about

Hey wassup its me jessica! yeah i made a new one cuz idk y but yeah i did and its guna b way better than my other one ! so yeah hope ya like it if not then ya dont iight heres a lil bout me!~!

Name: Jessica
Age:15
State: Arizona
Place: Mall
Friend: u no who u r

idk wat else to say but wana no more bout me IM me on AIM Mascara xo Tearz

Luv ya lotz!

x0x0x0 Jessica 0x0x0x

advice

ok so im dating this guy well call him ryan but i used to be best friends with this other guy well call him tyler and me n tyler used to stay up on the fone til like 4 in the mornin every nite 4 a year and he was like in love with m e but i was always to busy trying to make him jealous wen i really did like him so anyways last january Tyler pretty much gave up on me and we decided to be friends but it mademe sick i relized what a big mistake ive made and yea then not that long ago tyler told me he loved me but he likes this other girl wat the hell does that mean and i no me n him belong together wat could i do to get him bak and o yea im dating that 1 guy and weve been goin out for like 3 months and he really likes me but all i can think about is "tyler" but i really wana no how i could get him bak

Just explain to tyler that you still do honestly like him and just try to talk to him like you guys used to. and thing will work out for the best

[view]

okay so this morning i found out a man that was always there for me and was with me growing up and used to watch me died .. he had cancer for a while and it took 80% of his body .. so i had something like r.i.p lenny

I think thats horrible about the whole situation. Who ever did that on AIM is a horrible person. Just take it easy thru out the next couple of weeks days months... how ever long it will take you to get over it

[view]

I have a friend named Felicia and she's 16/F...all she likes to talk about is beer, boys, parties, people she hates..i don't know..she tries to act like she's all grown up now or whatever...well this morning i wanted to go for a scooter run with my other friend hannah...she was like, "umm no, that's ok i don't wanna smell like sh*t" so hannah and me went for the scooter run anyway..we had tons of fun! we came in and felicia was like "eeww you guys smell get away from me.." and she avoided us the rest of the night..(but at least we had fun! all she did was stay in and watch court tv with the judges and stuff..grrr..it's like she's trying to impress people by acting that she's not 10 anymore..(this is just an example of how she acts *all that* and *grownup*...trust me, there's tons more! she always acts like she's better than us and i really don't know what to do..please help!

COMFRONT HER! if she is acting all snotty and all that bull shyt then yeah of coarse do what you gota do to get rid of her. shes just using both of you guys to get out of her house so shes not there all night.It doesnt matter if your parents are bff's if you dont like her or if you fed up with her then w/e let your feeling out and let both of your mamas be friends

[view]

My guy friends giving me hints that he likes me. There are plenty of them except he likes another girl & our whole class knows that he does (ever her). Sometimes it seems like if he likes her & could tell her then if he likes me why couldn't he tell me? The signs are big & they're really hinting toward liking (talks to me on the phone for a long time, memorized my phone number, always finds an excuse to touch me, gazes into my eyes etc). How can I confront him about this?

Just be straight up with him just ask him " do u like me because alot of your friends keep on telling me that you do and I was just wondering" if he says he doesnt then its so OBVIOUS that he does

[view]

I went out with this guy named Chris.We were talking and relized that we were not going to see each other this summer. Since i was going to be gone for most of the summer. So i said to him that we could be friends. But i also think about him all the time. Waiting for him to get online. I think i still like him and i think that he still likes me. But i don't know if i should give it another try or let it go. And just be friends with him? Please help me. My e-mail is mandabear1321@aol.com or mandabear1321@ yahoo.com.

Keep on going stead with him. Because just for summer then thats wack ** no offence on your party or w/e ** i personally think you guys should stay 2gether and ifs obvious that both of yallz like each other still

[view]

well i have a few questions.
1. whats the "easiest" way to break up with someone? (i know its not "easy" but i barely talk to the guy anyway and thats why im breaking it off)
2. how long should i wait before going out with one of his friends? (we were together for 2 months...theyre not close and his friends last relationship ended a week into mine.)
thanks & let me know if u need more info.

1) The easieast * way is to tell him that things arent working out and you think you guys should see other people.....

