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Perfect first kiss
Here’s the thing I’ve never been kissed (15/f), but there’s a guy I like so if I get a chance to kiss him I want to really impress him. And I don’t really even know the basics. I know many people say it’s good to just “go with the flow” and that it will happen naturally, but I’ve also heard many people talking about their first kiss and how bad it was and everything and how the other person didn’t like it at all. And I know it will really mater to him, because he is really hot (can get any girl he wants, but is not a player) and is a perfectionist, so if it goes wrong I will make a really bad impression and might never get a second chance. Plus he is two years older so I suppose he’s had a lot of experience. I really need someone to walk me trough everything. I am going for something that includes a French kiss, a kiss that he will remember in a good way that will sweep him off his feet.
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whoever said "go with the flow" is right, first kisses are like sex you do it when you're ready, that's why some people don't have good ones. my first kiss with my boyfriend was magic because we both wanted it and we knew that's what we wanted. if you are going to kiss him then just let your heart guide you. you'll be ok
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What kind of kiss ?
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www.VirtualKiss.com
walks u through the basics and more. try it, it worked for me.
-good luck
-olga
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But..you don't even know if he likes you back. And if it just happens that he feels the same way, why should be care how you kiss like? I would think it was pretty shallow. And once you have kiss, even if it is a bad one, doesn't mean it's gonna be the last.
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There are a few key things to remember about kissing.
1. No one wants their face covered in drool. Keep it neat and tidy. Especially a first kiss.
2. Unlike movies always show, open mouths are annoying. Keep your mouth comfortably open, but don't have it open so much you're almost biting his nose.
3. A little tongue is nice, but be warned: tongue feels super weird at first. You kind of get used to it, but it's weird weird weird feeling.
4. A tiny nibble on his lower lip is really hot. Most guys like that a lot.
5. TILT YOUR HEAD. I know it sounds way cliched, but if you don't, you're in for an awkward kissing moment. Just slightly, you don't have to be looking at him sideways, but it's deffinitely a plus to not be slammed face to face.
And then, go with the flow. It's not that difficult. Everyone's different, everyone likes different things, he may have a few tricks up his sleeve. And if he does, learn from them. A first kiss is really an educational thing. You learn a lot about what you like from it.
Hope I helped!
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umm sweety, i dont think it will really matter to him if he can get any girl he wants....ppsshshh... fairy tales dont always come true
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hey! i remember my first kiss. i was really nervous about it, cause like you, i wanted it to be good and i didnt really know what to do. the thing was, i knew it was coming, we didnt plan it or anything, but it was obvious it was coming. well i asked a friend of mine, and she said "just open your mouth" when she told me, i thought to myself, dont you have anything else better?? well, now i understand why. every kiss is different and guys like them differently. so really, all you can do is be prepared to open your mouth and close your eyes when that special moment comes. however, you know how in movies the girl always wants her first time she'll have sex to be perfect, and well, it never turns out perfect? well, honestly, your kiss with him might not turn out perfect. many people have bad recollections of their first kiss is because they didnt know what was coming and couldnt really compare it to anthing else. so really, my advice to you is, look at him in the eyes, get close to him, and let him get close to you. you'll feel it coming, and when it does, close your eyes, and let him lead you through it. some guys get flattered when they're your first. so just have fun and relax, cause everythings guna be fine. if you have more questions, drop a message in my inbox. peace and love
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My first kiss was really bad, because the guy ended up biting me! It's funny now that I look back on it, but neither of us really knew how to kiss, so it was weird. I don't think this is the normal definition of "bad", but I think everyone says it's bad just to be cliche, but mine seriously was because my lip got bit! It doesn't have to be bad.
The first time two people kiss, it's not going to be perfect. It'll be exciting though. But because the two have never kissed, you need to explore and find out what the other person likes. Good luck. I'm leaving you with a link that I went to when I was 12 and worried because I was going on my first date with a crush and didn't know what to do if he kissed me, considering I was bit the only time I was kissed before. I found that it helped me out, and I hope it will help you!
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