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Question Posted Tuesday May 31 2005, 12:58 pm

ok so im dating this guy well call him ryan but i used to be best friends with this other guy well call him tyler and me n tyler used to stay up on the fone til like 4 in the mornin every nite 4 a year and he was like in love with m e but i was always to busy trying to make him jealous wen i really did like him so anyways last january Tyler pretty much gave up on me and we decided to be friends but it mademe sick i relized what a big mistake ive made and yea then not that long ago tyler told me he loved me but he likes this other girl wat the hell does that mean and i no me n him belong together wat could i do to get him bak and o yea im dating that 1 guy and weve been goin out for like 3 months and he really likes me but all i can think about is "tyler" but i really wana no how i could get him bak

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karenR answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 2:30 pm:
Break up with Ryan. Not fair to date someone just to say you have a boyfriend. It's obvious you don't have many feelings for him.

As far as Tyler goes, stop playing games if you want a serious relationship. Those make him jealous games may very well have cost you a relationship with him. You need to talk to him. Fess up about the trying to make him jealous thing and hope for the best. He may have more feelings for you than the other girl, but, he may not want to play games with you anymore. You need to do some talking...get on the phone! :)

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BaMzmAmAn19 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 4:14 pm:
Just explain to tyler that you still do honestly like him and just try to talk to him like you guys used to. and thing will work out for the best

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TheAllKnowingJanelle answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 1:54 pm:
First off: Your horrid spelling and grammar make me want to beat you with a dictionary. Seriously.

Second of all, he apparently doesn't love you if he likes some other girl. Judging from your poor spelling, you can't be more than 12 or 13. There is a slim to none chance that you'll actually find your "true love" at this age.

You already have someone who you're dating, be happy with what you have. You lost your chance at a couple of months of puppy love. Maybe if you were older and more mature and knew what love was (by the way, talking on the phone until 4AM is not love, just to clarify) and you had a true connection with this person, you should try to fight for it. If he really ment that much to you, you yourself could think of a way to get him back if you knew him well enough.

Let the puppy love you have with him just die already, I guarantee you that you won't end up marrying that "tyler" kid because at your age, you don't know what love is.

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caliexoxo13 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 1:41 pm:
Well first of all you need to tell the guy you're dating the truth. I know it might be hard, but it's the right thing. Then tell Tyler the truth and how you really do like him. Apologize to him and you never know if hes sweet and really does love you. He will consider it. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out Okay. *Calie*

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