2) you shouldnt have to wait for him or w/e.... if hes your ex-bf's friend then thats not all that great. But at the most time you should wait at least 1 ta 2 weeks.

theres enough info. need more ask me kk

[view]

ok heres the story: my friend, lets call her becky, well she has had a boyfriend for about 2 months now, lets call him bob. becky really likes bob but then again she can't make up her mind who she likes. she flirts with other guys and like me and her sister and her ex-bf think that bob is using her. bob is younger than her by a couple of months. every time i am with becky and bob they hold each other and crap and i am tired of it.(i'm not jealous b/c i have a bf.) bob makes faces behind beckys back and talks about her and shit and it makes me laugh so when becks asks what is so funny i say bob and then like he totally denies it. something is fishy about him b/c he wouldn't let becky see his yearbook. (btw becky is homeschooled and bob goes to public school. i don't know how to confront becky about this. i tried asking her before but she doesn't listen. i don't know what to do! HELP!

tel her hes is useing her and she needs to leave him! b/c there is a possible chance of him cheating if he goes to a pub. school. if she doesnt listen there nutin you can do b/c you tryed and she wont listen

[view]

Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!!

Just tell him to back off if he doesnt lock you guys in a room or tell your mom to tell him to go away or leave you guys alone.... its not a great idea but its worth a try :/

[view]

i'm rele freaked out by this one techer cuz he always is like makin fun of kids in a funny way, but it's not funny...so yea. And well, he is rele loud and strict and likes to yell at u b/ he thinks it's funny and cool. I was absent friday and needa make up a test, and i kno when i go to him tues. (when we get bac from school) afternoon...he'll try to be cool in front of his class and yell at me for being absent and try to make a fool outta me until my face turns red. What should I do so I can handle this with out being embaress and having my face turn red.

If he does yell at you just mad dog him till he looks away or something you could just ignore him and just stare at him like you usally would

[view]

I'm going to a swim meet to see my friend swim (I won't be swimming) and I want to wear some nice makeup that doesn't look too overdone but is nice and flirty. What colors should I wear, and what kind of makeup should I wear?

you should wear the skirt out-fit.and for makeup..... wear black eye line if you wear it. Mascara.... wear pink eye shawdo but not a whole lot ... iif you dont like to wear lip-stick wear lip gloss so it shines. IK your not asking for the hair but it would look really good if you put if half up half down and curl it

If you wear the white capris out-fit then white tip make up for eye shadow.. with blue tops. eye-liner and mascara same as before. instead of wearing glossy lip gloss dont make it so glossy just regualrly.You could put your hair all down and curl the tips or crimp it

just a idea idk if you would like it or not but its a cute thing to go for ....

[view]

i was gonna visit my dad whos in jail but he cancelled my visit i dont know why. any way he rang me after and i asked him he didnt tell me but his coming out in a few months and asked me and my little sister if we wanted to live with him. i wanna but my foster family am telling me he ay changed so i dont know what to do? anyone help. plus i do love my foster family but i wanna live with my dad

Uhh.... since you havnt seen him in a while **(( im guessing ))** since you do love your family * foster family * stay with your dad for a couple of days if thats going great go vistit him every weekend or when ever you please.Since he is geting out you and your sister should invite him to meet your foster family

[view]

okay so ive been goin out with this guy for like 2 months and we're both 14. i really like him alot and i want to invite him over to my house. but i dont know how to keep him entertained... because its not like i can have him in my bedroom because my parents will b home. what can we do? i never had a boy over to my house before so im kinda new at all this. please help me quick. and i dont want some things like play board games... cuz thats lame... or do alot of people do that with their boyfriends and girlfriends?

If he does go over than you guys can talk... if you have a pool go swimming if its hawt... or if that doesnt work out then you guys could watch movies :/ there not all that great of ideas but MAYBE they would work

[view]

I think I am fat but every one thinks Im skinny should i go on starve myselve diet or should I do what I am doing now

omg dont ever starve your self thats horrible! just do what your doing now

[view]

i am a 13/f. i need indepandance. i want to be able to go places. to peirce my belly button. to go to rated r movies. not to have to sneak out to see my boyfreind. dye my hair purple. own a housekey.
i cut my hair, and it looks okay, but my mom didnt see it yet. i am so grounded tommorow. i have like no freedom in my house. my mom reads my emails and my books! she doesnt let me go to peoples houses unless she knows them. doesn't want me to pluck my eyebrows like i do. sh wants me to let them be natural!?:/ doesnt want me to have a bf. (she would flip if she knew the truth)my mom is like a watchdog. i gotta do something. talking to her or my dad doesnt work. my mom is in charge of the family, and in my face. what should i do to gain her trust and rights that a teenager should have?
-thanks
-xoxo olga

