is a true friend she will soon get over it. :)
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I think you should go for it. you both really like eachother and want to be with eachother. she likes him but he doesnt feel the same. just tell her that you are sorry but you liked him for ages and wasnt going to say anythin especially after you found out she likes him too but he told you he likes you just out of the blue and that you didnt encourage it. tell her its really hard because you dont want to hurt her feelings but if you dont do this then you and him are both left hurt.
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You didn't do anything wrong. It's not your fault that he likes you. If you say that this friend is you 'best' friend, then she'll understand. If you really like him, go out with him, and make your friend understand the situation you're in. She'll find a different guy. hope i helped.
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hi there
well this is a tough one, first of all if you have any respect for your friend you wouldnt approach this guy, its not like you're getting married, is it worth runing a friendship over, think about it if the table's were turned would you like it if your friend treated you this way which means she went out with the guy you really like,
i don't think you find many loyal people in thisworld but i have always believed in doing the right thing
if you are going to get involved with him regardless it would be nice if you have a mature talk with your friend. i can't say its the right thing to do , but you have the final say in what you decide to do with your life
whatever you decide good luck and God bless
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okay i was in this situation.. and i started to date the guy.. my closest friend was really upset.. and she hated me.. and called me a bitch and stuff like that.. but now me and that friend are very good friends still.. she eventually started to be nice to me again.. cuz its not my fault that he liked me.. and i did love him... me and the guy are still together... we have been together ever since.. so i would say follow your heart.. if you really care about this guy.. then go for it.. cuz you will always wonder what could have happened if you didnt do anything.. your friend will eventually cool down dont worry.. i hope this helps.. have a great day.. love ya.. xoxo..bye for now
love always Jess
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Well your right thats a tought problem but what I would say if this girl really is your friend and you really want to go out with this guy and she might get mad at you but if she really understands then she might be mad at you for awhile then she will edventully come around to being nice to you and being friends. If she really is a good friend a guy cant seperate you.
Hope i Helped
Sarah
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Ok its not your fault that he likes you so just go with it. your firend will be fine. so just be confident.good luck
MmSBaBe167
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umm NO!! that answer was soo wrong that she put!! you are suppose to be friends and you like him but if you want to sacrifice your friendship for that guy go right ahead but your girls come before your guys! no matter what!!so if you think this guy is gonna make you happier than your friend than date him but if not dont make a move and its sorta your fault, no offense, but you didnt tell ur friend you liked him so its not like she knew and if she was like any of my friends she would of backed off a long time ago! so your jus gonna have to let him go or your gonna make your best friend mad!! cuz you dont go to school to find your husband you got to find your BRiDeSmAiDs!!
GOOD LUCK~~ ~*!~AbBy~*!~
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You can't let a "fRiend" contRol who you associate and don't associate with. She has NOOO authoRity oveR you whatsoeveR!! In all honesty, you shouldn't feel bad oR guilty AT ALL about getting togetheR with this guy. Think of it this way: you *KNOW* that if youR fRiend weRe in YOUR position she wouldn't even give anotheR THOUGHT about *YOU* and *YOUR* feelings on the situation.. You need to think about YOURSELF heRe. Do what makes *YOU* happie; you can't spend youR woRRying about pleasing otheR people. Hopefully this has been even the slightest bit of help! =D
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HAHAHAHAAAHAHA!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO my answeR was JUST FINE "Redskin"; but thankk you foR the attention, Dollface!! Now, eveR stop to consideR that what woRks foR MEEE may not woRk foR YOUUU!?!?!?!? And that's peRfectly Respectable. In all faiRness, youR answeR wasn't any woRse than mine! *SMOOCH* ;D
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