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i was gonna visit my dad whos in jail but he cancelled my visit i dont know why. any way he rang me after and i asked him he didnt tell me but his coming out in a few months and asked me and my little sister if we wanted to live with him. i wanna but my foster family am telling me he ay changed so i dont know what to do? anyone help. plus i do love my foster family but i wanna live with my dad
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It could be he had other things to do at that time. Especially if cancelling isn't something he does often.
I think You should give him time to adjust to being out of jail before you rush into living with him. Wait until he has a job and a place to live.
You also want to be sure that you will be safe living with him...you don't say why he is in jail. I believe some people can change, but you need to be sure before putting yourself back in the situation. :)
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Uhh.... since you havnt seen him in a while **(( im guessing ))** since you do love your family * foster family * stay with your dad for a couple of days if thats going great go vistit him every weekend or when ever you please.Since he is geting out you and your sister should invite him to meet your foster family
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do what ever your heart tells you
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ive been in jail and ive had to cancel visits too.Its because your dad doesnt want you to see him like that.If he has truly changed youll be placed back with him.Everything will happen in good time dont rush things.The foster family will make a great desicion im sure .Best of luck and i really hope things work out for you.
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Try to set up another visit with him. Then when he does get out wait a little while before living with him. Like visit him on weekends and stuff and see if you really would want to live with him and to see whether he's changed or not. By the way where is your Mother in all of this?
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Depends on what he did to get in jail, for nething BIG dont live with him Jail does crazy things to you! He isnt the same, he did SUMTHING wrong to lose you dont let him have a chance to hurt u! for ur sisters sake! and and the sanity of your foster family!
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Hello there,
You could just ask your Dad outright, again, what happened to the visit. He may not want to tell you because he got hurt or in a fight in jail. If he really doesn't want to tell you I am sure there is a pretty good reason, otherwise he would just tell you and it would be no problem.
Get ahold of him and see if you can get another visit with him all set up.
Send him a letter, just to say hello and all. Ask for a visit.
As far as living with him goes, I would have to ask this: What is he in jail for?
Did he hurt you or your sister?
If the answer to the last question is no, then I would be likely to want to live with my dad.
He is in jail. That is a problem. But if this is the only time he has been in jail, it may be the last time.
Everybody makes mistakes, and it doesn't sound like you are mad at him, so you should be able to forgive him for going away.
You could stay with your foster family for a while after he gets out, and you will see if he has changed or not. Think about this idea.
DangerNerd.
P.S. Where is your mom in all of this?
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Ahh thats so sad ! I think you should live with your dad sense he changed maybe you and your little sister could change him back. He is your own blood andd your foster family may be nice and all but i think you should go with you dad =) good luck hun !
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