Tell her you want to be able to do stuff regualr teenage girls are doing! if she doesnt let you then thats her bad. She can be a caring mother if she wants but cant be to controlling and to me she sounds WAY TO CONTROLLING! * no offence * if she doesnt let you do nothing or have nothing then just ask her to talk to you face to face

[view]

I found a pipe and a lighter in my brother's draw. I was furious because I'm am strongly against smoking. He's in college...I understand he's old enough to make his own descisions, but he has a lot going for him and I don't want him to screw up his future....What are the possibilities of what he was smoking? Like weed..tobacco?And, is there a site that has the bad effects of it, or if you guys can list some that will convince him to stop, I would appreciate it!

If he does it tell him that if he does to much of it it can screw up his lungs BBBBBBBBBAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if he doesnt quit then thats a major affect on his life and others around him

[view]

ohk im 13 + my sister is a sophmore ... anyways she is going to senior prom with a friend this friday so i wnt to do her make - up because i believe im very artistic she said fine ohk you can do my make up on wednesday just to see, her dress is baby blue so gimmie some make up tips ... you know how can do her make - up thnx !

If she wears eye liner put black eye liner on. For eye shadow do a white bottom color with a light blue on the top of that. Instead of useing lipstick use chapstick first then put lip gloss so it shines

[view]

oK, SORRY FOR THE LENGTH...ok well i was talking to my friend online(he is a guy lets call him Tod) and he was saying that him and his friend(lets call him Ben) called my house to see if i wanted to come over, but i wasn't there so i couldn't. And when i was talking with him online he said that they had drinks(we are all 14 by the way) and they wanted me to come over to have more fun, and when i asked what type of fun it was they said, "A girl and guys getting wasted not caring what they are doing, like any base" So i just went along with it and then they said next time i should come. I mean i want to come and i want to hang out with them, bc they are my really good friends, but i dont know what will happen if i drink...any advice?!!! I RATE HIGH FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!!
please i need advice.
thx

If you wana go then go. If you wana drink then do what you want! Just watch out what happends because they might try somethin if they r drunk with you also. You may think they aint guna do nuthin just bc they your friends but that dont mean jack

[view]

well me and my boyfriend are so happy together well he lives with his grandparents and his grandma doesn*t like me at all even though I never did anything to her well my boyfriend recently got a job and he works from 4:45 until 1:00 in the morning and his grandparents won*t let him call me when he gets home well I call him during the day cause he is home but his grandma only lets us talk for about 20 minutes so we never get to talk or see each other which is bad for a relationship but I love my boyfriend so much he makes me happy and everything but I don*t want a boyfriend that I never get to spend time with or get to talk to and it is summer right now so should I break up with him? or should I stay with him? I don*t wanna be lonely but if I have to I will plz help me I rate high! thanxs so much

Ask him to ask his grandma to let him talk to you for a little longer. If she doesnt then she doesnt. I think you should stay with him but I aint your moms so do what you want. If summer is comeing and you still wont be able to see him then thats crap and you should be able to c him when ever you want !!!!! If she still doesnt let you c him then ask your mama to talk to his grandma!

[view]

I am currently 16, male, and have been told I don't understand love. Even if that is true, I KNOW I love this one girl. See, we know each other very well, but we dont live close together. She moved away last year. We know there is something there, but we are both scared. What should I do? Ask her out, or wait till I can get back to her?

ASK HER OUT!!! or wait for her. you should definatly ask her out though because you never know she might get another boy friend and might not wana wait for you

[view]

Ok. Well I met this guy online about 7 months ago-We've been talking ever since the night we met. The thing is he lives in Tennesee and I live in Alabama. We met in a chatroom. I kinda like him and vice versa with him. I would go out with him but I would feel very stupid becuase I don't need an internet relationship. We could see eachother sometime because he travels with his family to auburn to watch their football games and I go with my father. I'm so confused and I have no earthly idea what to do.

Signed,
Internet Lover

If you do like him then go out with him! its better than loosing him if what ever happends. Dont fill stupid because at least he likes you and you guys will be able to c each other once in a while

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker